346. Get a good sense of proportion

The matter itself is not a big deal.

In addition, when the time comes, it is not to raise people in the Jin Palace, but to arrange another courtyard to arrange the upbringing of grandmothers and servants, and these things are naturally ordered to be done by many people.

Moreover, adopting an orphan girl is also considered a good thing, and after the old princess of Jin heard about it, she did not object.

However, before Zhu Lan planned to leave, the old princess of Jin called people to stop, and then let the maids in the house go out, leaving only their own henchmen.

"Ah Lan, you have been married to this family for so many years, I have always been very satisfied with you, and the relationship between you and my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been harmonious. ”

Before talking about business, the old princess of Jin played the emotional card first, Zhu Lan listened to it, and felt comfortable in her heart, as if her dedication to this family for so many years was also seen by someone.

"This is the duty of a daughter-in-law. ”

Zhu Lan lowered her head slightly and replied respectfully.

"What's not your duty?"

The old princess of Jin didn't like such words, "The value of a woman is not only to teach her husband and children, but to take care of things inside and outside the family, which is a contribution to the family, and should not be taken for granted." ”

"Before you got married, you were a treasure in the palm of your hand, what do you need to take care of?"

"Why did you marry into the Jin Palace, and taking care of this family has become your duty?"

"Mother?"

Zhu Lan didn't expect that her mother would think so in her heart.

Aren't all women like this in this world?

After getting married, raising a husband and children, and taking care of things in the family is something that every woman must do.

Zhu Lan didn't expect that what she thought was a matter of course was actually a contribution in her mother's heart.

"Ah Lan, when you marry into this family, you should be happy, not to suffer, right?"

The old princess of Jin took Zhu Lan's hand, patted it gently, and asked.

"Yes. ”

Zhu Lan lowered her eyebrows and agreed.

Over the years, whether it is her mother-in-law, Yun Anbang, or the children, she has been very comfortable for so many years, and no one has made her feel that she needs to worry about anything special.

Compared to the situation of other people, this is considered very good for her.

Moreover, she herself enjoys it, so naturally she will not complain.

But being willing and enjoying herself doesn't mean that she doesn't want everything she does to be recognized by others.

When the old princess of Jin said that it was all her credit, Zhu Lan's heart was really happy and happy.

"I'm not telling you this just for these things, it's for another thing. ”

Now that the foreshadowing has been done, the old princess of Jin is about to start talking about business now.

"You want to bring that orphan girl to the capital to raise her, I have no opinion, you want to spend an extra amount of money to let people buy a house outside so that she can live happily and relax, I have no opinion. ”

"It's just that Ah Lan, I want you to remember one thing at all times. ”

"Regardless of whether that child is a good one in the future or not, she will never be able to cross Qingzhi, you know?"

Girls are no better than boys, and this world itself is much harsher for women.

If a woman wants to marry a good family in the future, in addition to the family's heritage, it depends on how much the family attaches importance to her.

Among all the children in the family, the one she values and cares about the most is Qingzhi.

She would never let anyone cross Qingzhi, no one.

Although it is said that the child who came at that time was just an outsider, the relationship between people, sometimes, depends on more than just the maintenance of blood relations.

Sometimes, some relatives are not as reliable as an outsider.

Isn't that what happened to her family?

If it weren't for later......

"Mother, what are you talking about?"

Zhu Lan smiled, she was naturally very clear about this matter.

The girl who was adopted at that time was just because she used to have some friendship with her mother, but now that she is gone, and there is no reliable family to protect her, she just can't bear it.

It is already a great kindness to take care of people and grow up, how could she let Qingzhi be wronged for an outsider?

"Qingzhi is my daughter, as for Bai Manli, she is just the daughter of the deceased, now that she is gone, she has no reliable relatives to take care of her, I took her to the capital, but I just saw the friendship with her mother when she was young, how could she let her cross Qingzhi?"

"Even if I lack my heart, I can't make a mistake at this time. ”

"If only you knew. ”

The old princess of Jin looked at Zhu Lan's sworn look on her face, nodded, and expressed her satisfaction with her attitude.

"Qingzhi, this child, doesn't care about anything on the surface, as if she doesn't account so much, but in fact, she sees everything very important. ”

"After that girl arrives in the future, between Qingzhi and her, you must grasp this degree, no matter how good you are to that girl, you must not cross Qingzhi, otherwise, Qingzhi's heart will be uncomfortable. ”

"Mother, you're too worried. ”

Zhu Lan didn't think that Qing Zhi would be jealous and sad because of this matter, after all, at first, she felt embarrassed and didn't know what to do, or Qing Zhi relieved her, if Qing Zhi minded, how could she persuade her and help her come up with ideas to settle Bai Manli?

"Qing Zhi also knew about this matter for a long time, and when I was hesitant to take someone over at first, it was Qing Zhi who gave me the idea, so that I had no worries. ”

Zhu Lan slowly explained to the old princess Jin what had just happened.

"Qingzhi is a good boy, after knowing what happened to Bai Manli, she also expressed deep sympathy, and arranged for Bai Manli to find things outside the house, so that Bai Manli can be more comfortable by herself at that time, and she doesn't have to abide by so many rules, or Qingzhi gave me the method. ”

"If Qing Zhi really minds Bai Manli's arrival, how can she help me come up with an idea?"

"If she doesn't say it, I will feel that it will be too troublesome by myself at that time, or I don't know how to settle Bai Manli, maybe I won't have the idea of taking people to the capital at all. ”

Without this idea, Bai Manli would not have been able to come to the capital, and the two would not even meet, let alone Qingzhi would be angry and jealous. ”

Judging from this incident, Qingzhi will definitely not mind Bai Manli's arrival. ”