Chapter 145: Life
Ma Guocai secretly pinched a cold sweat! This incident is expected to happen again in the future, what should I do! On the way, I called my father again and told him that the two of them were back. The father asked him if he had lunch at home or if he had eaten outside and came back. After thinking about it, I felt that it might be one or two o'clock in the afternoon when the two of them got home, but it was not good for them to wait for the two to eat together, so they said that they would come back after eating outside.
Two hours later, I finally got home. Grandma was sitting in front of the door in Taping basking in the sun.
After leaving home for a year, I returned to my hometown again, looking at the familiar mountains and rivers, listening to the familiar local sounds, and feeling very comfortable. Tang Ziyi called her grandmother affectionately, and watched the two come back, her wrinkled face was wrinkled, and she smiled wrinkled.
"Grandma, I'm back!" Looking at the grandmother who seemed to be a little older, Ma Guocai thought to himself if there was alien technology that could delay her aging, not to mention immortality, at least let her live this life without illness and disaster, the older generation of people, for the next generation, pay too much.
"It's good to come back, it's good to come back!"
Tang Ziyi carried some calcium supplements and other things and said to grandma: "Grandma, I'm coming to see you again!"
Grandma leaned over, looked at the things in her hand, and said as if blaming: "Xiaoyi, why do you buy so many things every time you come and spend money indiscriminately, you haven't eaten all the things you bought last time!"
Tang Ziyi went over and hugged her grandmother and said, "Oh! It doesn't cost much, so you can eat more boldly." ”
"Hehe!" Grandma smiled happily.
From this point of view, Tang Ziyi is usually very filial, and he can be in his absence. Come back often to see your family. She's really good. I am still quite satisfied with Tang Ziyi's performance.
Ma Guocai didn't see his parents, so he asked, "What about my parents?"
Grandma smiled undiminished and said, "I'm busy in the vegetable garden." ”
"Oh, then I'll take a look. ”
Tang Ziyi chatted with her grandmother, and Ma Guocai went to the vegetable garden outside the fish pond to see her parents who she hadn't seen for a long time. When I met, I was inevitably cared for by my family, asked questions, and finally. I talked about the idea of wanting to hold my grandson again, saying that I had been married for more than a year, and I didn't let them hold my grandson, so I could help bring it while I still could. Accuse him that if something happens, he won't even have a follow-up.
Ma Guocai could only listen to his parents' counts and concerns, even if some words he didn't like to hear, but who called them parents? When they finished counting, they went to see their grandfather's pretense and quickly escaped.
Now it's broad daylight. Grandpa should be hiding in the house. I swept my mind and saw my grandfather in the house. I'm watching them from the windowsill upstairs.
In the divine thoughts, grandpa's cultivation has not made much progress, and after entering, he chatted with grandpa, and sent him the information he had learned about reincarnation to him, hoping that he would be prepared.
Cultivation is personal, and what he can help is very limited. Now it depends on grandpa's choice of future path, whether he will work hard to cultivate, reincarnate with memories, or keep doing a ghost cultivation like this. After staying in Taoism for so long, I also have a different perception of life and death.
Death, for some, may be a relief and a starting point for a new life. The death of the body does not mean that the person is really dead, some people are dead and still alive in people's hearts. The cycle of life is a normal thing for mortals.
If you are afraid, it will only fill your life with despair. Death is not terrible, what is terrible is that the heart is dead. Of course, to live, you have to work hard, live well, don't judge life, can become a wise life, that is very precious. Because in the next reincarnation, you may no longer be an intelligent being.
Grandpa thought about it for a long time and decided to do a ghost cultivator, and when the ghost's longevity was exhausted, he would scatter his cultivation and then enter reincarnation.
Ma Guocai asked him, is it not good to reincarnate with memories?
Grandpa smiled and said, "Actually, before I died, I was very scared, I haven't hugged my grandson yet, and I don't know what will happen to your grandchildren in the future." I've been thinking about it a lot since I became a ghost. Looking back on this life, from the war years to the present, when people are alive, they are too tired, they can't eat enough and sleep well, and they run around all day long to make a living. It is a great blessing to be able to be with my family after death. If you choose to go to reincarnation with your memories, it will be unfair to a new life, it will be unfair to the family of the new life, and it will be unfair to me. ”
Ma Guocai was silent, he couldn't imagine that his grandfather would have such an insight, and he couldn't understand why he didn't choose to reincarnate with his memory.
