Chapter 306: Luck Psychology
"Hehe-hee!" Xie Sanniang was not angry at all, "Junior Brother Yu, what you got is not only a memory stone, but your sister is also yours." ”
When Han Ling'er saw this, she couldn't help but feel resentful. But she was afraid of Xie Sanniang, but she didn't dare to talk nonsense. It's just that he was secretly muttering in his heart, and scolded Xie Sanniang softly.
"Hehe! Yu Chu shook his head firmly, "Thirteen Niang, feelings belong to feelings, interests belong to interests, if you have to involve the two together, this relationship is not interesting at all." ”
"Feelings belong to feelings, and interests belong to interests. Xie Sanniang listened to Yu Chu's words, couldn't help but be moved, and whispered to herself. Then for some reason, he let out a long sigh, "Alas, since Brother Yu said so, I won't force you anymore, but if you think it through, come back to your sister at any time, and your sister will keep it for you, hehe." ”
In the end, the original sad mood suddenly disappeared, and she returned to her true nature as a demon girl.
"Hehe! Since Thirteen Niang said so, she will not be respectful and disobedient. But ......" Yu Chu said this, suddenly paused, and continued: "However, the matter of leaving in the next place has been decided a long time ago, Xie Sanniang, I have to say goodbye to you first." ”
"Hmm!" Xie Sanniang didn't know that she couldn't keep it, so she had to say to Chu Chu: "Junior Brother Yu, you are welcome to come to the Demon Sealing Valley at any time." ”
Yu Chu said: "When I return from the Broken Soul Gorge, I will immediately go to the Sealed Demon Valley to find Xie Shisanniang." ”
"Junior Brother Yu, you have to talk about it. Xie Sanniang hurriedly said.
"Hehe, how dare you deceive Thirteen Niang?" Yu Chu asked rhetorically.
"That sister is in the Sealed Demon Valley, waiting for you to come over. Xie Sanniang finally stopped saying more, and said a few words to Yu Chu.
Yu Chu immediately took Han Ling'er with him. Got out of this place.
Xie Sanniang stared at the backs of the two for a moment. Then return to the cave. Chen Laosan's injuries are not light, so he is recovering. And Feng Yuan saw that Yu Chu and Han Ling'er did not come back together. couldn't help but ask Xie Sanniang in surprise, "Sansanniang, what about the kid surnamed Yu?"
"He had some things and went first. Xie Sanniang said.
"Gone?" Feng Yuan was stunned. Just now, when Xie Sanniang and Yu Chu went out together, he and Chen Laosan had some exchanges in private, and they already knew Yu Chu's shortcomings, and they knew Yu Chu's moonlight step, only when there was a moon at night. can play the greatest role, and once it is at night, the role of the moonlight step will disappear, and the effect of the moonlight step will disappear, which means that Yu Chu's strength will inevitably decline.
After Feng Yuan got the news, he was naturally secretly happy, and originally planned to take the opportunity to at least fight with him again after he came back. It is best to be able to kill Yu Chu. Even if you can't kill him, you have to take this opportunity to save your face and humiliate the other party at the same time. Of course. If he could take this opportunity to snatch Han Ling'er from the other party, of course, it would be even better.
This was Feng Yuan's thoughts. However, of course, you can't tell Xie Sanniang. Therefore, when he heard the news that Yu Chu and Han Ling'er had left, Feng Yuan's face. Immediately showed a look of disappointment.
Xie Sanniang observed her words, and quickly guessed Feng Yuan's thoughts, and sneered: "Feng Yuan, I know what you're thinking, but you'd better dispel this thought, otherwise, hum!"
Feng Yuan shouted: "Xie Sanniang, do you want to help outsiders, can't you deal with me?"
"Dealing with you?" Xie Sanniang snorted, looking indifferent, "To deal with you Feng Yuan, I don't need me Xie Sanniang, some people are dealing with you." Don't blame me for not reminding you, you have a bad idea, and you will suffer a loss when the time comes, but don't blame me Xie Sanniang for not helping you. ”...
Xie Sanniang misunderstood, and she never thought nonsense. Feng Yuan saw that Xie Sanniang seemed to be angry, and hurriedly helped himself to argue.
"If that's the case, of course it's for the best. However, I advise you to do it yourself. Xie Sanniang glanced at Feng Yuan deeply.
"Thank you Thirteen Niang for your kindness, I know below. Feng Yuan nodded, agreeing on the surface, but very disapproving in his heart. Obviously, I don't agree with Xie Sanniang's statement very much.
