Zhang Hao They met new friends during the military training, Yile, Dongxi, Nuoling, Xiaolan, all four of them are from different schools, applying for Longgang No. 1 Middle School, chatting between the friends at will, and learned that Zhang Hao They knew each other before, and they are all from the same school, which cannot be said to be a coincidence, because they discussed it together in advance.

Among the new friends is a girl named Xiaolan, who used to be in a girls' school because she had been attending classes, so she only talked to girls, including the teachers in school, and all of them were female teachers, Xiaolan had never spoken to other boys except for communicating with her father, and when she was in high school, she originally wanted her to go to a girls' school, but her father persuaded her mother that the child would become an adult sooner or later, and sooner or later she would enter society, and if she didn't talk to boys, she would definitely be very uncomfortable to go to work all of a sudden.

So I chose a normal school and it was good, so I used this opportunity to exercise, so this became the case.

Xiaolan and boys generally have several manifestations of talking, scared, worried, want to say but dare not say that kind of feeling, but there is no problem at all when talking to girls, during the military training in the girls' dormitory and Chen Tianyu they chatted happily, now they are all called by endearments, Chen Tianyu habitually called Xiaoyu, Xiaolan, by the way, with the same name as the name, it is called Xiaolan (Xiaolan)!

Xiaolan belongs to the third class of the headquarters, and when she first came to the class, she didn't know anyone, but now she has chatted with the girl sitting nearby, but the boy basically hasn't spoken, except for the boy asking her some questions, nothing else.

Xiaolan also has a relatively docile personality and listens to Chen Tianyu's words very much, so she met her friends, that is, Zhang Hao and them, at the first party, watching other people chatting normally, Xiaolan was a little skeptical at first, because at that time she couldn't understand why the chat between girls and boys could be so skillful, she was very envious and didn't dare to try, Xue Han also tried to help her, because it was also clear that there was no way to do this in the future, and if she could, she would help. Xue Han thought that Zhang Hao said this question, and it was difficult for the boys to understand, because if they hadn't done these things, human instincts would be afraid to try, but after the first step of bravely trying, it would not be so difficult to think about it.

With the help of Zhang Hao and them, Xiaolan is finally able to talk to boys now, I don't know why, it may have something to do with the tension of talking in person, because when chatting on the Internet (QQ group), Xiaolan has no problem at all, and it doesn't matter if it is a boy who chats with him, this is a psychological problem that needs to be mediated.

Xiaolan didn't hold any position in this class, but this is what she wanted, because once she got into any position, the students would definitely come to her if they had any questions, so the people who asked questions must not only be girls, so she gave up when she thought of this.

At the same time, Xiaolan also joined the Adventure Club with Zhang Hao, although she herself is not very interested in the club, but this is also an opportunity to exercise, and strive to get rid of the fear of talking to boys within three years of high school.

In the first three days, Xiaolan's communication skills have become more and more powerful, of course, Chen Tianyu has absolute credit, that is, her skills, and now she has talked to most of the girls in the class, and it feels pretty good, but until now, she still didn't say a word in the face of the boys, until the first class on Thursday morning, Xiaolan finally mustered up the courage and planned to talk to the boys next to her when the class ended. Xiaolan has indeed changed in the past few days, but it is always beautiful to think about, but it is very difficult to do.

At the end of the first class, there were ten minutes between classes, Xiaolan put together the language book and wanted to talk to him, but just when she wanted to talk, she suddenly remembered that she didn't know what to say, so Xiaolan thought, "Yes!

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If you really want to say something, there are still a lot of things, such as what is your name, which school did you go to, what kind of hobbies do you have, etc., etc., the main reason is that I don't know where to start, I should always have an entry point to talk to others! Xiaolan can't think of anything, so she wants to speak, but she can't say it, ten minutes just passed, until the time of class, she didn't say a word, Xiaolan felt that she was a failure, her head fell on the table, and she couldn't help but sigh.

In the second class, Xiaolan put things aside, listened carefully, and studied hard was the main purpose.

Originally, there was nothing, but the boy next to him inadvertently knocked his pen off the ground during class, Xiaolan subconsciously picked up the pen and handed it back to him, because there had been this kind of thing in school before, so the body reacted instinctively, the boy took the pen and said thank you, Xiaolan only then reacted that it was the boy, although it was difficult to speak, and finally said, "No thanks!"

Xiaolan finally said the first sentence to the first boy in the class this time, although she only said two words, but it meant a lot to her, and she finally made some progress, I thought there was nothing wrong, but at the end of the second class, the boy also talked to her, "That, you, what's your name?" Suddenly accosting her, Xiaolan was startled, "Huh?"

The two of them inadvertently looked at each other, Xiaolan looked around, and then asked the boy, "You, are you asking me?"

The boy nodded, "You also helped me a little bit during class, of course I asked you." ”

"Oh, that's it, just help, actually, it's nothing! Xiaolan spoke in a very small voice, and then deliberately looked away, and the boy also introduced himself, "My name is Wu Sheng, you shouldn't be a male phobia again!" Xiaolan shook her head, and then quickly explained, otherwise she would be misunderstood, "No, no, it's just that I'm not used to talking to, boy, it's just." ”

"I see, I thought you hated me for a moment!" Wu Sheng didn't want to annoy the girl who spoke for the first time. So the two people who didn't know each other chatted during the big class, and after listening to Xiaolan's narration, Wu Sheng also knew some of the situation, "So that's the case, you used to be a girls' school, and you didn't have any contact with boys at all, but now that you come to a general high school, of course you won't be able to adapt, in fact, I also have a habit, that is, to come to a new environment, first have a good relationship with your classmates before and after, but I don't seem to talk much, thinking that you are a cold type, which makes it difficult for people to contact, it seems that it is solved now." ”

Xiaolan has made great progress, and has already chatted with her classmates, and it seems that it only takes time to make Xiaolan fully adapt.