083 Ranran, singing
In the next two days, Xu Mu entered the life of a father with children in advance.
Every day, in addition to practicing Purple Qi Donglai Gong, the main thing is to accompany Duan Ranran to eat, drink and have fun, and to attend dance training classes, and even the Dragon and Tiger Mighty Vajra Gong has no time.
Duan Ranran's ballet learning, it's not that her mother forced her to learn any specialty, but that the little girl herself is very interested in dance, and she doesn't know which TV show she thinks it's beautiful after watching ballet, so she took the initiative to tell her mother that she wants to learn to dance.
I've been learning for a while, and now I'm dancing well, and even the ballet teacher says that this kid is the most talented one in the class, and if he persists, he may be able to go professionally.
Maybe it's because of the single-parent family, Duan Ranran is already very sensible and well-behaved at a young age, and she won't feel annoyed or bored at all with her, but she can always make you happy.
Xu Mu suddenly felt a little mentally that it was a joke for Mr. Han to urge him to have a child, but if he really had a child, he shouldn't find it difficult to accept, right?
Most of today's young people, especially men, are more resistant to having children. Not to mention falling in love, even if you are married, facing the pressure of your wife, parents, father-in-law and mother-in-law, you will carry the burden of not wanting children.
On the one hand, many people feel that their economic and material conditions are not good enough, and having children is a drag, on the other hand, they feel that they have not grown up, and it is a terrible thing to have children, and they are completely unprepared, and they do not want children in their hearts.
But Xu Mu has never had these worries, and he has never felt that children are scary.
When he was with Gao Ge, he thought about what life would be like with children in the future, but the result was that Gao Ge felt that even after getting married, he didn't plan to have children for the time being, but Xu Mu was a little looking forward to it.
On this day, after Xu Mu took Duan Ranran from the dance training class, he took her to KFC to eat French fries and ice cream as agreed.
It stands to reason that every time he goes to eat KFC, Duan Ranran should be very happy, jumping up and down along the way to guess correctly. But today the little girl is extraordinarily quiet, walking with her head down along the way, and her mood is not high.
Xu Mu could naturally see that something was wrong, so he asked, "Ran Ran, what's wrong, is there anything unhappy?"
The little girl held Xu Mu's hand, but there was a faint entanglement on her innocent little face at this time, as if she didn't know whether to tell Xu Mu about something.
"Is there any secret that even my uncle can't tell?" Xu Mu made a sad look.
In front of children, Mai Meng really doesn't feel disgusting at all~~
"No, no......" Duan Ranran immediately shook his head, and said with some grievances: "Today, the dance teacher thought that Uncle You were Dad, but I said No, Uncle is not Dad." The teacher asked me again why I never saw my father......
Speaking of this, the sadness in the little girl's eyes became even stronger.
Duan Ranran continued to lower his head, took small steps, and said to himself: "Ranran misses his father very much. But every time Ran Ran cried and clamored to see her father, her mother would be very sad, and her mother would cry. Later, when Ran Ran grew up, she became sensible and knew that she couldn't say that she wanted to see her father in front of her mother. Because Ran Ran doesn't want to see her mother cry, her mother has to take care of Ran Ran, it's already very hard, and Ran Ran can't make her mother sad. ”
"However, Ran Ran sometimes just misses her father......"
"During the kindergarten sports meeting, the parents of other children will participate, but Ran Ran is the only mother. Other children in the kindergarten sometimes laughed at Ran Ran, saying that Ran Ran was a girl without a father. ”
"Uncle, why doesn't Ran Ran have a father?"
After speaking, the little girl raised her head and looked at Xu Mu and asked. The little eyes were already red, the tears kept rolling in the eyes, but they didn't stay, the little face looked very stubborn, she was holding back not to let herself cry.
But this kind of stubbornness made Xu Mu even more distressed.
He never thought that the little girl would understand this. I never thought that the little girl would hide these things in her heart so sensibly, know how to take care of her mother's emotions, and not make her mother sad.
But how sad should she be for herself, her little heart?
Xu Mu hurriedly picked her up and comforted her softly: "But Ran Ran has a mother who loves you the most in the world." There are also three grandfathers, three grandmothers, and uncles, and we all love Ran Ran. ”
Xu Mu knows a little about Ran Ran's father, he is a very complete scumbag, otherwise Ran Ran's mother would not have divorced him directly after giving birth to a child.
And not long after the divorce, this person married another woman.
Over the years, he has almost never come to see Ran Ran, it's not that Xu Nan doesn't allow him to come to see the child, but he doesn't know why he hasn't come to see it.
But Xu Mu couldn't tell Ran Ran about these things.
I can't tell her not to miss your father, your father is a bad person, and it's not worth missing him.
In this way, I am afraid that it will make the child's heart more uncomfortable and leave a bigger shadow on the psyche.
So Xu Mu could only comfort her like this.
"Well, Ran Ran has an uncle. The little girl nodded vigorously, but tears still flowed.
Xu Mu wiped her tears distressedly and coaxed: "Okay, okay, Ran Ran won't cry, if she cries again, she won't be a beautiful little princess." ”
"Ran Ran didn't cry, Ran Ran didn't cry. The little girl rubbed her eyes vigorously with her hands, trying to keep herself from tears, but her eyes turned redder.
"Ran Ran, if you can't tell your mother when you miss your father in the future, you can call your uncle, okay with your uncle? Xu Mu said.
"Hmm. Got it, uncle. Duan Ranran nodded vigorously.
Coaxed for a long time, and after walking to the KFC store, Duan Ranran barely stopped crying, only occasionally sobbing. After eating ice cream and fries, I forgot about what I had just done for a while.
A child's sorrow always comes and goes quickly.
Xu Mu went back and prepared to talk to his parents about it, hoping to use more love to make the little girl feel less lonely and make up for the lack of father's love.
Otherwise, when the child grows up, his personality will also be affected.
At this time, Xu Mu suddenly thought of Gao Ge.
Gao Ge has also been a single-parent family since he was a child and has no mother. And her father is not a person who is good at expression, and he will not take care of Duan Ranran like Xu Nan.
Later, Gao Ge's father almost didn't discuss with her, so he got married again and found her a stepmother. Gao Ge and her stepmother don't get along well, and they can't find the warmth of the family.
Later, the family soon had a younger brother, and most of her father and stepmother's energy was transferred to the younger brother, and even more neglected her, and she became even more lonely.
Gao Ge when he was a child, it should be even more sad than Ran Ran now, right?
Suddenly, Xu Mu somewhat understood why Gao Ge was his current character, and his heart throbbed slightly.