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Niu Dali didn't expect that Xia Dongchun would have the idea of letting Xia Dongcao reconcile.

Of course, when he saw Lin Yongsheng planning to sell his two cousins and aunt before, he had this idea.

He could see that the life of his aunt and his two cousins in the Lin family was not good, the three of them were wearing shabby clothes, and they were very thin, although it was the spring ploughing season and the weather was warmer, but the temperature was still a little low, and there was nothing in the afternoon, but it was still quite cold in the early morning and evening.

However, he also knows that it is not easy to make his aunt reconcile.

It was unfair to women in ancient times.

Divorce seems to be a common thing in modern times, and even many people think that it is just a trivial matter, anyway, they can't get by, maybe they will leave without freshness, and everyone will change to a fresh one.

But in ancient times, especially for women, it was like a bolt from the blue.

In ancient times, divorce was divided into two kinds, one was divorced by the man, called divorce, the husband's family would use the so-called "seven out of the rule" to abandon the woman, and the woman who was generally divorced would be discriminated against, pointed at by people, and under the constraints of etiquette, either lonely and self-reliant, or committed suicide in shame.

The second type is better, the woman files for divorce, called reconciliation, which is a way to use harmony as the precious, and divorce after negotiation.

However, a woman who can be reconciled must have the support of her mother's family, and her mother's family background is not weaker than that of her husband's family, otherwise she will only be abandoned by her husband's family.

It's just that whether it is divorced or divorced, for women, not only will they be talked about coldly, but even the people in their mother's family will be affected.

In addition, people's thinking is that the daughter who marries out, the water that spills out, and the daughter who marries out has to follow her husband's family name and serve her mother-in-law.

Even if you know that your daughter is not having a good time at her in-law's house, if you are close, you can come to the door to say a good word for your daughter, but you generally don't intervene directly.

After all, the daughter will have to live in her husband's house for the rest of her life in the future.

But if you marry far away, you can't take care of it if you're afraid.

And women are even more so, even if they have a hard and bitter life in their husband's family, they have never thought about separation, and there is only one belief that supports them, that is, the daughter-in-law will become a mother-in-law and will suffer as much as possible.

Therefore, few families generally choose to divorce.

Just like Xia Dongcao, even if her mother's family supports her and Lin Yongsheng's reconciliation, she still has to think about her two daughters to be married.

When a good family chooses a daughter-in-law, they will consider the right person and the parents who look at the girl's family.

As the so-called upper beam is not right, the lower beam is crooked.

There is a divorced mother, no matter how good the girl is, maybe she will follow the learning and separation in the future.

"Grandma, my uncle asked my aunt and grandmother to be reconciled, what is harmony?" Erya was very curious about what harmony was called, and asked Xia Chang in a low voice.

"I told you to read more books at ordinary times, but you didn't listen, and now you know what it means to use books!" the big girl whispered.

"You know, what do you say?" said the second girl, pouting.

"Uncle asked my aunt and grandmother to live separately from my aunt!"

"Grandma, is what my sister said true?" asked Erya.

Xia Changshi touched Erya's little head with pity, her heart was extremely sad, she couldn't understand why her two daughters were so miserable!!

The eldest daughter died young.

The little girl is like this again!

In fact, about the matter of Xia Dongcao and separation, Xia Dongchun mentioned it once before.

Xia Dongchun is a distressed sister, and during the New Year, I watched my sister and two nieces come to visit the New Year in thin old clothes.

You must know that during the Chinese New Year, the weather was still very cold, my sister and two nieces didn't even eat breakfast, and when they walked from Linjia Village to Xishi Village, they shivered from the cold, and their niece's little face was even whiter, and her lips were chapped, and Lin Yongsheng didn't even see a ghost.

At that time, Xia Dong and Spring were not good, and threatened to let Xia Dongcao not live with Lin Yongsheng.

But they were rejected by Xia Dongcao, and although Xia Changcheng and Xia Changshi couldn't bear it, they didn't agree to let Xia Dongcao and Lin Yongsheng reconcile.

The reason is very simple, Sister Lin and Sister Lin want to get married, and they need to have a family to rely on.

But this time, Lin Yongsheng actually planned to take Xia Dongcao and Lin Damei, and Lin Xiaomei to repay gambling debts, which had already crossed the bottom line in the Xia family's heart.

They can tolerate Lin Yongsheng ignoring his wife and daughter, but they definitely can't tolerate Lin Yongsheng's plan to sell Xia Dongcao's mother and daughter.

And this side.

Xia Dongchun heard that Xia Dongchun was unwilling to reconcile, so he didn't come out in anger, "Why don't you listen to me?" Lin Yongsheng, that beast is planning to sell the eldest sister and the younger sister, do you think he will care about the relationship between the eldest sister and the younger sister?"

Xia Chuanhe said angrily: "Yes, sister-in-law, in order to pay off gambling debts, he can sell you and the eldest sister and the younger sister to the people in the casino, sister-in-law, you don't know what kind of place the casino is, right?

Xia Dongcao was said to be confused.

She didn't know this truth, but what did she do, even if she really reconciled with Lin Yongsheng, could she still live in her mother's house for the rest of her life as a married girl?

Even if the father, mother, eldest brother, and nephew have no opinion, what do the people in the village think?

I'm afraid that their Xia family will be laughed at and poked in the back.

"Uncle, auntie, do you think I should ask the opinions of the eldest sister and the younger sister on this matter?" Niu Dali said suddenly.

Lin Damei and Lin Xiaomei looked at him with stunned expressions.

Niu Dali smiled innocently at the two of them.

Xia Changcheng pondered for a moment, sighed and said: "Well, it makes sense to say vigorously, Dongcao doesn't dare to reconcile for the sake of the eldest sister and the younger sister, and we should also listen to the opinions of the two of them." ”

Xia Chuanhe hurriedly persuaded: "Eldest sister, little sister, what kind of life are you living in that house, I think you all know that you are not treated by people at all." ”

A pair of eyes stared at Lin Damei and Lin Xiaomei, which made the two girls a little overwhelmed.

In fact, Sister Lin and Sister Lin never thought about the separation of their mother and father before.

But after hearing the eldest girl and the second girl talk about what happened in Lao Niu's house before, some small thoughts rose in their hearts.

Before the cousin's family broke off, the cousin-in-law, the eldest girl and the second girl lived a similar life to them, but since the break, the cousin's family has been getting better and better, which can't help but make them have different ideas.

If they leave that home with their mothers, will life be better than before?

No, it probably doesn't get worse than that.

They have to get up before dawn to work, and in order to subsidize the family, they have to follow their mother's embroidery work every day and night to earn silver.

And my father never worked, he only gambled, and he reached out to his mother to ask for money for a piece of silver, and the money they earned was eventually taken by his father to gamble.

If they lose money, their father will take them out of anger, beat them and scold them for losing money and being a broom star.

The mother protected them, but her face was swollen and bleeding from the beating of her father.

But the mother didn't let them tell their grandparents, and the uncle listened to them, saying that their grandmother was old and couldn't stand the fright.