Tan Ningzi's cheeks were slightly hot, and she pursed her lips and smiled: "Master, this kind of thing should pay attention to the pleasure of the two people, where is the reason for buying and selling." Besides, the master and uncle are still Yunying unmarried, so what am I anxious about. You'd better worry about your life's affairs first. ”

Mu Qingjue ate Tan Ningzi's army, his face was a little unbearable, he reached out to pinch the tender meat on her pink cheeks, and said sullenly: "Okay, you little girl, but you made fun of me." ”

Although the temperament of people in the world is very different, there is always something that is suitable for each person. No matter how cold and mean a person is, there must always be some time to laugh at relatives, friends or children's wives. If you don't even have this temperament, you can only be a snake with a heart, and a wood with lungs and liver.

Probably a person's temperament, although derived from natural temperament, is actually born from acquired circumstances. Temperament, metal, wood, water, fire, earth. The people of the world often say that King Kong is angry, silent, gentle like water, sex like fire, and clay people, most of which refer to temperament. Temperament can be modulated through acquired cultivation, and the golden mean, which the Confucian often said, is to adjust one's temperament to an impartial state.

Mortals are born with temperament and character. It's just that the temperament is biased, if it is gold and fire, it may be more angular. If it is earth or water, it is relatively peaceful.

There is no absolute good or bad in natural temperament, and the standard of goodness set by Confucianism is moderation. However, this is very difficult to maintain all the time, people have seven emotions and six desires, seven emotions of joy, anger, sorrow, fear, love, evil, and desire. If you are constantly dominated by one or several emotions, over time, personality defects will appear.

At the lightest, he will become sick with worries, incompatible with everyone, and everything will not go well. If it is serious, it is easy to go to extremes and make actions that endanger others.

Therefore, temperaments like Mu Qingjue and Tan Ningzi are somewhat sick, Mu Qingjue himself was born with a stubborn disease, withdrawn and lonely, Tan Ningzi followed her to learn from her, what else could she get. Saying goes. 'Things gather by like, people by groups'. 'Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black'. Meng's mother moved three times just to choose a good neighbor. When people are young and ignorant and lack the ability to discern, they can often get along with some peaceful and loyal people. What a blessing it would be.

Some men may like to be cold and have a personality that is above the top. Part of it may be that the desire to conquer is to influence it through its own efforts. Otherwise, it's a pathological aesthetic and masochistic psychology.

And some shrewd women just know how to grasp this psychology to do what they like and raise their own value. This certainly doesn't have much value for discussion.

Confucianism has always paid attention to the transformation of the people into customs, and the moderation of the predecessors is actually a kind of harmony of temperament. Mindset adjustments. Although it is conservative many times, it develops a culture of insensitivity and indifference. However, this is just a manifestation of overkill, and who can say that such a person really understands the golden mean?

Mr. Ben Lei, a famous man in recent times, attributed it to the method of spiritual victory and ridiculed it. For a while, the trend is that it is unique to one eye, and the name is called the inferior root of the nation, and the criticism has been deep.

Although the observation of the people of the time cannot be said to be fundamentally wrong, at least they only know one of them, but they do not know the other. The modulation of temperament and the adjustment of mentality are very important abilities for human survival, and many people take revenge or are depressed and self-defeating. This is all due to this lack of ability.

Of course, when it comes to the way of mentality adjustment, that is, self-persuasion, depending on each person's ability to perceive each person, there is a difference between high and low. Like Confucius, 'Food, vegetables, food, and water, bending the humerus and pillow, and happiness is also in it, and the unrighteous and rich and expensive are like floating clouds to me.' ’

Yan Hui can 'eat a spoonful of food, a scoop of drink, in the alleys, people are unbearable, and they do not change their pleasures. Ah Q can only 'I can't touch the monk'.

Many people don't learn from Confucius and Yan Hui. I only learned a Q, it's like buying a fake cheaply, and then scolding this brand for being bad. Mr. Ben Lei saw only the ugliness of such people, and then criticized how this fake was shoddy. It seems to be a deep ill. In fact, it confuses the concept.

Fakes have always existed, everyone knows it, and people want to be cheap, and this is the fundamental problem. Instead of blaming the market for how this fake is flooding the market, it is as if something amazing has been discovered.

In the past, there were some ruthless female devils on the rivers and lakes, and when they moved, they were full of people, like Li Mochou. It is said that they are all trapped by love, and they can even win the sympathy of some prodigal sons who judge people by their appearance and are bold. This is also the reason why Li Mochou's fans are higher than Mei Chaofeng.

