When Du Kangshi heard this, he turned his head to look at her, and suddenly smiled, which made Du Lan really laugh inexplicably, and looked at him inexplicably.

Du Kangshi was still laughing, Du Lanzhen was furious in his heart, and stared at him silently, until Du Kangshi finished laughing and saw that Du Lanzhen was still staring at him, before he spoke, "I laughed at Fairy Du has always been arrogant, and he actually asked me how I behaved." ”

Duran gave him a blank look.

"There's not much to say. Du Kangshi finally said with a straight face, "It's too much to say that you are exquisite and long-sleeved and good at dancing, and you don't believe it, in short, it's mediocre, it's a down-and-out and generous core beauty disciple of the sect." ”

Du Lanzhen gave him another look, "The core disciple is the core disciple, what do you do with a beautiful woman!"

"Don't say it, the core beauty disciples of this sect have eight words, and not a single word is missing. Du Kangshi smiled.

"What is the reason for this?" asked Duran Zhen with an eyebrow.

"Sect disciples, so they have confidence and vision, core disciples, so they are confident and arrogant, beautiful disciples, so they are cold and self-conscious, all of the three, one is not enough to say that you are a person. ”

Duran was silent.

"Sixth brother is not wrong, right?" Du Kangshi looked at her with a smile.

Duran was really silent, and finally nodded slightly.

"If you ask me how I'm doing today, I can only say that it's good, but if I have to praise you, then I can't say it. Du Kangshi said softly with a smile, "We've known each other for ten years, and I know you well if I ask myself, I want you to ask me how I'm doing, and I don't want to listen to it and it's over." You want to be a person who has its own charm between words, and can break people without relying on cultivation, appearance, and background, yes or no?"

Duran nodded silently.

"That's it. Du Kangshi nodded, "You are like this, no one thinks there is anything wrong with you, for a core beautiful disciple of the sect, it is enough." But if you are not a core disciple of the sect, we people will not look at you differently, if you are not a beautiful female cultivator, just an ordinary male cultivator, even if you are also a core disciple of the sect, you will be a little arrogant. However, if you are a beautiful young female cultivator, if there is no interest involved, the male cultivator will always be more tolerant of you, and your slight coldness will not matter. ”

Duran was silent.

"You don't have to be sad. Du Kangshi looked at her and said, "Beauty, talent, and teacher are all your dependence, and you don't have to forcibly separate." How many people in this world can be as charismatic as you seek, and how can they have the same conditions as you?"

"Don't be demanding, you must know that no one is perfect. Du Kangshi said, "You always like to be yourself, this is not good, it is easy to drill the horns, maybe it will be beneficial to you in the short term, but in the long run, it will definitely be bad for you." ”

Duran Zhen slowly rolled up his sleeves and didn't say a word.

"If I had to say where you need to improve, I think there's only one thing I can say. Seeing that she didn't speak, Du Kangshi said, "You have to suppress your arrogance, look at others calmly, and with the purpose of discovering the good in others." ”

"You're a bit pretentious, and I don't know if you've found out for yourself. Du Kangshi looked into her eyes, "With your conditions, this is normal." But you have to know that others may be inferior to you in some places, and they may be very bad in some places, but they naturally have advantages, and maybe you need his help at some point, which is not certain. ”

"Only when you can discover the strengths of others can you admit your own strengths, and if you can tolerate the shortcomings of others, you can tolerate your own shortcomings. Otherwise, you can only see that you are far superior to you and far inferior to you, that you are far beyond you, that you are difficult to shoot and despair, that you are far inferior to you, that you think that it is not worth mentioning and that it is not worth comparing, and in the long run, the more pretentious and arrogant you are, the more self-pity and self-contempt you will become, and it will be useless for you to practice. ”

Du Lan was really shocked, what Du Kangshi said was the same as what she thought!

Seeing her moved, Du Kangshi couldn't help but smile, "Look at that aid, why did you say that he targeted Deng Zhou, but he was polite to you and me?"

"Isn't it because he... Greet the high and the low, and watch the people put down the dishes?" said Duran Zhen, frowning.

Du Kangshi heard her say this, and pondered for a while, "If you say that, it actually makes sense, but it's too harsh to say it." He smiled, "Speaking of which, he is also a little similar to you, he is arrogant, and he is not as good as himself in his eyes, but he knows that he is far inferior to people who are better than himself, and it is difficult to look down on himself." ”

Such a person must find some superiority in others, otherwise it will be difficult to maintain his mentality, and he will be lost in self-contempt, inferiority, and blame. Facing the high and stepping on the low, it seems to be too much, not yet. ”

When Duran really heard it, she was shocked for a while, and when she thought about it again, she felt that it made a lot of sense, but being directly told and facing the ugliness in her heart made her quite uncomfortable for a while.

