"A gentleman should have three provinces a day, and the so-called self-examination is to examine oneself and explore one's own heart, which is to review. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 The first punishment of the teacher was to punish you for 10 days in your room and behind closed doors. Well...... Review of more than 800 words, three copies per day. ”

Yun Xiao endured the bad taste in his heart that was not spoken of by outsiders, and gave such a punishment.

Children's education can only be regarded as a side branch of psychotherapy, and I am only slightly involved. In the past, although I have done a few children's psychological counseling and tutoring experience in that world, I have never asked students to write a review book, after all, most of the children there are pampered, even if they are scolded, they will be complained by their parents, where can they be punished for writing a review book?

Yun Xiao only felt that as soon as this kind of punishment came out, the old grudges in his heart completely dissipated, and he really had a good idea, and he was quite happy to become a Buddha.

"Only, it's just closed for ten days?" Lin Qinglan was stunned: "Sir, what kind of punishment is this?"

Mrs. Lin was also a little apprehensive: "Sir, isn't this kind of punishment too light?"

Yun Xiao was also stunned when he heard this.

Maintaining three reviews of more than 800 words a day for ten consecutive days is already very inhumane in Yun Xiao's opinion. In the past, in that world, this was considered a standard of corporal punishment, but now the people of the Lin family don't seem to think that this is punishment at all? Of course...... I can't say that right now, so let's find a reason...... Well, what's the reason to say it's lofty?

Yun Xiao solemnly saluted Mrs. Lin: "Madam, I want to ask, what is the purpose of the punishment?"

"Huh?" Mrs. Lin was a little confused: "Naturally, naturally because of something wrong......"

Yun Xiao shook his head and sighed, "Madam, the student is not an official, but a teacher. The government only punishes criminals because they have violated the criminal law, but the ultimate purpose of teachers punishing students is not to maintain dogma, but to make students grow and improve. The purpose of punishment is to make the child aware of his mistake and then correct it, but it is not to require the child to follow a certain rule. If punishment is only for the sake of upholding dogmatic rules, it is called dogmatism, and it is not advisable for us to be teachers. ”

Mrs. Lin was a little dazed.

She didn't understand this passage very well, obviously she understood every word, but she couldn't understand the combination.

But I felt that this little gentleman's words were very reasonable.

I don't really understand what it means, but I think it's amazing.

I really don't know what to do.

"The woman's family is shallow, and the husband teaches my son by himself, and the concubine doesn't dare to say more. Mrs. Lin respectfully bowed.

Yun smiled in return: "Don't dare to be." After returning the salute, he turned his head and said to Lin Qinglan: "This review book is for you to write out all your thoughts." Whether it is your complaints, incomprehension, or conscious grievances, or dissatisfaction with your parents, you must write it out. ”

Lin Qinglan was shocked: "How can I be dissatisfied with my father!"

Yun Xiao said indifferently: "When I was young and ignorant, I was also dissatisfied with my parents, what's so strange? Parents who make their children feel dissatisfied are good parents." If a person has never been dissatisfied with his parents, then his parents must be incompetent, and he will definitely grow up to be a gentleman. ”

"If a person has never been dissatisfied with his parents, then his parents must be incompetent." The logic of this statement seems to be a bit unreasonable, is it true that a child who is dissatisfied with his parents is a good child? But after Mrs. Lin said it a few times, she was shocked.

If children are never dissatisfied with their parents, there is only one possibility - parents are obedient to their children.

Children act out of instinctive desires, and although they may be naïve, they may not be innocent, but untaught children will certainly not know the moral etiquette of humility, patience, and respect.

Playfulness, indulgence and selfishness are human nature, and children are certainly not avoidable, and without proper education, children will basically appear selfish and arrogant.

The so-called education, to put it bluntly, is "to restrain the instinct of desire with human morality".

The phrase "preserving the principles of heaven and destroying people's desires" is only overcorrected or distorted by some corrupt Confucianism, but it itself is reasonable. Human beings themselves use all kinds of inferior roots, and if they are not restrained by morality and etiquette, it is a return to animal nature.

If a child is never dissatisfied with his parents, then is it more than a child who has been raised in this way?

Lin Qinglan didn't expect this, and only felt a little frightened by this little gentleman's remarks.

Yun smiled and said: "Don't worry, this review book, also known as the book of self-reflection, was written by you for yourself." I've given you homework, but I don't check it. In other words, the thirty reviews in these ten days were written by you to yourself. ”

"Show it to myself?" Lin Qinglan felt that the teacher's approach made her unpredictable: "Don't you know how to watch it?"

