3. Chapter 3 There is nothing to be afraid of educating an immortal master
The immortal master was angry, and the people of Sanghu Village who were watching next to him were terrified, and the village chief even sat down on the ground, trembling, but the smile on Yun Xiao's face, who bore the brunt, remained unchanged: "Immortal Master, you are angry, the student is reasonable?"
(Although this Lin Immortal Master seems to be angry, the blood vessels in his eyes and head are not congested, his pupils are not narrowed, and his hand muscles are still relaxed...... Are you testing my guts? Huh...... )
There is a saying in the world that "the children of the poor are in charge of the house early." Although the students of Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info are not cultivators, they are also students who are accustomed to seeing the world. Among the worldly students, those who are from poor families and encounter great disasters are often far more diligent in their studies than those from wealthy families. If the immortal master doesn't believe it, he can go to the surrounding states and counties to make secret visits, and he will know that what the student said is true. ”
Lin Xinhong's anger eased, thought for a while, and nodded: "There is some truth to it, but the laziness and frivolity of this rebel son is unscrupulous, even if it is an ordinary family, how can there be such a stubborn person." ”
"If there is no pressure, there will be no motivation, and people with good enough family background will be lazy and frivolous for their children and grandchildren. Didn't you work hard in your early years just to hope that your children would not be as miserable and helpless as you were when you were young?" Yun Xiao secretly praised Lin Xinhong before continuing: "Master Lin Xian, all studies need motivation. As the so-called twisted melon is not sweet, the forced requirements of others are very different from their own motivation to learn. He doesn't have the same experience as you, he hasn't suffered some blows, so he can't work on his own. Therefore, the motivation of a child from a privileged family often lies in other reasons, rather than his own consciousness. ”
"Conscious...... This word also has a bit of meaning...... "Lin Xinhong's sword eyebrows tightened, thoughtful.
"What's more...... Master Lin Xian, the student dares to ask you, when you were a teenager, there was an insurmountable mountain in front of you, no matter how hard you tried, you couldn't break through, no matter how hard you tried, you couldn't get the affirmation of others, and there was always only punishment and criticism...... Dare to ask...... How much motivation do you have to choose to continue to work hard? Your blind compulsion, for a child of his age, will not only not let him spontaneously work hard to practice, but will also make him rebel against cultivation and study. ”
Lin Xinhong opened his mouth, but he did not scold again.
The love is deep and responsible, and the strictness to Lin Qinglan is not that Lin Xinhong doesn't like this son, but that his expectations are too high. Lin Qinglan's "failure" has already made Lin Xinhong sad for many years, but it cannot be reversed, for Lin Xinhong, there is nothing in the world that makes him desperate more than the fall of this qualified son.
If the child's failure is not because the child's nature is problematic, but because of his own failure as a father's education, Lin Xinhong would rather be the latter.
It can only be the latter!!
"But......" Lin Xinhong pondered for a while, but still shook his head, and pointed at Lin Qinglan with his hand: "It's just a lazy practice, but what he did today is a great insult to my Lin family's style, and this matter is unforgivable!"
Hearing this, the beautiful woman next to her had red circles in her eyes and almost burst into tears.
(The whites of the eyes are somewhat congested, the upper eyelids are constricted, the large arteries in the neck are bulging, and the fingers are trembling slightly, indicating that his mood swings are severe.) This sentence is not purely superficial, but does want to punish this little boy?...... Is it really because when his son kills strange mortals, he just retreats from the battle and punishes him? This sect is really too harsh...... However, from this point of view, this immortal master named Lin Xinhong may have a lack of education methods, but he seems to be a truly upright person, but such a person is better to deal with. )
Yun Xiao was still smiling: "Immortal Master Lin, I want to ask, what is wrong with Young Master Lin?"
Lin Xinhong said in a deep voice: "My Lin family's ancestral training, 'the greater the ability, the greater the responsibility', as a monk, he should protect the township, but today he acted improperly and was not good for eliminating harm, but because he was greedy for life and afraid of death, he fled for his life, let the demon beast destroy your village, as a person in the village, don't you blame him?"
Yun Xiao looked surprised: "That demon beast appeared in the northern mountain forest thirteen days ago, and in the past thirteen days, it has devoured three people in my village and injured more than a dozen people. Lin Gongzi is not from my village, and he knows that his cultivation is not as good as that monster, but even so, Lin Gongzi still does everything to fight for the affairs of my village, which is exactly the sage's saying' in the words of the sage, how can such a benevolent and righteous thing become a sin in your mouth? What's more, if it weren't for Lin Gongzi, how could the tiger be killed by you?"
Lin Xinhong's face froze.
"Don't misunderstand, little sir!" The beautiful woman hurriedly said: "If it weren't for my husband's not coming, my husband was already in retreat a hundred days ago, and when the demon beast attacked, my husband was at a critical juncture......
