21.Chapter 21 The Beginning of Healing
When Lin Qingyu said this, the whole person had already appeared in that hysterical state again, and even the forehead and other exposed skin burst out with green tendons, and the surging blood seemed to burst out. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ο½ο½ο½ο½ο½ο½ γ ο½ο½ο½ο½
Seeing such a situation, Yun Xiao secretly breathed a sigh of relief.
If that's the cause...... Yunxiao is confident to solve it. Moreover, Lin Qingyu's demonic posture is so excited, but it seems that her second personality is actually not stable.
The more crazy it is, the more often the second personality tries to stabilize itself and convince itself.
Before splitting personality, it is important to try to keep the main personality calm. But once multiple personalities have been formed, in order to return to the original state, it is necessary to introduce the currently dominant personality into a state of agitation. The more agitated, the more it represents the chaos and instability of the current personality, and only by letting the instability of the current personality reach the extreme, let the current personality confide all the triggers, and then shake the worldview of the current personality through psychotherapy, can the main personality have a chance to recover.
Although Lin Qingyu seems to have changed as a person, it is obvious that her memory is not the slightest confusion at all, and this strange reaction makes Yun Xiao vaguely have such a judgment-
The so-called inner demon is the change of world view and outlook on life.
Lin Qingyu's memory has not changed at all, but after her heart is demonized, her perspective on things has completely changed.
The same memory, under the influence of different worldviews and outlooks on life, will lead to different conclusions and judgments of right and wrong.
If Lin Qingyu's previous normal worldview was a kind young lady from a family, her outlook on life was "important family", "filial piety to parents and love for her younger brother", "unity, friendship, respect for others", "kindness and tolerance", such Lin Qingyu will be considerate of everything, whether it is the slight partiality of her parents towards her younger brother, or her natural lack of qualifications, Lin Qingyu will understand and accept it.
Because this is more because of fate, rather than the Lin family's active bias. Normal people would accept this situation.
But once her heart is demonized, the cognition under her same memory has become "Heaven is unfair!", "Both parents are partial", "My brother is an enemy", "All love and family are fake, only myself is the most important", "So if you don't like it, you will die for me". This should be the current world view of the inner demon Lin Qingyu, the inner demon will completely only think about problems from his own point of view, and will never think about others even a little.
At this time, Lin Qingyu was already completely in the world view of the heart demon, and the heart demon would not understand everything, or the existence of the heart demon was to hate everything. Even innate aptitude can become a "reason" for the hatred of the demons.
Yun Xiao suddenly had a realization, maybe ...... This so-called inner demon is a worldview that is completely distorted when a normal worldview is affected by a large number of negative emotions.
Normal people will know how to accept some unsatisfactory in their lives, and only extreme brain-dead people will think that they should have an absolutely perfect life, and think that the whole world should revolve around her. But obviously, the demon is to turn normal people into the pursuit of extreme brain-dead postures.
"The way of heaven is wrong! It's not fair at all!" Lin Qingyu continued to roar, his voice became more and more terrifying, and he could no longer find the gentleness and gentleness of the past: "Not only you, but also Wang Yeyong, Wang Yeying, and Canglan Yalan of the Canglan family, what are they? A small family that is less than 10,000 years old, but has the qualifications of the third and second grades, I am the daughter of the Lin family inherited for thousands of years, why do I only have the qualifications of the fifth grade! What other mortal slaves...... Even a mortal slave like Zhao Yunshuang is a top-grade pure spirit root, why am I actually a dual-line miscellaneous spirit root!Why!Why!!!"
Yun Xiao squinted, waiting for Lin Qingyu to continue to vent, and didn't say anything.
He's waiting.
Waiting for Lin Qingyu to explode the emotions in the negative personality to the highest, waiting for her to say all the "reasons" for the formation of the negative personality.
When the "raison d'Γͺtre" of the negative personality reaches its highest point......
That's the beginning of the counterattack.
Because the highest point means ......
A recession is coming.
"Heaven is unfair, then! I am going to reverse this heaven! I want to break everything that is unfair to me! Everything! Everything!! Let everything die!"
Lin Qingyu ended her roar with this roar, and after finishing speaking, she stared at Yun Xiao with blood-red eyes, the heat emitted by her body had already made Yun Xiao feel as hot as fire through the prohibition.
Then Yun smiled and smiled.
(Reached the top...... Then, emotions should start to enter a recession. My treatment can begin!)
"Qingyu, let me tell you a story, it's a legend from our place. Yun Xiao's speech was fast, but steady. His voice seemed very magnetic and charming, so that Lin Qingyu in the state of demons did not interrupt for a while.
