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It's a pity that in the days after marriage, Wei didn't have to deliver food anymore, and buying vegetables and cooking became my business. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info In our own small family, he is busy with work, I have to go to work and take care of the family and do housework, and the two of us are always tired enough. The days went by day by day, but I slowly realized that it was no longer the same as before. Now, he comes home on time from work, but after he has eaten and washed the dishes, his day's activities are over. Even if the dirty clothes in the house were piled up and the dust on the floor was crawled by ants, he couldn't remember to clean it up. The expression of concern is gone, the behavior of bothering to please you is gone, as long as I don't ask, he will never take the initiative to do something for me, even if it is just to watch a movie and take a walk......
My friends always say that I am too demanding, saying that in today's society, men are willing to go home on time and do not go out for the night, what more do you want? However, there must be something in life that moves you and makes you willing to pay for it. In the days when things are as plain as water, if you can't even give the occasional touch, how can you survive a long life? Marriage, like people, is alive and needs a popping heartbeat. Therefore, I can only recall the episode of his original food and soup over and over again, so as to tell myself that he is still worth cherishing. Actually, I clearly understand in my heart that there is nothing to cherish? It's just that we women are more nostalgic, and always remember a little bit of his old goodness, a little sincerity, so we always can't afford to let go, for him, these are long gone, and I can only sing to myself, "Don't mention the past again!"
I once saw such a story on the Internet: about a girl who is not very beautiful in shape and appearance and quietly falls in love with a handsome guy. But the handsome guy actually has a sweetheart for a long time. The handsome guy wants to be polite, and she doesn't want to hurt this innocent girl's heart. So the handsome guy casually joked: "You are a very characteristic girl, but if you can create a new self, I think, I may fall in love with you." At that time, a Korean drama was being broadcast, and the heroine in the play captured her Prince Charming through plastic surgery. This gray duckling-like girl also took the handsome guy's words seriously, and the focus of her life shifted to slimming and plastic surgery. And the degree of attachment is somewhat close to the level of perversion. Unfortunately, the girl developed a systemic infection during a cosmetic surgery. The girl is close to being as beautiful as a flower, but the severe infection has also brought her life to an end. The dying girl wants to see the handsome guy one last time. But at this time, the handsome guy is on the most glorious page of his life, marrying his bride with a grand wedding. Of course, he couldn't get out of the hospital at such a time to see a girl who didn't care much about him. The girl's regret is that she died for the sake of the pleasing and the pleasing of the beneficial, but the man who was obsessed with himself could not come to take a final look at his poignantness.
Such a little story once touched many little girls who were not deeply involved in the world, and everyone was willing to shed tears for the infatuation of women. However, I could not really be moved by this breezy night, and I only felt sad for the blind enthusiasm of a woman. How to put it, why does the world have to encourage women to despise their lives for the sake of momentary emotion?
It is said that the love between two people in this life and this life needs to go through the reincarnation of life in nine lifetimes. Therefore, there are many people in life who are crazy about love, some people insist on giving a girl a bouquet of roses every day, and there are also girls who silently watch a person in this life. The power of love is really evil, but why do we live in this world with so many love tragedies every day?
I think that loving only one man in my life is of course a beautiful thing. However, the premise of its occurrence must be the deep sucking of two hearts, the thousand-year reunion of the golden wind and jade dew, and the brilliant spark emitted when the souls collide in the netherworld. If it is a one-sided love, the woman who is in unrequited love is really not worth deliberately changing herself for the sake of the other party.
Don't mistake a man's sympathy for love. If a man thinks that you are not the type he likes, it will not help you to please him. Or, in an occasional situation, a small number of men will be moved by the sincerity of the girl, and they mistake pity for love. However, a man's whole life is growing, and when his heart grows, his hopes for feelings are also expanding. At that time, it will be difficult for a kind of sympathetic love to bind the boy who grows up. Many times men's changes of heart are also based on this.
In the popular song, it is said: A flower blooms, and a flower is grateful. Love is like a flower. The old love has withered, and the new love flower is bright and dripping. Know how to let go, know how to move forward on the road of life with joy and sorrow, happy if there is love, and follow fate if there is no love. The happiness of life can always be in the hands of our women themselves.
Sometimes, it is for the sake of love that they quietly dodge. What is hiding is the figure, but what can't be avoided is the silent feelings.
Love is precious only when it is divided, and many people don't know how to cherish it. I didn't see it until I lost it, but in fact, the most familiar is the most precious.
Sometimes, love hurts. Cruel people choose to hurt others, and kind people choose to hurt themselves.
Life is not endless, and loneliness is endless. Loneliness is the eternal theme of love. I was alone with my shadow. It said it had something to whisper to me. It says it misses you very much, and it turns out that my shadow and I are thinking about you.
A tragedy has just unfolded on the other side of perfection, where all the blood and tears have grown a bud in the withered thorns, which will go through the seven thunderstorms of reincarnation and then bloom in the humid air......
The fish is hooked, it is because the fish is in love with the fisherman, and it is willing to use its life to make the fisherman smile......
I thought that the bird could not fly over the sea, but I thought that the bird did not have the courage to fly through the sea, and ten years later I found that it was not the bird that could not fly over, but the end of the sea, and there was no longer waiting......
Some encounters between people are like shooting stars, bursting out with enviable sparks in an instant, but they are destined to just pass by in a hurry.
Time will slowly settle, and some people will slowly blur in your heart. Learn to let go, your happiness needs its own fulfillment.
I can feel your heartache, you have helplessness that you can't speak...... But you act like you don't care, and the more you do that, the more uncomfortable I feel.