Could it be that the wild goose is pestering Sister Sha again?

Xu Xiaowan had actually thought about this possibility, and she was also worried. However, this is Sister Sha's private matter after all. It's just that she's a little depressed because she has something on her mind.

Du Jinlan and Li Qian naturally saw it.

In the morning, everyone had inconveniences in class, and after lunch, Du Jinlan specially called Li Qian to a corner where no one was: "Why do you always tell her that? That's Sister Sha's own business, why are you so nosy?"

"How can I call this nosy? That goose is clearly not a good thing. I just reminded Xu Xiaowan to be careful, don't let Sister Sha be careless, and let her go again. ”

"What do you mean by coaxing? Which eye do you have to see that people are not good things? Li Qian, the real world is very complicated. Everyone's upbringing is different, and their upbringing experience is also different, so isn't it a good thing to make different choices? If we don't talk about yourself if others don't talk about it, you dare to say that you don't have any problems at all? Are you a good thing in the eyes of others?"

"Boom!"

Li Qian's face changed greatly, she threw the lunch she bought for Xu Xiaowan on the ground, turned around and left.

Du Jinlan was so angry that she covered her forehead. When I went back, I told Xu Xiaowan about it.

Xu Xiaowan was in a hurry: "How can I quarrel because of my business?" Jinlan, I support you, but I have to go to her." She's good for me too!"

"Good for you?"

Du Jinlan grabbed Xu Xiaowan, who was about to leave, and pressed back into the chair, her face was more serious than ever: "What does it mean to be good for you? What is really good for you, it should be when you make mistakes, bluntly advise you not to make mistakes again." But what did you do wrong? Xiaowan, I don't want to say anything bad about Li Qian! She usually has a lot of advantages, but in the matter of Sister Sha, don't you think she is always a little too excited?"

This one...... Xu Xiaowan actually has feelings. From the beginning of the train, she was very repulsive to Yanhui. After a few entanglements, the geese became more and more unpleasant. Xu Xiaowan herself didn't like that goose back, but: "This is probably related to her experience, right? Jinlan, I know that it's not good to talk about people behind my back, but since the matter has come to this, I also want to talk to you." Li Qian, she never mentioned her family in front of us, could it be that there are some things in her family that make her more sensitive in this place?"

"Maybe!" Du Jinlan also admitted, there will be such a possibility!

However: "We can't interfere with other people's choices and other people's lives because of our own gains and losses. Don't say that Sister Sha doesn't want to be with that Yanhui again, even if they are together, it is their own choice. It may seem to you that person is extremely bad, but it is more likely that you have not discovered the good in the other person at all! Why is what you say right? What others say is wrong? Everyone is alone, and what kind of things will happen to you if you are an adult! What kind of choice will you make! Unless the other person has committed a crime, it is inappropriate for us to interfere in any way. ”

"However, it's still okay to persuade you, right?"

"Of course. But can you tell the difference between persuasion, reminder, emotional venting or malicious guidance?"

How many of these?

Xu Xiaowan scratched her head, she is a girl from the northwest, such a meticulous thing......

Seeing that she was worried, Du Jinlan sighed again, sat down and hugged her: "Take Sister Sha's matter as an example, Li Qian's most suitable thing is to remind." Talk about some social news, parents and other things, tactfully remind you to pay attention to the points. In this way, it will not hurt anyone's face, and others will understand her kindness and think she is so considerate. No matter how much you don't use it, if you have a stronger personality, you won't go around the bend, so we can use persuasion!"

"Persuade?"

"That's right! Just like she said when she quarreled with me, I advise you to take a longer look at your eyes and observe Sister Sha's state more, so as not to be fooled? The most important key point of persuasion is that you can put forward your plan, but you must not make any claims or criticisms for others. You two are probably born in that kind of family with a simple population, if you have lived in my family since you were a child, there are hundreds of relatives and friends, you will learn to speak in the morning!"

"How good is a big family? Like our family, even when my parents were alive, there were only four people. Leng Qing is dead! During the New Year's holiday, there is no one who even gives a New Year's money. ”

"How is the big family?" Du Jinlan really had a headache when she thought about it: "It's not good! One person thinks carefully, you and I are good, and I am not good with you." It's complicated. Like you and Li Qian, go home for the New Year, and it won't take three days, either to sell it and count the money for others, or to offend the whole family. ”

"Then if it's a shameless relative, it doesn't matter if you offend!"

"And what about your future work?"

Du Jinlan's words choked Xu Xiaowan to death with all the 'gangs' in the future!

"Do you expect the whole company to revolve around you? Or do the big bosses and proprietresses hold your stinky feet every day? Look at who doesn't like the eye and make yourself like a gas can, and you won't have to think about going to work in the future. No one will get used to you! It's obvious that they are bullying you, what are you going to do? Don't break the law too much, your little shoes will wear you to death!"

"Xiaowan, this is society! In this world, there has never been such a thing as doing what you want. Don't say that you are just an ordinary person, there will be times when you make mistakes, even if you are a saint, your family makes mistakes, you can really start with a knife and cut all the grass and roots?"

"Learn to be tolerant of others, and you deserve the forgiveness of fate!"

And when you are tolerant of others, you are actually tolerant of yourself. ”