"Once upon a time there was a pair of mortal siblings, the elder sister was gentle and obedient, and very devout to the sages. And the younger brother is a stubborn mischievous man, and he never believes in the sages or reads the books of the sages. This story is a Western story I have heard before, but Yun Xiao replaced the "God" in the original story with "sage".
"But the elder sister has never received any reward from heaven, and the younger brother has not received any punishment from heaven for his stubbornness. β
Lin Qingyu was originally a little disdainful and did not react, but when he heard this, he couldn't help but respond: "That's because God is unfair in the first place." β
Yun Xiao did not answer, but continued to tell the story, his voice was soft and emotional, with a fascinating and peculiar charm: "So one day, when that young lady was lucky enough to meet the sage, she asked the sage, 'Sage, you taught me to be kind, to be friendly, to be filial to my parents, to love my friends, and I have listened to your teachings. As for my younger brother, he was stubborn, disobedient, disobedient to his parents, and often quarreled with others, causing trouble. But why have I never been rewarded by God, and my brother has never been punished by God? Tell me, why?"
The basic method of starting psychotherapy is to make the story that the other person can relate to at the moment, and the difficulty for the psychiatrist is only how to choose the story.
"Because heaven is unfair!" Lin Qingyu gritted her teeth, but she couldn't help lowering her voice, she was gradually attracted by Yun Xiao's story, even if she was demonic, she also had things to care about, and she also had questions that she wanted to know the answers.
The sage smiled, and he said softly to the girl who felt unfair. Yun Xiao said this, paused, and his eyes gently looked at Lin Qingyu's bewishing eyes: "God gives you gentleness, kindness, and all good qualities, which is the greatest reward for you." And God gave him stubbornness, gave him disobedience, and gave him all the rebelliousness and arrogance, which is the greatest punishment for him. β
"What kind of bullshit reward and punishment is this!" Lin Qingyu shouted.
However, Yun Xiao's voice was not affected in the slightest, and she said softly in a gentle and sincere voice: "If you are gentle and kind, you will be liked by your parents, friendly by your friends, and accepted by the people around you." And if you are stubborn and disobedient, you will be scolded by your parents, abandoned by your friends, and hated by everyone around you. β
"Isn't it a reward to be admired and loved, and isn't it a punishment to be scolded and hated?"
Normal people will like good people who are kind and gentle, generous and responsible, and no one will like a bad person who is selfish, narrow-minded, and has a bad character. β
"But some people are narrow-minded by nature, they just like jealousy and hatred, and they can't win the likes of those around them. Even if these people voted for a good baby and were flattered and pandered to by some people, those people were just going for her family background, and they would never go for her person. β
And in the same way, as long as you have a kind and gentle nature, you will be liked by everyone around you. No one doesn't like a woman who is gentle and kind by nature, even if she doesn't have any value to be used and great abilities. This is human nature and instinct. β
"In fact, the natural character is the real injustice of heaven. Those who are naturally narrow-minded are more qualified to scold the way of heaven. The appearance can be shaped, the body can be shaped, but what about the personality?"
"Many people are narrow-minded and selfish by nature, but they also yearn to be pursued, liked, and recognized. In order to be recognized by others, in order to be accepted by the whole human society, they must forcibly suppress the selfish nature in their hearts and disguise themselves as gentle and kind people, but this disguise is a great pain because it violates their nature. Because they can't do things according to their hearts. And what is false is always false, and one day their true nature will be revealed, and that day will be the most cruel time for them. β
"In my hometown, when a place is hit by a disaster, there will be a collection of donations and donations to the disaster area. If people are kind by nature, they will help those poor people from the bottom of their hearts, donate, or go to help themselves, and at the same time help others, these kind people themselves get a kind of satisfaction for their own hearts. But those who are selfish and petty, especially celebrities, although they are reluctant in their hearts, but under the public opinion of society, they must also donate. Whether they want to or not, they have to donate the same, unless they don't want to maintain their glamorous image. But when they donate, they are actually distressed and against their hearts, and they don't want to give their money to people they don't know at all. β
"For the same event that is recognized by the needs of society, the kind person can reap the double reward, while the selfish person will only feel helplessness and pain. No matter how much they curse and denigrate kindness, what this society needs and recognizes is kindness. These narrow-minded and selfish people, the only thing they can do is to imagine that there has never been real goodness in the world, they can only imagine that all kindness is fake, it is all hypocrisy, they fantasize that everyone is the same as them is goodness in disguise, they only want to take and don't want to give, and they imagine that other people will feel pain as long as they give. But they actually know in their hearts that true kindness exists, and those kind people, while paying, have already reaped a spiritual satisfaction. And they will never get this satisfaction, so they will suffer even more. β