"Hmph!" Xie Sanniang couldn't help but snort again, Feng Yuan's attitude made him very displeased, and at the same time, from Feng Yuan's attitude, of course she could guess that the other party did not listen to her persuasion, but in this case, she didn't bother to persuade the other party anymore, it was he who was looking for death, and something happened, so she couldn't blame herself.
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"Brother Yu Chu, where are we going?"
On the road to the Broken Soul Gorge, Han Ling'er asked Yu Chu.
"Okay, don't ask, I'll take a look at the road. Yu Chu stopped and looked at the road ahead. Now that he has obtained the refining method of the weak water lightning talisman from Xie Sanniang, he plans to go to the Broken Soul Gorge to find the dual-attribute inner pill of water and electricity, so as to refine the more powerful dual-attribute weak water lightning talisman, once this more powerful weak water lightning talisman is refined, he can use the power of the weak water lightning talisman to compete with more powerful opponents, and at that time, when he enters the Sealing Demon Valley, he will be much safer.
"Oh!" Han Ling'er listened to Yu Chu's instructions, and really obediently stopped asking.
Yu Chu stopped and looked at the road, unfortunately, he had never been to this place at the moment, he only knew the direction of the Broken Soul Gorge, it should be to the east, but which way to go, he himself was not very clear. After watching for a while, he couldn't find a specific road, so he had to stop and ask Han Ling'er, "Ling'er, have you walked this road?"
"Nope. Han Ling'er looked ashamed, as if she felt frustrated because she couldn't help Yu Chu.
"Forget it, just keep walking. As soon as Yu Chu heard that Han Ling'er didn't know, he shook his head and continued to walk forward with Han Ling'er.
After encountering Xie Sanniang and others, Han Linger's attitude towards Yu Chu has really changed dramatically, although Yu Chu himself does not know what this change in attitude is going on for the time being, but from Han Linger's attitude, he can still feel something, Han Ling'er at this time. Very attached to him, so Yu Chu can feel it. Even if he let Han Ling'er leave, he was afraid that she would not leave him. It's just a feeling. However, from the other party's eyes looking at him, Yu Chu could feel it. When speaking, even some feelings may be able to deceive people, but there is absolutely no way to deceive people with the eyes that are unintentionally revealed. Yu Chu was able to see the affection in Han Linger's eyes from the eyes that Han Linger unintentionally revealed. This affection is very complicated, and at the beginning I couldn't feel whether it was love or not. It's just that this affection itself actually gave him a surging feeling, that is, it was extremely violent. This is the normal manifestation of Stockholm syndrome, the extreme enthusiasm of a person who suddenly finds support in the midst of extreme danger, and the doubling release of a person's emotions. The doubling release of this emotion, even at the beginning, almost felt the scorching. So at this time he is. For Han Linger's feelings, it is also extremely complicated.
People are wonderful creatures, and even the most vicious people are not willing to hurt such a person who has unusually violent feelings for them. Not only does it feel unnecessary, but it also doesn't feel very willing.
"Find a place and take a break. Then continue on your way. Yu Chudao. ...
"Okay. Brother Yu Chu. Han Ling'er naturally wouldn't disagree, and followed Yu Chu to continue on her way.
The two continued on their way. This is the Great Wilderness Mountain. There are rocky hills everywhere, and the mountains are undulating. The two of them walked for a while, but they didn't go too far, but when they reached a certain hillside, they saw a cave.
"Alright, go in and get some rest. When Yu Chu saw this cave, he immediately made a decision.
At this time, it was already dawn, and last night, he fought with Chen Laosan and Feng Yuan twice in a row, in addition to being injured, he was also exhausted, and he really needed to take a good rest. Han Ling'er heard him say this, naturally she would not object, last night, although she had not experienced a life-and-death struggle, but when she watched the battle between Yu Chu and Chen Laosan, she saw all kinds of thrills, and under the constant worry and worry, she couldn't help but be exhausted.
"Okay, Brother Yu Chu. Han Ling'er agreed with a smile, took Yu Chu's arm, and followed Yu Chu into the cave like a human bird.
Enter the cave, and the cave is clean. Han Ling'er hurriedly walked over and found a place to clean up, her grandfather was an elder of the Duoyuan Sect, and he was pampered since he was a child, and he was not so diligent before, but now, she has an extremely special and extremely deformed feeling for Yu Chu, so that in front of Yu Chu, she behaved extremely diligently. Every move is to please Yu Chu.
