There is always nostalgia for the past after loss, maybe this is human nature. The pen and fun pavilion www.biquge.info not know how to cherish when you have it, and you only know its value when you lose it. There is a story that once touched me, that there is a spider in the local Yuanyin Temple, because he breathes the air in the temple every day for a long time, he also has spirituality, when he has been practicing for 1,000 years, there is a traveling monk passing by here, so he came to the temple, and when he was leaving, he looked up and saw the spider coiled in the web, so he asked him: "Spider, what do you think is the most precious thing in the world?" The spider replied: "Not gained and lost." The monk smiled and left.

Soon after spring came, a breeze blew a dew drop into this temple, just knotted on the spider's web, the dew was crystal clear in the sun, especially beautiful, the spider was very happy, and loved it like a treasure every day. Soon 1000 years passed, the monk came to the temple again, after the completion of the scriptures, he saw the spider, at this time the spider has been practicing for 1000 years, the monk asked the same question, and the spider also answered the same way. The monk smiled and left. Autumn came, and a gust of wind blew the dew away, and the spiders were very sad. But it didn't help. When the monk came for the third time, he didn't ask the spider a question, but he said, spider, have you changed your answer? The spider replied, "No change." The monk said, "Okay, I'll let you reincarnate in the human world, and you'll tell me the answer when you come back."

So the spider was reincarnated as a young lady of a large family, named Spider, a few years past the spider has been out of the very beautiful, at the age of 16, the emperor chose a relative for the prince, many famous ladies went to participate, during which the spider met the martial champion nectar, he was both civil and military, handsome and chic, and the spider secretly liked him. I feel that Manna and her acquaintance have their own arrangements. But the edict soon made the spider never expect that the emperor would marry the spider to the crown prince Zhicao, and the princess Qingfeng to manna.

The spider was very sad and sought death, and his soul saw the monk and asked the monk why this was? The monk told him: The nectar was the crystal clear dew of the year, but the dew was brought by the wind and naturally carried him away by the wind. And the current Prince Zhicao was a small grass that grew at the gate of Yuanyin Temple, and it was reincarnated in the world due to years of cultivation. He has loved you for 3,000 years, but you have never looked down at him. After listening to the monk's words, the spider restored his soul and saw the prince of Zhicao who was sad for him and was ready to kill himself, and he was in great pain in an instant, so he stepped forward and snatched the sword from the prince's hand and hugged him together.

At this time, the monk appeared and asked the spider, "Spider, what is the most precious thing in the world?" The spider replied, "It's not that it has not been gained or lost, but it cherishes every moment of the present" The monk smiled with satisfaction. This is the end of the story, but the last words are very impressive to me. Yes, we should cherish the present, no matter life, love should be cherished.

Friends say that he is happy now, but sometimes he still thinks about those people and things in the past. I miss it, hehe, it's nostalgic by standard. I used to really miss and think of heartache, but even if I think about it now, it's only because I remember the good memories of the past, and he is just the protagonist of those good memories that used to be good, so I naturally think of him. Life is like this, the more you want to forget something, the more you remember it clearly, because you care too much. Dear friends, seize the present, maybe your indifference is hurting others. In my eyes, love is a kind of consistent and unwavering, and I will stick to my original intention at all times. As the song goes: Love is a faith. It is not so much about love to the end as it is about faith to the end, whether it is missing or nostalgic is beautiful, let us use these beauty to build our harmonious life......

When she was 21 years old, she met him, and the two fell in love at first sight and quickly fell in love.

He calls several times a day, reminds her to eat and sleep on time, and keeps her warm; he often accompanies her to go shopping, takes her to play, helps her carry her bag to pay for her, and makes her heartbeat; on holidays, he personally cooks delicious meals for her, which moves her; every festival and anniversary, he sends delicate roses to the company to make her intoxicated; he always creates a lot of little romance to make her happy......

She enjoys the sweetness of love and longs to be with him every moment. She felt that the most beautiful love in the world was nothing more than that.

At the age of 25, she married him. After marriage, she began to look at him unpleasantly.

When she got home, he watched the ball game with the remote control and yelled, waiting for her to finish the meal, which made her tired; he played games on the computer and ignored her doing housework, which made her feel sad; he often forgot to call back when he didn't go home for dinner, which made her feel cold; on holidays and anniversaries, he went out to play with his friends as if nothing happened, leaving her alone at home, which made her heart die......

She endures the tedium of marriage and begins to wonder if there is still love between them. She felt that the most painful marriage in the world was nothing more than that.

At the age of 28, she divorced him. After the divorce, she felt that life was very comfortable.

She no longer has to rush home to cook after work, she can do what she wants, and eat out if she doesn't want to do it, saving trouble; she no longer has to go to the supermarket every week to carry a bunch of food back, and fill the refrigerator enough to live for a month, worry-free; she no longer has to worry about her hands becoming rough because of housework, a person's house is always clean and tidy, pleasing to the eye; she no longer has to care about how much savings she has on her bank card, she can go shopping spree with her sisters, drink with her buddies and go to the bar to close, and have a good time......

She enjoyed her long-lost freedom, and was glad that she ended her marriage in time. She felt that she was "in the cage for a long time, and then returned to nature." ”

At the age of 31, she was still single. She felt lonely and missed the old days.

Eating alone, she feels tasteless, misses her eagerness to taste and praise, wears beautiful clothes, she feels meaningless, misses him smiling and reproaching her for "stinky beauty", sits in the house on the weekend, she feels empty, misses him accompanying her to watch variety shows and pretends to be jealous to the handsome guys on TV, she is afraid of when her relatives and friends are concerned about when she will get married, she hates the arrival of the festival to make her more lonely, she wants a child......

She finally knew that women need fresh love, and they need a plain marriage. Marriage is a glass of light boiled water, which may not taste good, but it can really quench your thirst.