Chapter Eighty-Seven: Learn to get along with others

Pei Ruxi has heard a lot of similar words, and patience should be.

Aunt Ying touched her head, took pity on her sensible, and said softly: "The range of five hundred miles to the south is not small, and it will be tiring for you to investigate." In this way, you assist Peida and them in the investigation, or they assist you, the results of the investigation must be accurate, but everything is based on your own safety. ”

"Auntie, I'm not good at telling others to do things. The favored Pei Ruxi blinked, and said with a temperament, "I will do what I should do well, can you tell others to do what they should do?"

"Why?" asked Yinggu.

"Because I don't like dealing with people. Pei Ruxi replied.

In the words of her previous life, she was withdrawn and had no leadership qualities.

For example, on Po's birthday, a group of children quarreled and quarreled over the question of "who bullied whom". Pei Ruxi felt that they were very annoying and wanted them not to quarrel.

However, she had no other way than to use spells to forcibly suppress all quarrels.

She lacks eloquence, and she also lacks the emotional intelligence to resolve various communication conflicts, how to convince others and listen to her?

You can be convinced by running the "Flower and Moon Appearance Method", but it is a lie, not really convinced. Once the maintenance of the mind is lost, the deceived feelings will dissipate, and the deceived person will wake up and be angry at the fact that he has been deceived.

As the saying goes: Do not do to others what you would not do to yourself.

Pei Ruxi doesn't like to be deceived, and if it is not necessary, he will not use "Flower and Moon Appearance Method" to deceive other people's feelings.

Moreover, she doesn't think that being unsociable is a mistake that needs to be corrected, and she doesn't think it's bad to be unlikable, and it is wrong to force herself to like it and wronged herself in exchange for the likes of others.

She confessed to Yinggu: "I can usually do things quickly and well by myself, and I often can't get satisfactory results when I ask others to do things, which is a waste of time and effort, so it's better for me to do everything alone." ”

It was the first time for Aunt Ying to hear Pei Ruxi speak from her heart, and she was still talking such innocently.

After being speechless for a long time, Aunt Ying said: "As in the past, if you want to find out which demon beasts are within a radius of five hundred miles in one day, but you can't finish it alone, do you still ask someone else to help you explore?"

Pei Ruxi said: "I won't embarrass myself. What is difficult to do but must be done, I do my best to do it, success is an unexpected joy, failure is expected, there is no need to blame myself. After all, manpower is always poor, and it's easy to admit that you can't do something. ”

"You misunderstood me. Aunt Ying looked helpless, "I suggest that when you encounter difficulties, don't think about it alone, and know how to find others to help you according to the actual situation." There is great power in numbers, and you can't do things alone as well as a group of people. ”

Pei Ruxi pursed his lips and said, "I don't like to ask for help." ”

Yinggu said, "Discuss with others. ”

Pei Ruxi: "Consultation and seeking truth mean two things, I don't exclude consultation." ”

Aunt Ying found that Pei Ruxi's personality was not likable, but she was beautiful and cute, which made people hate her.

"You have a plan, you can do whatever you want. Yinggu gave up reasoning, "The matter is handed over to you, I won't ask you about the process of doing things, I just want the result." ”

"Good. Pei Ruxi responded, slightly depressed.

"Don't be upset. Aunt Ying couldn't bear to look at her lost expression, and took out a piece of jade cake to feed her, "As in the past, my aunt believes in your ability. If you work hard, you will definitely be able to get things done, whether it is to find out the details of the monster or get along with others. ”

Pei Ruxi took a bite of the jade cake in his hand and asked, "Why do I want to get along with others?"

Ying Gu hit the nail on the head: "You are not strong enough. Even if you don't like to get along with other people, you have to learn to get along with them. ”

Pei Ruxi, who was not strong enough, ate the jade cake, wiped his mouth, and went to find Pei Da and the others.

Pei Da is one of the clansmen who raise blue and white spirit fish, which is good at water and good at hiding. Although his cultivation is not high, he has participated in hunting five or six times, which can be called experienced, and it is not the first time that he has been ordered to investigate the details of demon beasts.

After receiving Pei Ruxi's message, Pei Da and the other eighteen people gathered in the newly built spacious wooden house and waited for her orders.

For Pei Ruxi, who had cultivated to the tenth level of qi refining at the age of nine, Pei Da and ordinary clansmen were respectful.

The gap between them and her is too great for them to be jealous, nor to have the desire to underestimate her age.

Don't mention anything else, just say that the demon beast blocked the way yesterday:

Pei Da and four or five monks surrounded a large scorpion of the eighth layer of qi refining, and fought carefully, for fear of accidentally losing his life; Pei Ruxi didn't need the help of others, and released two water dragons to contain a gray wolf with a tenth layer of qi refining, and killed it alone in less than a quarter of an hour.

She's so strong that no one with a brain will think of her as a nine-year-old.

Pei Ruxi, who was cultivating with his eyes closed, sensed that everyone was together, opened his eyes, and raised his hand to present the map of five hundred miles south of the stronghold in the form of a water mirror in the house.

The map is a quarter of a circle, and the center of the circle is where the stronghold is located. A pitch-black waterhole is two hundred miles from the center of the circle, with an octopus drawn in red pen; a yellow river runs through the map, the upper reaches of the river are between the mountains, and the lower reaches are sketched by simple figures of crocodiles and other monsters; the rest of the area is less dangerous because of the mountains and water.

Pei Ruxi pointed to the map and said: "I can find out the situation in the lower reaches of the Huangsha River and Heishuitan alone, and the rest of the area will be left to you to investigate, is there a problem?"

"Miss, the Black Water Pool is dangerous!" Pei Da worried.

"The waters are difficult to explore, and the young lady is strong, so she can't just take care of herself. Someone was worried about himself, "Miss, it's better for you to take us to investigate than to investigate separately, the monsters here are very fierce......"

Pei Ruxi listened to their opinions and said, "The Black Water Pool is not dangerous to me, and other areas are dangerous to you, but on the whole, they can be explored. ”

"No, our cultivation is low, in case we alarm the demon beasts......"

"The clan's breath trick can hide your breath, you don't make accidents, you don't alarm the demon beasts. If you are alarmed, you may flee. Pei Ruxi said, "If you have to get together with me to investigate, then follow me to investigate the Black Water Pool." ”

The people were silent.

It is said that the octopus in the black pool may be a third-order demon beast, and running near it to observe it, isn't this looking for death?

Pei Ruxi, who frightened everyone, looked around at everyone and said undeniably: "Everyone has no problem, the matter is settled." I'll go to Blackwater Pool later, and you can start your investigation from here. She pointed a location on the map, "If there is an accident, please use the messenger to contact the sixth uncle who stayed in the stronghold." ”

Perceiving everyone's reluctance, Pei Ruxi recalled the books on interpersonal communication he had read in his previous life, and took out a stack of second-order water gun talismans drawn by himself from the storage bag for everyone, "One for each person, when I give it to you, I don't want your money." ”