Yu Chu found a large stone and lay down on the stone on his side. Han Ling'er hurriedly leaned over, got into Yu Chu's arms, and lay down against Yu Chu. Yu Chu was hugging the soft incense, and his heart was also extremely happy, although he didn't know why Han Ling'er was suddenly like this, but this sudden change, as long as there was a advantage to take advantage of, would naturally make him happy in his heart, and he hugged him tighter.
Han Ling'er's small face was buried in Chu's chest, and her forehead was just against Yu Chu's chin, and at this moment, she felt strangely safe and satisfied.
"Brother Yu Chu. Han Ling'er lay in Chu's arms and muttered to herself again.
"What do you want to say?" asked Yu Chu with his eyes closed.
"Brother Yu Chu, will you beat me again in the future?" Han Ling'er asked softly.
"Hmm!" Yu Chu thought for a while, "If you are obedient, you won't fight, and if you don't obey, you will fight." ”
Han Ling'er hurriedly said: "I will definitely be obedient, I will only listen to you alone." ”
"If you are obedient, you will not fight. Yu Chu laughed. Han Linger's change made him feel puzzled again.
"I will be very obedient. Han Ling'er assured. After finishing speaking, I don't know what I thought, and my body suddenly warmed up, so that she herself was a little excited.
Yu Chu hugged Han Ling'er and obviously felt that the other party's body was hot, but he was a little tired at this time, so he didn't care about these things.
"Brother Yu Chu, you kiss me. Han Ling'er suddenly whispered, her voice was very low, and after she finished speaking, her face turned red.
Under normal circumstances, even a willful girl like Han Ling'er would not be able to say such a thing in this situation. It's just that, again, Stockholm syndrome will always lead to the violent release of people's emotions, especially in extreme danger, which is to show some hidden thoughts in people's hearts, so in this case, once some emotions are generated, they are extremely strong. So much so that even Han Ling'er was shy. I still said this. But it can also be seen from this that she is in her heart at this time. For Yu Chu, how attached he was. Of course. There are reasons for this attachment itself, and the biggest reason is of course because he is now in the Great Wilderness Mountain, the future is uncertain, and it is still full of dangers, so that Han Ling'er's sense of dependence on Yu Chu will only become stronger under the stimulation of that extremely dangerous future. That stronger sense of dependence led to her having no way not to be attached to Yu Chu. In addition, dependence and attachment. It's a very similar thing, and under normal circumstances, it's hard to tell the difference. Relying on someone is usually in a certain situation, and it is impossible to do without the other person. Attachment to someone is emotional, and dependence on someone is psychological, but it is precisely because of dependence on someone. When faced with something, or in a certain environment, you have to be close to someone, and at such times. Especially at times like these, when having to be close to someone, it turns into attachment. ...
Of course. It is not appropriate to directly say that it is attachment, but human emotions are extremely complex. And in that case, it's hard to get out of that mixed mood. Tell if your feelings are right or wrong. Anyway, no matter which one it is, it's inseparable from each other's meaning. Once you leave the other party, the most real feeling in your heart is a lack of security, or a sense of loss, and this feeling itself is the most fundamental reason for this emotion. The thing is obvious. You must know that the feelings themselves, in the final analysis, are still the release of emotions. And the release of this emotion, whether it is dependence or attachment, in the final analysis, the ultimate manifestation is to feel that you can't leave the other person.
Therefore, both dependence and attachment are fundamentally the same. If an emotion is transformed into love, and the object of release is clear, for example, Han Ling'er to her mother, this kind of love is love for her mother, and she herself can clearly determine what kind of love this love is. But if there is a love for a strange man, in a certain situation, Han Linger can't tell the difference, for a strange man, it may not be that kind of love for his father, or his mother's love, but it just needs special conditions. It's just that in that kind of environment, in the face of such an object, even if Han Linger has that kind of love, she can't tell what kind of love this love is, but subconsciously regards it as love for another person.
This kind of thing is very common in reality, for example, when a student was a student, he liked a certain teacher, and this feeling itself, which arose under the circumstances at that time, was originally a hazy feeling, and this hazy feeling, especially the hazy feeling, for the student, did not know what the real reason for that feeling was. When it comes to the real reason, it may be the hazy illusion of feelings in adolescence. Of course, it is also possible that in that era, there was a wrong sense of dependence on the elders. It's just that when he doesn't know the origin of his feelings, and at the same time he is facing a stranger, it is easy to regard this kind of affection for strangers as love, not family affection. This is despite the fact that, in most cases, this affection is only affection, not love.