"Of course not, as I have already said, this review is your own psychological journey to yourself along the way. Everyone has privacy, and respecting the privacy of others is the most basic moral cultivation of a gentleman. Since I ask you to analyze yourself and write about your private feelings, I naturally won't look at your privacy. ”

"Why did you ask me to write it if you didn't read it?"

"Hehe, when you have written thirty reviews according to my request, you will understand. Yun Xiao sold a pass.

"But if you don't check, what if the disciple is cheating and cheating? For example, what if you don't write so many words?"

Yun Xiao glanced at Lin Qinglan deeply: "I remember when you worshipped me as a teacher, you said that you are a good man." ”

"I, I'm naturally a good boy. ”

"Since you're a good man, once you've agreed to my request, why shouldn't I trust you?"

"Hiss......" Lin Qinglan gasped, and suddenly felt a blockage in her heart, this sense of trust, I don't know why it was so heavy.

"Since you are a good man, then you must be worthy of the three words of a good man. How can I not trust you as a teacher?"

"Master Yun, you ...... Do you really believe in me so much? We just met, how could you believe in me so much?" Lin Qinglan was still puzzled.

"Some people, Prime Minister Bai, know how to press the sword, but some people, seeing it once is enough to trust. Yun smiled and walked up to Lin Qinglan's side and patted him on the shoulder: "A young man who can challenge the powerful demon beasts he is invincible for the sake of a mortal village he doesn't know, if he says that he is a good man, then he must be a good man!"

Yun Xiao looked into the young man's eyes: "If you say, I will believe it!"

Lin Qinglan only felt that the hand on his shoulder was so heavy that it made his breathing heavy, and he breathed sharply, only feeling that there was a fire in his chest.

"A good man doesn't mean he doesn't lie. Soldiers are not tired of deceit, aren't those famous generals and wise men good men? A good man does not mean that he is not greedy for play, it is his nature to play, and the game is also chic in the world! But once a good man sincerely promises something, then he will definitely do his best to complete it, and he will not hesitate to go to the soup and go to the fire!" Lin Qinglan of the Yunxiao team showed a gentle smile: "So, what a good boy Lin Qinglan really should undertake, I, Yunxiao, will definitely believe him." ”

After Lin Qinglan took a few deep breaths, her eyes turned red, and she gritted her teeth and burst out five words: "Master Yun, don't worry! I will definitely complete it according to your requirements!"

"Good. Yun smiled.

(Children are just so coaxing, especially children from decent people...... Well, but this feeling of being trusted is also quite heavy. You little guy, respect me so much as a teacher, ...... in the future I'm afraid it's not good to just coax you...... ）

But the next moment, Lin Qinglan cried again: "Master Yun, this thing called the review book, the disciple has never written it, I really don't know how to write it, is there a format or something?"

Yun smiled and said, "There is no format, no routine, it's what you think in your heart." However, there are four stages for you to be a teacher. ”

"Four stages?"

"Yes. The first three days you wrote about all your resentment and incomprehension of your parents since you were a child. Don't deny it, I know you must have had a lot of grudges against your parents. But I also believe that there is a part of resentment and incomprehension, and as you grow up to now, you have understood a part, right? ”

Lin Qinglan nodded violently.

"Well, you write down everything you don't understand about your parents, anything you do to yourself that they think is wrong, and you yourself think it's not wrong, and you write it all down in a row. After writing nine letters for three days, you don't have to write on the fourth day, but you have a day off to look at the accounts of your ancestors in the past, and read the books of the saints you have studied before. After reading it, go back and look back at what you wrote three days ago, think about it, and try to look at your review as a bystander. After one day of rest, write again for three days, write again for three days and then rest for another day, and so on and so on, after repeatedly writing twenty-seven reviews for nine days, and the last day as a summary, a total of thirty letters, make sure to write down all your true psychological feelings. ”

Yun Xiao said: "Only you can see what you write, so you must write the most real feeling in your heart." Regardless of whether these feelings are ethical or not, keep this in mind. ”

"Uh...... Master Yun, even if it is what I think in my heart...... Not right?"

"You know you're thinking something wrong?"

"Forehead ......"

"If you know it's wrong, but you still do it, you must have your reasons. ”

"Forehead ......"

"Then write down your reasons, write them for yourself, and then think about why you do that, why do you think that you do it when you know it's wrong, this ...... It's called a review. However, there is another requirement for being a teacher, that is, no matter whether you are satisfied with what you write or not, don't tear it up, you can only keep it. ”

"Oh...... I, disciple, disciple knows......" Lin Qinglan was a little confused, he still didn't quite understand Yun Xiao's intentions, but Yun Xiao's attitude and communication skills towards him had already convinced Lin Qinglan of Yun Xiao. So although Lin Qinglan didn't know Bai Yunxiao's intentions, she had already subconsciously chosen to obey.