Before I entered the Tao, I had a few years of gambling experience on the border of China and Myanmar, as a gambling stone, gambling is not only luck and technology, but also gambling people's mentality and the measurement of gains and losses; it can be said that some of my own personality is related to the experience of gambling stones, I once shared a small story with a friend, and also took it out to share with you, whether it benefits from it, what benefits, I hope you will measure it yourself.

Let's start with the background:

Buying stones is generally bought from the Burmese people, we call them Lao Burma, who bring large and small stones to the Chinese border cities by various means, and live in hotels, these stones may be worth hundreds of millions, and may not be worth anything. Many people have dreams of becoming rich overnight.

Gambling stones, several like-minded friends form a team, cooperate with each other, share risks, buy stones together, and there are countless such small teams active at the border, some lose, some earn, some are formed at any time, and some are separated at any time. At the same time, there are many people who dream of becoming rich overnight.

Gambling stone is actually the buyer and seller of the stone's estimate, the seller no matter how bad the stone, may ask for millions, the buyer can bargain, if you think the stone is worth 2000 yuan, you can directly say 2000 yuan, when the seller thinks he earns enough, even 2000 may give you; when the buyer does not understand the rules or does not understand the stone, others ask for a million, you say 500,000 to sell or not, others dare to sell to you, no return, after the transaction is completed, there is no relationship, let you buy 2000 yuan to buy the stone is worth billions, let you buy a million stone is worthless, even if you buy a fake, no one will sympathize with you.

Therefore, gambling on stones, to measure the gains and losses, the heart is strong enough, in the face of ** and other people's opinions and judgments, you must always adhere to your own opinions, if you can't go, there is the next stone, there is the next opportunity, don't waste the opportunity on a stone.

Now to the main body of the story:

A few of our friends, to an old Burmese house, the old Burmese took out half a fist of the size of the yellow rough stone, the shell is very good, several of us are in contact with the jade rough for six or seven years, and their own carving and processing, the stone itself can not see the traces of fraud, at the same time, you can see a large area of green, if according to the shape of this rough stone, make a ring or pendant should be worth about five or six hundred thousand at that time. Lao Myanmar's offer was 200,000 yuan, which was a reasonable price; but at that time, a few of us didn't bring so much cash, out of a ridiculous tone: "Is it sold for a thousand?" Lao Myanmar responded: "Add more, add more." "If you add a little more, it means that it is close to his psychological price or even beyond his psychological price, and he wants to make more money, so he responds.

At that time, when we heard this sentence, our first reaction was that this old Myanmar was either a fool, or this thing was fake, so exquisite that connoisseurs could not debate the truth or falsehood, so we shirked it, and we had to look at other stones, and we didn't increase the price, and Lao Myanmar was still chasing behind us, "Add a point, add a point."

After coming out, we sat in the lobby of the hotel to discuss, whether it was really a leak or a fake, if it was a fake, the layer of skin, carved into a pendant, should be worth about 2000, so, whether it is true or not, we will make money by giving him 1500, and we will consider getting it back.

When we arrived at Lao Burma's room, we found another group of stone gamblers talking about this stone, and it is estimated that they saw us going out of this room, and when we came, they thought that we had just seen this stone and were here to buy this stone.

The rules in the jade gambling stone, the stone in the hands of others, is not your group of people, even if it is your group of people, you are not the leader, you can not talk about the price or speak, because it will disrupt the price system, will increase the cost of your own people or others, for others, for the sake of yourself in the future, do not talk about the price of the stone in the hands of others, the tacit understanding between peers, this many people have to learn.

Since they thought that we were rushing to buy the stones, and they didn't know how much we paid for the stones, the leader said, "20,000 yuan or not." Lao Myanmar glanced at us obliquely, and said that he would not sell it, and add more. Because of the rules, we can't compete loudly, otherwise, the whole gambling stone circle will spurn us, and in the end, they sold the stone for 30,000 yuan in front of us.

Coming out, in the lobby of the hotel, they were quite complacent, and look, we took the opportunity to buy this stone. We said, "Just now I gave 1,000, and Lao Mian wants to sell it to us." At that time, the leader's face turned white and sweat flowed down. He said, "If it's fake, I'll bear it." ”

As a result, after going back and cutting it, it was a high-tech fraud, a very small pinhole, slowly corroded, and finally corroded out of a very small outside, a large space inside, and a syringe was injected with green toothpaste, which was worth about one or two thousand yuan. If you really buy it for 1500, you won't make money but you won't lose money, and if you buy it for 30,000, you will lose money. A group of them really let the leader bear the burden because of the loss, although they tacitly agreed when they bought the stone, and the leader parted ways with them from then on, never to be friends again.

From this story, I think many people should have their own gains, risks and opportunities, grasp the mentality or whether the heart is strong enough, whether it is wise because of gains and losses, whether it is radical because of greed for more profits, whether it is afraid of the attack of competitors and pay more, whether it is dare to take responsibility, worthy of their team and friends, and do not attribute mistakes to one person. On the gambling field, as long as there is a Su zhì who does not pass the test, he is a loser, and life will sometimes be very similar to this situation.

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