Chapter 102: I don't know who is suffering
Lu Zheng followed Xin'er's fingers and looked over, only to see that on the teacher's desk, the cups were neat and staggered, and in the middle was a large plate, in which was a half-eaten braised carp, and a small fork was inserted on it to separate the fish meat and fish bones. In front of the big plate is a small white plate, in the small plate is a piece of half-eaten fish, next to the teacher's chopsticks, obviously the teacher is just eating this fish!
No wonder the teacher is so angry!
Lu Zhengdeng regretted it to death, patted his head, and scolded himself in his heart for being stupid. The teacher loves to eat fish the most, and naturally he hates it the most when others disturb him to eat fish. When eating, the teacher is picky, this is something he is very familiar with! Don't say that any of the five meanings is wrong, but if there is a trace of disharmony in the harmony of the five flavors, he will not move his chopsticks again.
In addition, the teacher also said that the most important thing in the way of eating is mood, which is not only to eat happily, but also to eat happily. How could I forget such an important thing? I just thought about my own business, and I forgot the teacher's temperament completely!
Moreover, the teacher usually teaches himself and his heart to learn to observe words and feelings, and then carefully decide his words and deeds. The teacher once said that a person who does not know how to read words and emotions is no different from being deaf.
Lu Zheng remembered that when the teacher said this, his heart asked at that time: "Observe words and looks?" Teacher, isn't that just a matter of looking at people's faces, and didn't the teacher say that he hates emptiness and wrongdoing, flattering and pleasing people? Why do you want us to observe words and colors now?"
Lu Zheng also has such a question in his heart, but he is not as bold as Xin'er and dares to ask the teacher questions. He grew up on the streets, and he didn't know how many people he saw who nodded and smacked horses. All of them are very perceptive, and they know the most about flattery. Often the other party has not opened his mouth yet, and has already sent what the other party wants. Therefore, I was very surprised by what the teacher said.
At that time, Li Yi replied to Xin'er: "Observe words and colors to know people." But it doesn't mean that you have to cater to others by observing words and feelings!" At that moment, Li Yi explained in detail the observation of words and colors.
The so-called observation of speech is not only to listen to what the other party is saying, but more importantly, to understand the reason for what the other party is saying, or to have a purpose, or for a certain mood. In short, you need to understand the other person's intentions to determine what you should say and what you should not say.
The so-called observation of color is to listen to silent words. Everyone may not express their true thoughts for various reasons, but it does not mean that there are no such thoughts in their hearts, and these thoughts are often expressed from various places, or in the eyebrows and eyes, or the words have changed compared to usual, etc., which can be called silent words. A person can hear a silent speech just as he understands the feelings contained in a piece of music.
Li Yi also said, look at his words and look at his color. In fact, it is respect for the other party, otherwise it is not very rude to let oneself talk nonsense without knowing what the other person means? As for deliberately pandering and flattering them after observing words and feelings, that is something wrong with one's own heart, and it is another layer of problems.
At that time, Le Zhongping was also on the side. Also chimed in, heart. It's like when you plant a flower, and you see the flowers and leaves roll. You know it's time to water, you see that the flowers and leaves are thin, you know it's time to fertilize, and when you see more grass, you know it's time to weed. If you ignore it, you can water it when you want, and fertilize it when you want, won't you plant the flowers to death?
At that time, Lu Zheng and Xin'er suddenly realized, especially Lu Zheng, and even thought that he needed to 'observe words and colors' for everything such as playing the piano, archery, horseback riding, etc., but why did he forget this today?
When I was eating just now, the teacher was clearly eating fish with a good taste, and I saw it, so why did he patronize and think about his own thoughts, and suddenly make such an impulsive move...... I was really dizzy, how could I forget such a crucial thing. It's not good to pick when to choose, but when the teacher eats fish, it's really too eyeless! If Brother Jiu is here, he will definitely ask himself with a smile, how did the pig die!
I finally knew that the teacher weishenme was so angry, but Lu Zhengtou was even bigger. It's not big or small, but it's not too big anyway, and the teacher minds it for sure. Mr. Le often said that everyone has their own likes and dislikes, which need to be respected, and there is no right or wrong. When someone is doing something they like to do, you shouldn't disturb their good mood!
Although these words were once when Mr. Le was making clothes, Lu Zheng opened his mouth to ask him, and was disturbed by the mood, Mr. Le admonished him earnestly. But I have to say that Mr. Le's words are very reasonable, but the most important thing now is how to make the teacher dissipate?
Lu Zheng had no choice but to look at his heart for help.
Xin'er seemed to have known that Lu Zheng would come to beg him to find a way, and said with a smile: "Hehe, little brother, the solution is actually very simple! You can just kneel here until dawn." I believe that the teacher is so kind, and he will definitely forgive this good student who disturbed him eating fish! So you must believe the teacher, I believe that the teacher is very kind, stupid little brother!"
After speaking, she also flicked her sleeves, hummed Lu Zhengjiao's little song and walked away, and the appearance of shaking her sleeves was clearly the appearance of the teacher and Mr. Le!