"You only listen to me, and every time you meet someone, you recite it silently, and learn from it. ”

Duran really said, "Sixth brother, please say." ”

Du Kangshi said solemnly: "You have to remember that not all the people in this world have the superior conditions you have. ”

Du Lan Zhen looked into his eyes, and she suddenly thought that she was so talented and treated, and she was so arrogant and pretentious, would the sixth brother be very uncomfortable when he got along with her?

Perhaps, with Du Kangshi's state of mind and experience, most of them are not jealous of her as a little girl, but when they always see her with treasures and ignore them, they are always dissatisfied with the appearance of inadequacy, and melancholy is probably always inevitable, right? I'm afraid it is inevitable to feel funny and naïve.

She has learned a lot from Du Kangshi and is willing to get along with him, which she thinks is very pleasant, but will Du Kangshi feel happy with her?

She asked the immortals, even if she asked for complete blame, it was because the questioner should be a corporal and promised himself, but how could he make himself feel sorry for himself and not know how to cherish his blessings? Since she sought perfection and blame, it is natural to pursue the state of mind rather than obsessing over its external performance, which is a move to put the cart before the horse, and to abandon the original and pursue the end.

Thinking of this, Du Lan really looked upright, and sincerely waved at Du Kangshi, "Jin Yu's good words, there is nothing to repay, I can only thank the sixth brother first!"

Du Kangshi smiled slightly and accepted her gift calmly.

This is the wonderful use of the "couple" in the law of cultivating immortals and wealthy couples. If it weren't for Du Kangshi's timely reminder, I don't know that Du Lan would not be unaware of it, it will become more and more intense, and in the end, it will be difficult to return, who knows how much effort will be spent to make up for it. Naturally, I realized that it was good to be early.

The two walked outside Youyuxuan, Du Kangshi said goodbye to Yan Ruxing and Xie Roujin and his wife, and Du Lanzhen still insisted on sending it again.

Walking out of the three miles, Du Kang said suddenly, "However, you really don't need to be arrogant, you are a personal disciple of the Extreme Dust Sect, and you may not be able to compete for the position of true disciple after a few decades, others are good or bad, why compare them?

"Besides, you are the Zhilan Yushu of our Du family, the ancestor once said that it must be you who will magnify the lintel of our house, so why don't you wake up quickly?"

Du Lan was really ashamed and speechless, Du Kangshi paused and patted her on the shoulder, "That's it, you don't have to send it anymore, otherwise, it's better to go back to the Extreme Dust Sect with me!"

Du Lan really looked at him with a smile, and couldn't help but glance at him with disgust, "Isn't this grateful to the sixth brother in my heart, I can't express it!"

"You always remember how good others are to you, Sixth Brother knows. Du Kangshi laughed, "Go back, go and see your sister, people really worship you, when you are ashamed of yourself, think about how He Muling treats you, naturally calm." ”

When Du Lanzhen heard this, he thought of Xi Zhao and was silent for a moment, "It makes a lot of sense." ”

At this point, the two finally parted.

Du Lan really sent Du Kang to be slow and leisurely, but it was a lightning speed when he went back, until he entered Youyuxuan, and then he walked up slowly, with a fairy appearance, and felt that he had found a mood omission, and he was in a good mood, and he felt that the scenery of Youyuxuan was also sparse.

He Muling received her transmission note, and learned that she wanted to take a look at the scenery of Youyuxuan, and immediately volunteered to be her guide, Du Lanzhen made an appointment with her to meet in the Slender Spring Pool, asked the direction of the disciple of Youyuxuan, and passed unhurriedly.

By the time Du Lanzhen walked to the Thin Spring Pool, He Muling had already arrived, but there were several Qi Refining Stage cultivators in front of her at this time, both men and women, with unkind faces and menacing momentum, and He Muling's face was like frost, completely different from the appearance of smiling in front of Du Lanzhen.

Du Lan is really so old, except for the relationship with the old enemy Ling Hu Xuan, who fought openly and secretly with each other but did not break it, the rest of the time, if someone provokes her, she will do it directly, why beep if she can do it?

However, this is not the Extreme Dust Sect, she doesn't know the beginning and end of the matter, and she is only a new acquaintance with He Muling, and she is a foundation building senior, so naturally it is not good to be so neat, but if she wants to wait and see what happens, she doesn't feel that she needs to, and she is not interested in it.

Therefore, Du Lanzhen stepped forward calmly, glanced at the monks with a smile, as if he didn't see this tense posture at all, there was a harmonious and happy situation in front of him, and asked He Muling with a smile, "You came early, let you wait for a long time, if it is convenient, delay your time, let's go to the lake?"