I reflected on the way I communicated with my book friends
When I was in the car today, I habitually walked around the book review area, and then I saw a suggestion given to me by a fully subscribed reader. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info
He said that I was too scared of book friends, which is why it was so easy to recruit black.
I asked him to give me two examples, and he gave me an example of himself and another book friend.
He won't talk about it himself, the example he gave was a reader who posted that Zhu Xi would definitely fall out with the protagonist, and asked me if I believe it.
I don't believe it, because I won't describe Zhu Xi according to your IQ.
In the eyes of this fully subscribed reader, this book friend is actually just giving an opinion, which is not a big deal, but my reply is insulting.
However, he didn't see that before this post, this book friend had already opened a post and scolded me for being mentally retarded because of the way he dealt with Zhu Xi.
Everyone else is scolding, and I don't insist on opening two posts in a row, I don't have a good temper for this kind of person.
But in the eyes of some readers, maybe I have become unqualified.
Guo Degang has a saying, at that time, I was quite disgusted with the kind of people who didn't understand any situation, so I advised you to be generous.
This makes sense for anyone to look at, but when it comes to themselves, there is a chance that they can't do it.
I'm not attacking this full bookseller, on the contrary, I'm grateful to him.
After having this impression of me, he still ordered all my books, this is a reader who really loves books, and it is my honor to have such a reader.
And as a reader, of course, there is no obligation to understand everything clearly.
So although I don't think I've done anything wrong, in fact, my way of behaving is really blackmailing myself, and it disgusts many book friends who think they have quality.
Because like this full-time reader, he didn't do anything wrong.
I reflected on the fact that the vast majority of readers want their favorite authors to be personable and treat every reader as if they were their own brothers.
And even some authors call their readers father, mother, grandparents, and grandparents, and this relationship is regarded as normal by readers (not black, I've seen several)......
To tell you the truth, I would never be able to do that.
I've always been used to, you talk well, I'll talk well. You show kindness, and I treat you as a friend.
You scold me, I'll fuck you directly.
Many authors can spit on their own faces, influence a lot of black fans, and are called by many readers with high emotional intelligence.
I'll never have that emotional intelligence, and I don't plan to have it.
But from this full book reader, I feel a little emotional.
This way of dealing with it is indeed easy to blacken yourself, although you are angry, it may affect other readers who don't know the situation.
Readers and readers are born in a trench, and it is rare for readers and writers to take the same position, so they will only see me scolding trolls, but not trolls scolding me.
It's helpless, but it's also realistic.
I can't change everyone, I can only change myself.
In order to avoid carrying more pots, I will read more in the book review area in the future, and I will not reply to controversial posts, but to those book friends who can speak well.
Now this society, for people without background, is indeed a place to fight for emotional intelligence.
There is no choice but to compromise. But I won't be soft when I should delete the post and ban it.,Trolls don't feel like you'll be able to wreak havoc in the future.。
I just don't bother with you anymore.
Also, about the update. I have a timecode word tonight.,Tomorrow should be able to keep updating normally.,Maybe even add more.。
Funerals in rural areas, coupled with the close relationship, the process is a bit cumbersome, and it is estimated that you will have to stay in your hometown for a few days. However, I will try to make sure that I keep making changes, and occasionally make up for them.
Finally, I wish you all a happy Lantern Festival.