The bright moon moved westward, and the night was deep, and a lonely figure was seen kneeling in front of the Quzhi Pavilion. Lu Zheng is more honest, not like Tang Xiaojiu who likes to steal and play tricks, but honestly kneels on his knees. During this period, Xin'er came once and brought him a soft cushion, but Lu Zheng shook his head and refused.
Xin'er put the mat on the stairs outside the pavilion, sat on it by herself, and chatted with Lu Zheng for a long time, until she kept yawning and her little head kept falling, and then she went back to sleep under Lu Zheng's urging and persuasion.
After Xin'er left, Lu Zheng continued to kneel there, he had lived in Sun Moon Lu for almost two years, and he had long been accustomed to kneeling and sitting, so his legs did not feel sore. He wasn't sleepy at all, I don't know if it was because it had just rained. Or because the night is dark and the air around is calm and quiet. It gives him a very refreshing feeling.
While kneeling, he reflected on what the teacher had just said about his words and actions. In my heart, I gradually felt more and more deeply about the two sentences of words and deeds. He knelt there and reflected on his past behavior, even his days on earth, as if his words and deeds almost violated the requirements of these two sentences. Even when I arrived at Sun Moon Lu and followed the teacher for so long, every time I violated the precepts or the precepts, I didn't realize it at the time, and I couldn't come back to my senses until I was pointed out by the teacher afterwards and punished with the precepts. Weishenme himself is not aware of it when he is doing things?
Lu Zheng reflected on his long-standing fear of teachers. What is so terrible about the teacher? I always dare not face the teacher? Every time I face the teacher, I always have to guess the teacher's thoughts first, and then I carefully reply, such a cowardly behavior, as if I have a ghost in my heart! Isn't it the suspicion in my heart to be inexplicably afraid of the teacher? For example, today, after the teacher has finished dinner, I can kneel down and plead generously, and then wait for the teacher to answer?
"The moon sets deep in the night. The wind is cold and cold, and there are no night flowers blooming, what are you still doing here?" suddenly came the voice of Le Zhongping in the pavilion. Lu Zheng looked up, not knowing when. Mr. Le was already sitting in the pavilion, and he rarely sat upright.
Lu Zheng asked, "Mr. Le, why are you here?"
Le Zhongping smiled and said, "I see that you are still kneeling here." Come and talk to you. What? Are you going to kneel here all night? Do you want to ask your teacher's forgiveness? It's a ghost idea?"
Lu Zheng shook his head and said, "Although Xin'er came up with this idea, it was also my own idea. But it's not to ask for the teacher's forgiveness. ”
Le Zhongping said: "Oh, then you can talk about it." What are you doing kneeling here?"
Lu Zhengdao: "Although I disturbed the teacher's interest in eating fish, the teacher would not punish me for kneeling all night. I kneel here to reflect on my words and deeds. ”
Hearing this, Le Zhongping got up and walked to the steps of the pavilion, where he was putting the cushion that Xin'er brought, Le Zhongping sat down on the cushion and asked: "You said today that you want to learn supernatural powers to avenge your ninth brother, although I heard you say something before, but it is always incomplete, I see that your reflection is almost the same, you might as well tell me about Tang Xiaojiu." ”
I don't know weishenme, Lu Zheng feels that Mr. Le is a little different today, if in the past, he would not sit on the cushion left by his heart at all, and he must be leaning on the steps, but at this moment, he is sitting on the cushion with his back straight, but there is a bit of a teacher's jiashi.
Le Zhongping saw Lu Zheng looking at him in a daze, and said, "What are you watching me do?" Get up and come and sit down, and tell me how you met Tang Xiaojiu, what kind of person is he, and what happened?"
Mr. Le's words were extremely soft, Lu Zheng got up and went up the steps, sat down beside him, and said, "Mr. Le, I don't know weishenme, I'm always not afraid of you, but I'm very afraid of the teacher!"
Le Zhongping smiled and said, "Is your teacher too fierce?"
Lu Zheng thought about it, nodded and said, "Maybe it's because I often make mistakes, so I feel a little worried when I see the teacher." But I've figured it out just now, and I won't be afraid of teachers anymore in the future. ”
Le Zhongping turned his head to look at Lu Zhengdao: "Oh, if you want to understand something, you won't be afraid of your teacher?" I am sometimes a little afraid of him, you say it and let me hear it." ”
Lu Zhengdao: "I figured it out just now, when I saw the teacher at the beginning, he always had a serious face, unlike Mr. Le, you always smile at me, I'm a little afraid of him, I heard that people in the cultivation world call the teacher 'stone carving face'." Hehe, I have to say, it's really very appropriate, Mr. Le, you say yes?"
Le Zhongping turned his head, touched his nose, and said, "Ah, yes, yes, yes." You go on and say, what about later?"
Lu Zheng continued: "Later, I was mainly afraid that I would be caught by the teacher if I made a mistake. You know, the teacher asks so much, every move is polite! In my case, every move is wrong! And the teacher also has that hateful precept, every time I hit the body, it hurts! This doesn't count, but it is really embarrassing to make a mistake and get caught, and over time, I am afraid when I see the teacher!"
Le Zhongping said: "Then what did you just think about, why aren't you afraid of your teacher?" (to be continued......)