People's feelings are very complicated, especially for some young people whose feelings are not very stable, that is, their feelings are not very mature, on the one hand, because of the excessive impulsiveness of their emotions, on the other hand, it is also due to the lack of experience, so after some feelings are generated, they don't know why. In addition, it is also because of the lack of experience, normally speaking, it is actually the lack of experience, the lack of experience, which leads to the fact that when people experience something they have never experienced before, such as the first time they experience something, the emotional fluctuations will always be particularly intense.
Especially in the teenage and girlhood generation, when you suddenly face a beautiful woman or a handsome guy to talk to you, and in the first case of encountering this situation, you will always be very excited, and even have this or that fantasy. And this fantasy, of course, is usually overthought. It's just that at this time, you may not be able to realize that when you feel that someone has accosted you, you will think more about whether he will be interesting to me, whether he wants to do something to me, whether he likes me, and when I first meet him, I will always think of this or that mess. Of course, the reason why I think this way, more often than not, is related to people's own feelings. On the one hand, it is true that because of the lack of experience, there is a wrong judgment. On the other hand, it is because of the luck mentality. Everyone knows that people are lucky. What is called fluke mentality. The so-called fluke means hope. Xing means lucky. When added up, luck means hope for good luck. The so-called fluke comes from this, when faced with some things, I hope that these things can develop in the direction of their favor. This is the luck psychology, and the luck psychology of people, not to mention teenagers and girls, even adults, still exists. This is the most important reason why people tend to have low eyes. People's luck psychology will always see things as beautiful, but once things happen, especially when they get the results, they will find that things are not as beautiful as they imagined, and this kind of beauty is actually only imagined by people themselves. But even after a few setbacks, this fluke mentality will not disappear, because luck itself is an instinct. Even for people, this kind of luck mentality exists in anyone. And this kind of luck psychology, in the face of danger, even disaster, the most intense, at this time, people most hope that they can get out of the disaster or danger, this point, is also the real origin of the word life-saving straw, it is with luck psychology, people in the face of drowning, accidentally grabbed a straw, this kind of luck psychology, will make him mistakenly the role of this straw infinitely magnified. Of course, Han Ling'er in front of her is the same, whether Yu Chu is so good to her, definitely not, whether Yu Chu is single-minded and always wants to protect her, of course not. As for when facing Feng Yuan and Chen Laosan, whether Yu Chu did it with the two of them in order to protect her, of course it wasn't, but in that case, even if Yu Chu gave in, Feng Yuan and Chen Laosan would not let him go. But in Han Ling'er's heart, she wouldn't think like that, Yu Chu made a move with Feng Yuan when she was bullied by Feng Yuan, and then fought with Chen Laosan, and Feng Yuan and Chen Laosan were in a group, although Yu Chu's plan at that time, there was another factor, that is, to join the Demon Sealing Valley. At the same time, Han Linger herself also knew Yu Chu's intentions. ...
But even if he knows, that kind of luck psychology still makes Han Linger feel that Yu Chu is for himself, of course, the luck psychology itself will not make Han Linger feel that Yu Chu is completely for himself, but since there is already this factor in front of him, Han Linger must believe, or rather believe, that Yu Chu's battle, to the vast part, is at least half likely for himself. This is the current Han Ling'er's true thoughts, and it is also the ultimate embodiment of luck psychology.
And this kind of luck psychology has also brought about changes in people's feelings, it can be said that Han Linger's emotional changes in treating Yu Chu are actually largely caused by this luck psychology.
In fact, not only Han Ling'er, but Stockholm syndrome itself is a specific manifestation of luck psychology. In the face of danger, in desperation, you have to rely on someone who you don't rely on, and at this time, in the case of relying on this person, you force yourself to believe that the other party can protect you. And this compulsion itself is a manifestation of a fluke mentality. As for the person she relied on, whether he would protect him or not, the ghost didn't know. But in that case, especially in the face of despair, when there is no other choice, what other way is there but to follow that choice?
Therefore, at this time, people will blindly make psychological hints to themselves, so that they can believe in the other party and believe that the other party will protect themselves, which is itself a concrete embodiment of luck psychology, because whether the other party will really protect him, he himself does not know, but in the case of absolutely no other way, he has to follow this choice.
In this case, the psychology of luck arises, and the choice itself, in fact, is similar to the situation of grasping a life-saving straw after drowning, and it is the only option that can only be followed when there is no other way. (To be continued......)