"I named the fourth step the Volatility Period. If you don't experience the feelings of turmoil, you won't have resilience, and you will be like sand in your hands, and the wind will disperse as soon as it blows. ”

Lingtu came to the conclusion that if the relationship wants to be as solid as a rock, it must go through the tempering of emotional fluctuations, fall from the peak to the bottom, then rebound to the peak, then fall, and then back up......

In the end, the relationship will be sublimated and develop in the direction of love.

The words fell, and Doudou seemed to understand it, but he also admitted that Lingtu said that only feelings that have experienced twists and turns can be regarded as true love.

This is also known as the test.

There are many beautiful love legends in the Xiuzhen world, and most of those enviable love heroes and heroines have also experienced an emotional crisis that has fallen to the bottom...... When it returns to normal levels, feelings are sublimated to the realm of love.

But all partners who can stick to the sea are supported by love, without exception.

......

At this time, a piece of flying sand and rocks in the distance, and fallen leaves were built into a wind wall with the wind.

In the midst of the violent whirlwind, two figures nestled into each other were faintly glimpsed. Among them, the woman in green clothes wrapped her arms around the man, leaned her head sideways on the other's shoulder, and showed a happy smile on her face.

Judging from Su Yun's current reaction, Qin Wushang has successfully captured her heart.

This process...... It's the same as hunting, it's the same as fishing.

From setting up the bait, to attracting the other party, to tempting the bait, Qin Wushang firmly followed the law of attraction, and finally completely led Su Yun into his trap.

"Under normal circumstances, Big Brother is already considered a success, but if you want to pursue pure love, then, you must go through one or several emotional cooldowns, and then rebound, and that kind of lost and regained gap will make women happy and crazy. Only after experiencing the wind and rain will you not be afraid of the wind and rain, and it is difficult for your feelings to be disturbed by the outside world, so that you will fall in love with a man with all your heart. Lingtu said very seriously.

In countless studies and summaries, Lingtu was finally fortunate to perceive how to firmly capture the laws of women's psychology.

The last step, the "fluctuation period", plays a crucial role in sublimating love.

Looking ahead, he asked, "What's that......?" What do you do? Just break them up?"

Lingtu shook his head: "The strategy is like this, but the tactics must also be of some level. ”

Doudou asked, "Is it okay to quarrel?"

Lingtu shook his head decisively: "No! This is the lowest tactic, and it is the next step." Quarrels have a huge drawback, it is easy to cause emotional cracks, and create the illusion that the relationship between the two is not deep for women, even if they are reconciled in the future, it will leave a strong hidden danger. ”

After a pause, he said: "If you want their relationship to cool down quickly, the best way is to have a strong external force join, it's not that they intend to destroy the relationship, and there is no problem with the relationship between the two of them." For example, there is a strong rival in love, the family power is blocked, there is the bitterness of forced separation, or one party is hunted down by the enemy and life and death are unknown...... Outside resistance and so on. ”

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