Niu Xiling said to Chu Zhibai and Long Yingtian that even if they are facing heinous villains, even if they are innocent of death, when doing these things, Luo Li still has to abandon her heart and her humanity, otherwise she will not be able to get out of the Valley of Ten Thousand Poisons alive!

Long Yingtian couldn't quite understand the meaning behind these words, but Chu Zhibai felt that he seemed to understand.

Niu Xiling said: "For Miss Luo, you are so beautiful, don't look at her usually nothing, but once she encounters a major event such as marriage, she will instinctively retreat, not because she doesn't love, but because she is afraid." ”

Long Yingtian asked, "What are you afraid of?"

"Fear of losing. ”

Long Yingtian was puzzled, "None of us will ......"

"I believe, I guess Miss Luo also believes, it's one thing to be credible, and it's another thing to be afraid. ”

Niu Xiling analyzed that in Luo Li's heart, she and everyone are in two worlds, she is in the dark, others are in the light, and Chu Zhibai is the link between the dark and the light.

Luo Li wanted to maintain her intimate relationship with Chu Zhibai, but she was afraid of anything that would bring variables to this relationship.

Marriage is one of them.

Since she was a child, she has experienced the death of her relatives, the betrayal of her relatives, and growing up in such a cruel environment, what Luo Li lacks most is a sense of security, and Chu Zhibai obviously failed to make her feel a sense of security that was enough to stabilize the relationship between the two, which made her retreat so much.

"Now, in Miss Luo's heart, she would rather keep a brother and sister relationship with you for the time being, rather than face an unstable marriage relationship, because she is very afraid of the end of this marriage, afraid that it will make her and you end up not even being friends. ”

Chu Zhibai was completely convinced by Niu Xiling's analysis, "Then what should I do?"

Niu Xiling sighed, "With all due respect, no matter how much you do now, no matter how much you promise her, it's not that she doesn't believe in you, it's not that she doesn't love you, but she has a heart disease, which is very serious and heavy, and it takes time and you to slowly warm up to heal." ”

Chu Zhibai said: "However, sometimes she is also very active." ”

"What's so strange about this, she loves you, of course she wants to be close to you, and wants you to love her too, but she is afraid of variables and doesn't dare to get closer, so she often seems capricious and vexatious, you are a man, just let her order more. ”

Chu Zhibai nodded silently and pondered.

Long Yingtian suddenly said: "How do you know so much? Mi Li'er is in the Valley of Ten Thousand Poisons, but only a few of us know about it." ”

Niu Xiling's expression was embarrassed, but he didn't hide it: "Actually, my grandfather and I are friends with Mr. Chu, and he told me all about Miss Luo." ”

Chu Zhibai looked surprised, thinking that such an unreliable person as his grandfather could still have friends, amazing.

Niu Xiling continued: "Actually, the old man Chu sees people more thoroughly than me, and he once said that his little grandson has a bumpy love road, and he will have to suffer it in the future, but your family likes Miss Luo so much but didn't urge you two to get married, just because they have already seen through her heart disease, so they want to go with the flow." ”

Chu Zhibai complained in a low voice: "If you know, tell me earlier." ”

Niu Xiling smiled gently, "I think you have done a good job of second son, that is, you have never asked Miss Luo to change." ”

Chu Zhibai looked at Niu Xiling, waiting for his next step.

Niu Xiling continued: "This may also be related to the experience of Ten Thousand Poison Valley, most people who are insecure will desperately find psychological support and find someone to rely on, but Miss Luo is the opposite, it can be seen from what she does that her psychological support is her own firm heart, she has only relied on herself since she was a child, so her final sense of security is also due to her strong heart." ”

Chu Zhibai answered: "So...... Changing her is tantamount to making her lose her psychological support, and then lose her sense of security, right?"

Niu Xiling nodded, "That is her strongest heart wall, used to protect herself, if even that wall collapses, then the previous life experience that seemed to be dehumanized at her age will be like a sharp blade, and she who is no longer strong will be cut by a thousand knives, which is also an important reason why your master is such an extremely disciplined person, but he can indulge Miss Luo and punish her but never change her." ”

Long Yingtian sighed: "I don't know, it turns out that Mi Li'er's state of mind is so complicated, it's good to be sorry for not being there, otherwise she will cry again after hearing it." ”

Chu Zhibai asked: "After a long time, will she forget that memory?"

"I know that childhood memories affect a person's life. Niu Xiling said: "It will not fade with time, maybe it will become stronger, but don't worry too much, because people grow older, rich experience, the surrounding environment and the influence of people, the heart will become stronger, especially I think Miss Luo She is a person who can overcome herself, and she will not be crushed by the past." ”

Long Yingtian nodded heavily, "I think so too, there is nothing in this world that can stump rice grains." ”

Niu Xiling smiled and said to Chu Zhibai: "So my suggestion is that the second son can postpone the marriage plan, extend the time of love, and use time and love to warm her little by little, don't give her a surprise love, she is not a naïve girl, she wants that kind of mature love that goes deep and comes naturally, such feelings will make her feel secure." ”

Long Yingtian asked, "After that...... Zhibai can't scare her anymore?

Niu Xiling shook his head, "What should I do, I think if the second son doesn't scold her, it will make her feel uneasy, and it is best to get along naturally." ”

Chu Zhibai said sincerely: "Thank you." ”

Niu Xiling shook his head with a smile, and then said in a sad tone: "I have seen many people, Miss Luo is the most special one, not all people with a smile on their faces are happy in their hearts, her smile ...... It's distressing to watch, and I really hope she can have a good future. ”

Long Yingtian stepped forward and hugged Niu Xiling's shoulder, "I didn't expect you to be so good, Mi Li'er said from the beginning that you were not a womanizer, and there was another purpose for molesting her, I still don't believe it, it turned out to be true." ”

Niu Xiling smiled awkwardly, and then puzzled: "I knew that I was poisoned so heavily?"

Chu Zhibai said: "If you only tease her, she won't care about you, the key is that you also flirt with mercy, even if it's fake, it will provoke her." ”

"I see, but I've achieved my goal, I was originally going to provoke her. ”

In return, Chu Zhibai told him about Luo Li's worries about Niu Xiling's situation, and Luo Li asked Tang Luoyi to worry about where Niu Xiling should go, Chu Zhibai hoped that Niu Xiling could also seriously consider it after listening to it.

Niu Xiling smiled faintly, "I don't want to enter the big sect, the guild can consider it, does the second son have a suitable recommendation?"