These female demons are typical of psychological imbalances, thus becoming impersonal and inhumane. It is worth mentioning that the psychology of this kind of person has expanded infinitely from the failure of one's own feelings, and the so-called 'rather teach me to bear the people of the world, and stop teaching the people of the world to bear me'. If it is unfortunate that it is really difficult for the two to get along, it is easy to take revenge on the negative person, and then to revenge on the society and mankind. Some experts and scholars have complained about Cao Cao's sentence, and they have found that it is 'I would rather bear others than others'. The novelist's change seems to be suspected of expanding the guilt.

But from the perspective of criminal psychology, there is often no strict boundary between revenge on a person and revenge on society, and it is easy to go on in the dark. As the old saying goes, 'Killing one is enough, killing two earns one'. It is a true portrayal of this kind of person.

Emotional things are like people drinking water, and they know their own warmth and coldness. It's hard to tell who's right and who's wrong. Even if it is really unfortunate to meet a negative person, this is only a moral fault, there is no capital crime in the law, and cases like Li Mochou can only be attributed to the failure of character and education.

Relatively speaking, although Mu Qingjue and Tan Ningzi's temperaments are a little sick, they still have a frank and harmonious side when they get along.

This is probably due to the atmosphere of the Tennumen and the family background of the two. Moyitian's education can only be described in one word, so whether it is a high-ranking official or a wealthy businessman, they all like to send their children to the emperor Huang Zengtian, Taiming Yuwantian and other heavenly regions for further study.

The Heavenly Maiden Sect is also a thousand-year-old sect, with a profound background, Mu Qingjue can sit in the position of the head of a faction, and naturally has some outstanding features, which are not comparable to those crazy female devils.

Tan Ningzi has been exposed to Mu Qingjue since she was a child, and it is inevitable that she will be a little arrogant and high, the key is the convergence of Confucianism and Taoism, pay attention to moral cultivation, and not abuse supernatural magic to bully the weak.

In fact, it is very painful for both men and women to encounter a partner with a bad personality when they are looking for a partner. Unfortunately, if you run into a Li Mochou, there will be no way to live. Although the etiquette of marriage has been criticized, treating each other politely before marriage is always a way to preserve oneself. Of course, this may not be of much use to Li Mochou's extreme character, but fortunately, this kind of person is rare in the world after all.

The ancient system of marriage with three wives and four concubines was commonplace, some of them were harmonious, and some of them were inevitably jumping. So even if you mess with flowers, you have to keep your eyes open, and if you hook up with someone you can't afford to provoke, the consequences will be very serious.

Of course, there are not a few girls who have some connections since Ming Qin went to heaven. The reason why he can still be calm is that he is lucky and did not provoke that kind of woman who is dangerous and jealous. Second, it is also a matter of proportion, boiling meat over a warm fire. The heat is not enough, and it is easy to dare not put it down.

Except for Wen Zhu's misfire, he only set a name with Jiang Lin. As for Mu Qingjue, although he has a skin-to-skin relationship, after all, it is to cure diseases and save people.

............

The master and apprentice quarreled for a while, and Mu Qingjue thought that Tan Ningzi would soon follow Tan Dingyuan back to the surrendered city. It is still unknown whether there will be a chance to meet Mingqin in the future.

The so-called 'close and close, distant and distant'. Tan Ningzi has grown up again, and I believe that it won't be long before someone comes to the door to propose marriage. At that time, she and Ming Qin's good feelings will not be over.

This kind of thing doesn't have to be put in the open, which makes both of them feel embarrassed.

Mu and Tan walked out of the room hand in hand, and Mu Qingjue led her to the bathroom to freshen up before walking downstairs happily.

Several servants in the hall dusted off the dust diligently, and Mu Renlong and Mu Renfeng sat on leather chairs around the glass table and ate breakfast.

Mu Renfeng took a newspaper and browsed at random, heard the footsteps on the wooden ladder, raised his eyes and saw Tan Ningzi beside Mu Qingjue stunned for a moment, quickly put down the newspaper and politely pulled out the chair, and said happily: "Qingjue." Whose young lady is this next to you, why is she a little kind?"

Mu Qingjue smiled, patted Tan Ningzi's fragrant shoulder, and said: "Second brother has good eyesight, can he never forget it when he sees a beautiful woman?" She is the daughter of Lord Tan, and my apprentice Ning Zi. ...... This is my eldest brother and sister-in-law. This is the second brother, he is not in shape, Zi'er doesn't have to pay attention to him. ”

When Mu Renfeng heard that this was Tan Dingyuan's baby daughter, he was still an elder, so he couldn't help but blush and cough dryly. I sat back in a daze.

