The previous Tianxiang Pavilion, although it was divided into two factions, the three Mama Mo Honghuan and the four Mama Mengwu, due to contradictions and disputes, the two factions had great internal friction, and the Ge Ma only suppressed them when they did too much, but they did not eradicate this chaos from the root. Pen fun and pavilion www.biquge.info

The reason is not that Grandma Ge is unwilling to do this, but that she did it on purpose. In her opinion, if a sect is harmonious, and everyone is hello, hello, hello, everyone, then over time, it will make this sect lose its vitality.

Because everyone is avoiding contradictions, and contradictions are the norm, and they are an important driving point for the growth of a sect and a person. This situation makes the contradictions must be given due attention, and contradictions must be created in every possible way, so she tolerates the contradictions between the two factions, even if they attack each other.

Another reason why she was reluctant to eliminate the two factions was that if she dealt a fatal blow to one faction, the other would inevitably grow bigger, so that there would be no power to restrain the faction, and in this case, she herself would face an impact that would put her authority and even her power in danger.

And when the forces of the two factions are evenly matched, she can adjust in the middle, and whichever faction is stronger, she can use the other faction to press it down, so as to form a balance of power, which is conducive to her rule and management.

"What does Grandma mean is that at present, the three grandmothers and the faction have been dealt a fatal blow, and the four grandmothers and the faction are bound to take the opportunity to become bigger, if a situation is formed, it will not be conducive to Xiu'er's management of Tianxiang Pavilion in the future?"

"Hehehe...... Sure enough, she is a smart girl in Bingxue, and she can have such knowledge, Grandma Ge, I will hand over Tianxiang Pavilion to you, and I will really rest assured. ”

"That Xiu'er will gradually weaken the power of the four grandmothers' faction in the future, and can suppress it by supporting new forces, and let them fall against each other, as long as the internal contradictions are limited to a certain range, not only will it not have a negative impact on the development of Tianxiang Pavilion, but it will also be conducive to Xiu'er's management of Tianxiang Pavilion. ”

"Well, this is a good method, you just need to master the rhythm, don't use fierce medicine all at once, pay attention to step by step, each break, and you can complete the rotation between forces without knowing it. Grandma Ge smiled.

"With your authorization, the fourth grandmother has been taking care of the specific affairs of Tianxiang Pavilion, so her power in Tianxiang Pavilion can be said to be deep-rooted, I am still worried that moving her interests will trigger her backlash, and it may be difficult for Xiu'er to deal with the situation at that time. ”

"This situation is not impossible, so you need to do a better job, you can use the way of rising and falling, weakening her power, slowly elevating it, you can give her some empty reputation, let her fall into it, and you can take the opportunity to complete the layout. "The pavilion is quiet.

"Thank you for the reminder, Xiu'er has benefited a lot. ”

"Hehehe...... This has always been the most stimulating thing to deal with the conflicts between people, and when you focus on it, you will find that it is so interesting and enjoyable, and you will slowly experience it later. Grandma Ge smiled.

"What about the third thing?" asked Xiu'er.

"The third thing is what worries me the most, and it is also difficult for many people to overcome, and I think it will also become a problem for you. Grandma sighed.

"Oh, what is such a surprising thing?" said Xiu'er.

"Your personal feelings. Grandma sighed.

Speaking of this, Xiu'er's face turned red, but I don't know if this redness is because of shame or because of weakness.

According to Grandma, emotional problems are the weakness of most people, as long as they are a normal person, they will encounter it, and the emotional experience brought is almost the same, whether it is a person with a prominent status or a person with a humble status, just like birth, old age, sickness and death, the emotional experience is the same for most people.

It's just that some people are in high positions, whether they are in high positions of power, or power, or money, and they are able to change their emotional experience, and some people become extremely easy and simple, and some people are very difficult because of it.

She took Xiu'er as an example, although she had experienced a lot of unbearable past events before, she would be in a state of imbalance in terms of emotional balance. This imbalance is reflected in the fact that internally he has a deep inferiority complex about himself, thinking that he is an unclean person and naturally lacks confidence, and externally he has a deep distrust of men, thinking that they are all evil, and treating the purity and beauty of emotions as filthy things, because he is treated by men as filthy and becomes a tool for venting.

This imbalance can cause a person to have a hard time dealing with various relationships, and even fall into a vicious circle of self-denial, which can then have a negative impact on one's own sect.

"Are you saying that if I don't handle personal emotional issues well, it will affect the development and growth of Tianxiang Pavilion?" Xiu'er said.

"Indeed, your emotional positioning will affect the offense and defense of Tianxiang Pavilion, and it will also affect the positioning of Tianxiang Pavilion, which in turn will affect the reputation and status of Tianxiang Pavilion in the rivers and lakes. Grandma said.

"Xiu'er still doesn't understand?"

"For example, if you regard emotions as instrumental things, you will only regard them as tools, not as goals, so that you will not be swayed by it, and no matter how much your emotional experience changes, you will not be emaciated by it, which will affect the development of Tianxiang Pavilion. Grandma said.

"In this way, the man I fall in love with is just a tool, and I will not invest too much emotion in him, even if there is betrayal and hatred in the future, it will not affect my judgment, even if I go my own way, it is a normal state for me. Xiu'er continued.

"That's true, in this way, you won't look at the world around you with emotional paranoia, and at the same time, you can avoid being tempted by emotions and lose your mind, so that the development of Tianxiang Pavilion will not be affected by your emotions. Grandma said.

"On the contrary, if I regard emotions not as a tool, but as an end, then once I am subjected to a bad emotional experience, then I will have some paranoia, and then imprint it on the positioning and development of Tianxiang Pavilion, when I do some radical behavior, it will affect the reputation and status of Tianxiang Pavilion in the rivers and lakes. Xiu'er followed.

Grandma nodded with satisfaction, quite satisfied with Xiu'er's performance.

Seeing Grandma's expression, Xiu'er was of course happy, but deep in her heart, she still had deep worries, whether it was the unbearable past, or her feelings for Zhuo Yifan, she couldn't handle it normally.

And Grandma Ge was still staring at her, as if she could gain insight into her inner world.

"What you're thinking about right now is exactly what I'm worried about. Grandma sighed.