(This immortal master is really upright...... Legend has it that these immortal masters are all high, and today they are so eager to explain because it is not good to protect civilians...... This family surnamed Lin is really peculiar...... )
"Madame Rong Bing, Xiao Ke never blamed the immortal master, Xiao Ke has already heard that my Sanghu Village has been sheltered in the wings of Qionghua Villa for a hundred years, and I also know that the immortal master will definitely not know that my village is in trouble and ignore it, the reason why I failed to get rid of the demon in time must be its original. Therefore, when Lin Immortal Master had no time to clone himself, he resolutely took action for the people of my village regardless of his own lack of cultivation, and I felt his virtue from top to bottom in Sanghu Village!
"But he escaped ......," Lin Xinhong still frowned.
Yun Xiao said loudly: "The demon beast is strong, and the little immortal master has not been caught, so it is only right to avoid its peak for the time being! If the little immortal master is brutal and tough, even if he can block the demon beast for a while, once the little immortal master is defeated and injured, my Sanghu Village is all ordinary people, who else can resist the demon beast?"
As soon as these words came out, Lin Xinhong and the beautiful woman's expressions were much soothed, and the beautiful woman's eyes were full of gratitude, but Lin Xinhong looked at the messy ruins around him, and still hesitated in his eyes.
Yun smiled and said: "Immortal Master, if you feel that the little boy has acted improperly, you can help make up for it, and the villagers who compensate for the losses more are the parents, shouldn't they just pick up the gaps for their children? "As long as the little immortal master is okay, a little house and land is nothing!"
"Save people and lose land, people and land are saved, people and land are lost, people and land are lost! People and land are saved, people and land are saved, people and land are lost, people and land are ......lost, people and land are lost, Lin Xinhong was shocked when he heard this, and kept chanting these two sentences, his straight posture was shaky, and his face was sad and sad.
Yun Xiao saw that Lin Xinhong seemed to be touched by his words, and frowned slightly.
(This Lin Xinhong is so demeanor, I'm afraid that this Lin family really caused some tragic things because of Geng's excesses, remember that he said that he lost his family at a young age, perhaps...... No, the current state of affairs is good, so let's take the original trajectory of the plan as the top, and first pull the topic back to the educational method to achieve the original plan. )
Of course, Lin Gongzi did make mistakes and omissions in this matter. But the mistake and omission is only that Lin Gongzi was a little arrogant when he designed the trap and despised the demon beast. But this is just a lack of ability and experience, not a fault of the mind. He's just a kid, and he can't go through as much as you do, so he's bound to make mistakes, and he's bound to be lazy in his practice. Although you may have educated him, people are not mechanical puppets, and many things about people must be experienced in person before they can really understand.
"Is it reasonable to take the wisdom and ambition of an adult and ask a child to do the same?" Yun Xiao said this, and sighed deeply: "He's just a child......"
With Yun Xiao's sigh, ********'s beautiful eyes gradually turned red, and her gaze at Lin Qinglan was no longer the kind of hatred that made iron but not steel, nor was it sadness and despair, but pity and apology.
The beautiful woman looked at her child, her eyes became redder and redder, and the distress in her chest was even more incomprehensible. There is only one sentence in my heart: Son, my mother is incompetent, I don't know how to teach, I have been blindly blaming you all these years, and my mother is sorry for you...... Thousands of mistakes, it's all my mother's fault, you ...... Don't you be bad......
Looking at the demeanor of these two parents, a smile flashed in Yun Xiao's eyes.
He knows that his psychological counseling for children's education has been successful.
But...... Strike while the iron is still hot.
"Many parents think that being strict with their children is a good education, but unfortunately, they are wrong. In addition to strictness, there is more need for love, and in addition to strict teaching, the efforts of children must also be affirmed and encouraged. ”
"People only grow from mistakes and failures, and no one can not make mistakes. Therefore, the way parents treat a child after making a mistake often has a great impact on a child's psychology. ”
It's a pity that many parents don't understand this truth until their children grow up. The strict education they think is correct is actually the same mistake and the same extreme as those parents who spoil too much. ”
"As the so-called ten years of trees and a hundred years of people, education is a hundred years of plan, but it is not an easy task......
After saying this, Yun Xiao exhaled a long breath, and looked at the family of three in front of him with a compassionate demeanor.
A family of three immortal monks.
After a long time, Lin Xinhong listened to Yun Xiao's long series of speeches in a daze, and then took a long breath, raised his arms, looked solemn, and bowed his hand towards Yun Xiao: "Mr. Yun...... Lin was presumptuous, but he didn't know ...... Can you please let me sit in the west seat of Qionghua Villa?"