Tan Ningzi didn't dare to slack off, and hurriedly greeted the Mu family brothers, "Zi'er has seen the eldest uncle, aunt, and second uncle. ”

Mu Renlong put down his chopsticks, picked up a napkin and wiped his mouth, and said, "Miss Tan doesn't have to be polite. It's good that you're a good person. Otherwise, our family wouldn't know how to explain to City Lord Tan. ”

Hailan warmly beckoned the two girls to sit down, and summoned: "Chunxiang, go and serve a bowl of hot porridge to Miss Tan and Miss San." ”

Tan Ningzi felt a little nervous, and hurriedly bowed in thanks.

Hailan said with a smile: "I don't know if the distinguished guests come to the door, they are all home-cooked porridge and rice, I hope Miss Tan doesn't blame us for being slow." ”

"How dare you. ”

Haruka brought the hot porridge. Tan Ningzi pinched the spoon and took a sip, and said with a light smile: "It tastes good, it's delicious." ”

Mu Qingjie asked, "Big brother, is there any news about Su Su recently?"

Mu Renlong's expression stiffened slightly, shook his head solemnly, and sighed: "I have already handed over this matter to the shadow, she fought with the person who robbed Miss Su Hui, but unfortunately let the other party escape." It's getting late, I have to go on duty. ”

Tan Ningzi was secretly surprised, she had just woken up, and she didn't know anything about what happened at this time, all the people present were elders, and it was not easy to ask questions directly, so she had to hide her doubts and ask Mu Qingjue alone in private.

Mu Qing never wanted to reveal the Tsing Yi Society, if Mu Renlong rescued Qin Suhui, he would inevitably have to marry Mu Kunqian.

Listening to Mu Renlong's meaning, the shadow obviously hadn't noticed the Tsing Yi Society yet, and his heart was also happy and worried, so he turned to Mu Renfeng and asked, "Second brother, I heard that Yanbo Villa held a discussion meeting this year, and you were invited to do something as an observer. How's it going? Did you observe anything?"

"Oh, that's the thing. ”

Mu Renfeng stretched his neck and looked around, looking like a thief. Mu Qiankun's wedding changed, the bride was robbed, and the Mu family was in a bad mood, so it was difficult to let the old man know what kind of discussion meeting he still had the heart to attend, and it was difficult to ensure that he would not be angry.

The last Tiannü Sect also participated in the Dao Meeting, although the results were not good, but with the vast realm of the thirty-six days of Jiuyao, the immortal Dao masters were like the Ganges River Sands, and it was not easy to enter the three selections. This time, the Tiannu Gate was annexed, and there was not even a candidate for the examination, how dare Mu Renfeng talk to his sister about the premise.

Unexpectedly, Mu Qingjue took the initiative to ask, Mu Renfeng covered the newspaper and said with relish: "Don't say it." This time, Yanbo Villa can be regarded as a new one, in order to discuss the Taoist Society, a spiritual map was specially created, and I heard that it was also repaired by buying a fragment of the eight pole diagrams in the four maps of the ancient heavenly path with a lot of money. These days, Yanbo Mountain Villa is crowded with people all day long, and I don't know how many monks of the Six Dao come when they hear the wind. ”

"Really?" Mu Qingjue asked tentatively, "I heard that you can travel to the ancient dynasties through the Eight Pole Fragments, is this true?"

Mu Renfeng touched his chin and laughed: "Everyone says so, so listen to it seriously." Anyway, I haven't been in, and it is said that a new life talisman has been fried for 3,000 yuan. Many people went in with a lot of money, and it didn't take long for the poor to even sell their pants. ”

At this time, there was a knock on the door of Mu Kunqian's room upstairs, and Mu Renfeng was frightened and whispered, "I won't tell you." I made an appointment today, and I'll talk to you in the evening. ”

Mu Qingjue smiled and quipped, "Is it the sister of the Zhu family?" You can be serious and strive to marry her home as soon as possible." ”

Mu Renfeng laughed, salivated and said: "You still can't believe in the second brother's ability, I am here to whip and urge the horse, sooner or later, I will be able to catch it." ”

"you. Mu Qingjue sneered softly.

Mu Renfeng lifted his coat, hummed a cheerful tune, and strode away in a hurry.

Hailan snorted slightly: "The second child always looks cynical, if this family is not supported by the old man and the human dragon outside, what would it be." ”

Mu Qingjue frowned slightly, deep down he didn't like Mu Kunqian and Mu Renlong's exquisite style, but Mu Renfeng's arrogant and arrogant temperament was a little more pyrotechnic. However, it is already very gossip for her sister-in-law to be alone at her age, and she has always been polite to Hailan's sister-in-law, and she doesn't dare to say much.

After pressing it once, he couldn't help but argue for Mu Renfeng: "Isn't the second brother much stronger now? I heard that he also started a business with his friends outside. And this time, he also followed his father's will and took the initiative to pursue Zhu Bingzi. In time, he will be on the right path. (To be continued.) )