Chapter 489: Reflections (2) Thank you for the reward of the book's "dazed personality"!

Li Siyan is still holding Jiang Yuan:

"When I knew that I could see my father-in-law today, I wanted to come over immediately! But that Yu Ling, it took half an hour to put on makeup, and half an hour to change clothes! In the past, when she was the patriarch to perform sacrifices and meet other patriarchs, she had never seen her so fond of dressing up!"

Jiang Yuan patted her head:

"Don't talk about Yu Ling all day long, isn't it good for you that she has taken care of you for so long?"

Li Siyan has a characteristic, that is, she is straightforward and fast-talking, and she can't help but say what comes to her mind.

This is a good thing, but it is also a bad thing.

Li Siyan shrunk her neck and said:

"It's good for me, and it's good for my sisters, sisters, and brothers. But she wants to seduce her father-in-law all day long, don't think I can't see it!"

Jiang Yuan said helplessly:

"Okay, okay, don't hold me. Let me take a good look at you, I almost don't even recognize you. ”

Li Siyan reluctantly let go of the arms that hugged Jiang Yuan's waist, she stood two steps away, pulled her skirt and turned around, and asked:

"Father-in-law, am I pretty now?"

Jiang Yuan nodded, Li Siyan is indeed very beautiful.

Her facial features are exquisite, lined with delicate red lips, like a budding rose. Wearing a light red embroidered skirt, the vermilion-colored belt is tied around the slender waist, which looks exquisite.

Although it is not as vulgar as Qianluo's temperament, she is also a stunning beauty.

Li Siyan blinked and looked at Jiang Yuan, suddenly blushed, and suddenly rushed up to hug Jiang Yuan:

"Father-in-law, I ...... Shall I marry you?"

Jiang Yuan was stunned at first, and then suddenly burst into laughter:

"Little girl, I don't understand anything yet, but I can't talk nonsense. ”

Li Siyan saw Jiang Yuan laughing, and said angrily:

"I'm ready! I can get married! I know, I understand! I just want to follow my father! I will always follow my father!"

Jiang Yuan shrugged:

"Then follow along, but don't forget, I'm your father-in-law!

Li Siyan raised her head and said:

"Then you won't be my stepfather, and I won't be your daughter!

Jiang Yuan's brows furrowed, and he began to look at Li Siyan with serious eyes.

I saw that Li Siyan's beautiful face was full of seriousness, not like a joke.

Jiang Yuan secretly said that something was wrong in his heart, and he stretched out his hand and planned to push Li Siyan away:

"You are still young, and when you grow up, you will understand the difference between family affection and the relationship between men and women. ”

Li Siyan hugged Jiang Yuan's body tightly and didn't let go, and she kept saying in her mouth:

"I know the love between men and women! I just like you! I just want to marry you! Whenever I see Yu Ling seducing you, I am very unhappy!"

Jiang Yuan snorted coldly, and his body shook slightly.

Li Siyan couldn't resist his strength, and was suddenly shocked to take two steps back, looking at Jiang Yuan with astonishment and grievance.

Jiang Yuan said in a deep voice:

"That's your child's possessiveness! You'll understand later, don't say it again! I shouldn't have heard it tonight!"

What are you kidding, although Jiang Yuan thinks that he is not a righteous and bright person, he is not filthy enough to attack his goddaughter.

Jiang Yuan couldn't accept this kind of thing at all.

Li Siyan's big eyes began to redden, and tears were rolling:

"Father, I'm not a child anymore!

"Get out!" Jiang Yuan interrupted sharply, "Go back to your room and sleep well, forget about these things!"

Li Siyan gritted her teeth and snorted, stomped her foot, and then turned her head and left quickly.

Jiang Yuan rubbed his temples at this time, he didn't expect that Li Siyan would become like this after not seeing him for two years.

It seems that the education of children cannot be ignored, and some of their not so good ideas must be corrected.

What I did was a little too rough, and in retrospect it wasn't appropriate. This made him wonder how to educate his children on this kind of issue.

He quickly remembered that Li Siyan's situation was probably the Oedipus complex in psychology.

This kind of plot is also called "paternal complex" or "mother-lover plot".

From the point of view of the process of children's psychological development, when children are young, they will more or less embody this complex. Children project their love on their parents of the opposite sex, and between them, they are jealous, they also want to show their love, and they try to be a "third party" between them.

But Li Siyan is fifteen years old, and she can marry in this world, is it still suitable for this kind of child's father-love complex? Jiang Yuan is not sure.

But no matter what, Jiang Yuan also had to help her correct.

At that moment, Jiang Yuan began to think about the methods and knowledge of dealing with the Oedipus complex on his own.

At this time, Chen Yin walked in:

"Father-in-law. ”

Jiang Yuan came back to his senses:

"Oh, Chen Yin. Come here, talk to my father-in-law. ”

Chen Yin obediently came to Jiang Yuan's side, but her face was full of distress:

"Father, I ......"

She hesitated for a long time, but seemed to find it difficult to speak.

"What's wrong?" Jiang Yuan asked, "Is there anything else you can't say to your father-in-law?"