At home, he kept thinking about why. But when the family sat in front of the TV at night and saw a comment about why Chinese people were tired, he suddenly understood. The above said that the first attaches too much importance to the seat, the second always thinks about the ticket, the third is upside down the house, the fourth is pretending to be a gentleman, the fifth is thinking about the skirt, the sixth is always drawing a circle, the seventh can't put down the shelf, the eighth can't tear face, the ninth cares for the child, and the tenth often dresses up the grandson.
Why is it unfair to him to say that he is reincarnated with memories. If people live, if they have no obsessions, no beliefs, and no pursuits, they will be completely controlled by desires. Grandpa has already experienced death, so he looks down on life and death, and has no desire in his heart.
Many people think that after death, it would be a very good thing to be able to reincarnate with memories. However, when a person dies and has no desires, he feels that his life has been a perfect ending. If in the next life, with the memories of this life, it will be a burden and will make him live more tired. For a person who does not have many regrets before death, death can be a relief. Because he feels that this life is enough, and he can rest well.
He can't force his own ideas to constrain a person's choice, which will only make others more tired. In a lifetime, many people live for this and that. Life overwhelms many people when they are alive. The number of suicides per year is around 250,000, which is a terrifying number.
Ma Guocai seems to have a deeper understanding of life and a stronger Taoist heart in his heart. Life is like this, to be at ease, to live in heaven and earth, it must be built on the basis of strength, without power, everything is nonsense. The carefree in your heart will only make you debauched, but you don't have the capital to be truly debauched.
I haven't been back for a year, and the family doesn't seem to have changed much. Uncle and aunt are still working outside, and the younger sister Ma Wenyue is already in junior high school, and the eldest sister Ma Wenjing has graduated from a normal secondary school and has now gone to a kindergarten in Zhejiang to be a kindergarten teacher.
Seeing his family working in other places in order to make a living, Ma Guocai suddenly felt that he was very inauthentic and guilty, he was not short of money, and money came easily, and he used to hide many things from his family because he didn't want to bring trouble to his family. But in life, is it more troublesome to live without money? I suddenly found that my thoughts are very selfish and self-righteous. Impose your own ideas on others.
In the evening, Ma Guocai discussed with Tang Ziyi how to get a sum of money, so that everyone in the family could not have to work so hard, count the small money, and live a small life, but he couldn't sit and eat empty, Tang Ziyi was more experienced than him in this regard.
Tang Ziyi thought for a while and said, "Your uncles and aunts are all working on the construction site, and the business is too complicated, so it will definitely not be possible." Giving them money directly is not a long-term solution, and they will not accept it easily. Even if they accept it, it will cause them to have some bad psychology. ”
Ma Guocai nodded and said, "Well, I think so too, so I'll ask you and see if there are any good ideas to help them." ”
Tang Ziyi asked, "How much money do you have now?"
Ma Guocai roughly estimated it and said, "It's probably more than five million dollars!"
Tang Ziyi exclaimed: "You ransacked casinos in the United States again?"
"Hehe!" Ma Guocai smiled slightly, and it was kind of admitted.
Tang Ziyi asked, "What is the approximate price of the façade in the city here of you?"
Ma Guocai roughly estimated it, and said, "Basically, it should be less than one million, what's the matter? You don't want me to buy the façade and give it to them!"
Tang Ziyi smiled and said: "Naturally not, you can choose a few storefronts, buy them, they can come back and open a restaurant to sell some clothes or something, and do some small business, anyway, the rent is not up to you, so they don't have any burden." ”
Ma Guocai heard that it was feasible: "Okay, I'll discuss it with my father tomorrow." ”
Tang Ziyi continued: "Well, it depends on what they think, whether they are willing to bother with this effort, you still discuss it with your parents, and then call them to see if they have any other ideas!"
Ma Guocai nodded, and after discussing the business with Tang Ziyi, he still felt quite touched in his heart, discussing the bits and pieces of life with his wife, life is really beautiful. couldn't help but tighten her up, and said, "You said you were so well-behaved, how should I reward you?"
As soon as Tang Ziyi saw his eyes, she knew what the hell he was thinking, blocked his chest with her hand, didn't let him get too close, and said softly: "Don't make trouble, I was about to be tossed to death by you last night, let's go to bed early, good, sister, kiss you as a consolation prize." As he spoke, he kissed him on the lips.
Ma Guocai didn't seem to want to see her like this, so he didn't force it, and hugged her quietly: "Okay, but can you do something with a certain movement in yoga next time?"
Tang Ziyi slammed down on his arm and said, "Don't even think about it, sleep." ”
The next day, Ma Guocai told his parents what he thought, and they inevitably asked him where he got so much money. He didn't find any reason, and told him where his money came from. At first, they didn't believe it until he showed them the bank card information on his mobile phone and knew it was true. (To be continued......)