Chen Yin lowered her head and hesitated for a long time before she spoke:

"Father-in-law...... The eldest sister and the second sister, as well as the younger brother, they are all very good-looking and have good figures. And they are also very smart, whether it is civil or military, they are always learning very quickly! They also know how to put on makeup and how to dress. But I ...... I'm so ugly, I'm not in shape, and I'm so stupid!"

The more Chen Yin said, the more sad she became:

"Whenever I'm with them, I feel like I'm not worthy to be their older sister and younger sister. They are so dazzling, so dazzling. And I'm ...... I'm like an ugly bastard!"

Chen Yin's appearance is very ordinary, her facial features are ordinary, and her body bones are a little rough due to the overload when she was a child.

In addition, she is simple by nature and does not like to wear makeup, so compared with the other three children, she looks a little overshadowed.

Jiang Yuan didn't expect that Chen Yin had been troubled for a long time because of this matter, he couldn't help but want to laugh, but he felt that it was not appropriate to laugh at this time.

So he held back a smile and touched Chen Yin's head with a serious face:

"Chen Yin, have you ever heard of a saying, it's called 'good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a thousand'. ”

Chen Yin raised her head and repeated Jiang Yuan's words.

Jiang Yuan sighed and said:

"Of course, the world is a patriarchal world now, and it is easy to see women as 'things' that carry men's desires, rather than as independent and complete people. The sexual objectification of women can make women feel negative and bad about their image. Because in such a context, women will believe that their mind, work ability and other aspects are difficult to be recognized by society, and only the pursuit of appearance and body that meets social aesthetic standards will be considered valuable. ”

After finishing speaking, Jiang Yuan paused slightly, so that Chen Yin could understand what he meant.

When Chen Yin understood, Jiang Yuan continued:

"That's why in a world like this, women are overly interested in their appearance. Because of your outstanding appearance, you will be able to get more resources, more care and love, and a higher status.

Of course, we can't change the world. A woman's appearance is really important in this world. If Chen Yin is an ordinary girl, then maybe you can only live an ordinary life because of your ordinary appearance.

But, Chen Yin, who are you? You are my Jiang Yuan's righteous daughter! Do you need to use your appearance to obtain resources? Whatever you lack, your father-in-law can bring you! There is no need to feel inferior because of your appearance, you still have many aspects that can be used to make people respect you. ”

Chen Yin listened quietly and asked:

"Father-in-law, will you care less about me because I am not good-looking?"

Jiang Yuan replied seriously:

"No! I don't care about looks. ”

Jiang Yuan's words are true, whether it is a beautiful woman or an ugly woman, when it is time to kill, he will not show mercy because of his appearance.

After finishing speaking, Jiang Yuan pressed Chen Yin's shoulders:

"Chen Yin, take care of yourself, you are unique. Let my stepfather see that a girl with an interesting soul!"

"Thank you, father-in-law!" Chen Yin nodded vigorously.

Chen Yin left, and her conversation with her father-in-law, although it did not completely eliminate the inferiority complex in her heart, but it also gave her a new perspective to look at herself, and she would also make changes for this.

Instead, Jiang Yuan thought of some interesting spells, which could play a role in plastic surgery, and were once all the rage among the female disciples of the Imperial Law Secret Sect.

If Chen Yin couldn't get out of her inferiority, or even be seriously affected by this negative emotion, then Jiang Yuan could consider communicating with her about this kind of spell.

Then came Ding Ze, a ten-year-old boy who already had a faint trace of heroism in his immaturity, and was no longer the weak child he was at the beginning.

"The child has seen his father!" he saluted, and looked very well-behaved.

Jiang Yuan laughed and patted him on the shoulder:

"Good boy, he's getting stronger!"

Ding Ze has been practicing martial arts all year round, and he has grown rapidly, although he is ten years old, he already looks athletic.

He said with pride on his face at this time:

"The child lives up to his father's teachings, and never forgets to practice martial arts! Now the child has reached the Kaiyuan realm!"

"Oh, it's pretty good!" Jiang Yuan was slightly surprised, he cultivated to the Kaiyuan Realm at the age of ten, and it was not an exaggeration to call him a demon among martial artists.

Ding Ze's face was a little embarrassed at this time:

"Although I am still a realm behind my eldest sister...... But I will continue to work hard! Sooner or later, I will surpass my eldest sister!"

Jiang Yuan laughed:

"Have ambition! When you cultivate to the realm of returning to the sect, then your father-in-law will teach you more important martial arts! That is a kind of martial art that can deal with the clan family and demons!"

When Ding Ze heard this kind of martial art, his eyes couldn't help but shine:

"Father-in-law, the child must work hard!"

Jiang Yuan patted him on the shoulder:

"As a man, your sisters will have to rely on you to protect you in the future! After a while, I will arrange for you to go to the depths of Jiang Guo to experience it. ”

It is much easier to communicate with men.

Ding Ze talked to Jiang Yuan about his ambitions, and Jiang Yuan also pointed out a lot of directions for him.

In the end, Ding Ze went back with surging blood, and his father-in-law promised to give him more room to exert himself, which made him afraid that he would be so excited that he couldn't sleep tonight.

After that, it was Yu Ling.

When she entered the room, Jiang Yuan picked her up and threw her on the bed without hesitation:

"Yu Ling, I know you have a lot to say to me. Don't worry, my bed is big and soft and we have a whole night to talk slowly!"