Chapter 387: A Child's World
Qin Ruolan was silent for a moment, "Brother Xu doesn't think I'm stupid, what do I have to be picky?" I'm just afraid that I'm too stupid to do well." ”
Xu Mo said: "No one is born with it, you learn slowly, and you can do it well sooner or later." ”
"Mom!" Xiao Dong pulled Qin Ruolan's clothes and called her.
Qin Ruolan looked down, and Xu Mo also looked at the child. The kid suddenly smiled at Xu Mo, and immediately shrank behind Qin Ruolan.
Qin Ruolan saw her son's smile and said in surprise: "Brother Xu, Xiaodong actually smiled at you, it's really rare." The kid has always been very introverted and never smiled at anyone but me and his grandmother. At school, when the teacher talked to him, he didn't say much. ”
Xu Mo said blandly: "Children are simple by nature, there are not too many distracting thoughts in their minds, and their sixth sense is very close to that of animals, much stronger than that of ordinary adults." Whether you are really good to a child or not, it is easy for them to feel it. Deceptive benefits to children can only deceive for a while, but the eyes that are inadvertently revealed are easily captured by them. A person's mood swings may be able to hide from adults, but don't try to hide from children. ”
"Really? hehe!" Qin Ruolan seemed to understand whether she understood or not, and she felt very profound, and she didn't know how to answer, so she could only smile in the end.
After strolling around the market, she bought a chicken, a piece of meat, a few eggs, and some vegetables, and then took them home.
Xu Mo took the chicken over and helped her carry it. Xiaodong walked between the two, and compared with before, it seemed that he had changed a lot.
Others take small steps. took Qin Ruolan's hand and followed the two of them. After a while, he looked up at Qin Ruolan, then at Xu Mo, and suddenly stretched out his other hand and grabbed Xu Mo's hand.
Xu Mo turned around, and the child hurriedly retracted his hand like a frightened hare. Xu Mo smiled, stretched out his hand, and handed it to him. Xiaodong hesitated. That's when he took his hand.
From start to finish. Xu Mo didn't use the spiritual consciousness of the sixth sense to deliberately influence him. The child felt Xu Mo's kindness and wanted to be close to him from the bottom of his heart.
"This kid. Qin Ruolan glanced back at her son and smiled knowingly. Said to Xiao Dong: "Call Uncle Xu." ”
Xiaodong hesitated. He shouted, "Uncle Xu." "The voice was low. It's like humming in your throat, and it's almost inaudible.
Xu Mo praised, "Xiaodong is good!" pulled out from Xiaodong's hand. He stroked his little head lightly, and asked in a harmonious voice: "After a while, mom will cook at home, and uncle will take you out to play, okay?"
Xiaodong's eyes showed joy, and he looked at his mother with a look of eagerness. Qin Ruolan said: "Xiaodong, go out with your uncle, you have to listen to your uncle, you know?"
Xiaodong whispered, "Got it, Mom." ”
Back at Qin Ruolan's residence, Qin Ruolan took the ingredients and went to cook by herself. Xu Mo took Xiaodong out to play. Qin Ruolan instructed: "Brother Xu, go out and go to the left, it is the park, you take Xiaodong, don't go too far, otherwise I won't find you when the meal is ready." ”
Xu Mo agreed, "Got it." He took Xiaodong's hand and walked out the door.
Xiaodong was still timid at first, he only dared to hold his hand, and didn't dare to be too close to him, Xu Mo pulled him and asked a few words, Xiaodong's courage became bigger, and he had the courage to ask: "Uncle Xu, what are you doing?"
Xu Mo smiled and asked, "What do you think your uncle looks like?"
Xiaodong thought for a while, "Uncle is Sun Wukong, who drove away all the bad guys." He was referring to what happened on the coach.
Xu Mo smiled, "Why do you think your uncle is Sun Wukong?"
Xiaodong said innocently: "Because my uncle is powerful, he is a big hero, and the bad guys are afraid of big heroes and Sun Wukong." Sun Wukong is here, and the bad guys have all run away. ”
Xu Mo smiled and said, "Yes, but my uncle is not Sun Wukong." ”
"Why?" Xiaodong asked first, and then seemed to understand, "I know, grandma said that Sun Wukong is fake, so my uncle is not Sun Wukong, and my uncle is a big hero like Sun Wukong." ”
Xu Mo casually bought two ice creams on the side of the road, gave one to Xiaodong, one for himself, and two people, one older and one small, continued to walk towards the park with ice cream in their hands.
At this time, it was already winter in country C, but fortunately, Yishi was in the south, even if it was winter, it was above ten degrees, and it would not be too cold.
Xu Mo took him to the park, there was a children's paradise in the corner of the park, there were many children playing in it, Xu Mo walked over, paid the money, and let Xiaodong go in to play, "Xiaodong, you go in to play, uncle is here to rest." ”
As he spoke, he sat down on the side and deliberately turned his head away from looking at the group of children. Xiaodong looked into the children's paradise, saw so many children, was a little afraid, and looked at Xu Mo again, not daring to go.
Xu Mo urged, "Go, play with the children." ”
Xiaodong said timidly: "Uncle, I'm afraid?"
Xu Mo smiled and asked, "What are you afraid of?"
Xiaodong's voice was very low, "I'm afraid...... Fear...... They bullied me and beat me. ”
"No, it won't. Xu Mo said: "Now they won't bully you." By the way, what does mom do now?"
Xiaodong hesitated, "Mom...... My mother is a worker in the factory, my mother has no money, Xiaodong has no father, no toys, and no one else plays with me. ”
Xu Mo said with a smile: "Xiaodong is wrong, my mother is not a worker in the factory anymore, my mother is now the general manager of a big antique auction house, and she manages a lot of people, and many people listen to my mother." Mom immediately got rich and bought toys for Xiaodong, lots and lots of toys. ”
Xiao Dong bit his finger and asked Xu Mo, "That's ...... Uncle Xu, do you listen to your mother?"
Xu Mo smiled and said, "Mom listens to Uncle Xu, does Xiaodong listen to Uncle?"
Xiaodong nodded and said obediently: "Xiaodong listens to his uncle, his uncle is more powerful than his mother." ”
"yes. Xu Mo brushed his hair with his fingers.
Xiaodong couldn't help but ask again: "Uncle Xu, what is an antique auction house?"
"Antique auction house!" Xu Mo typed his manuscript. I wanted to explain it to the child as clearly as possible, but I found that with what a child knows, it is really difficult to explain it clearly, so I have to say: "It's a very big company, do you know what a company is?"
"Yes. Xiaodong said: "Mom works in the company, Zhou Juan's father also works in the company, and Mom works in a small company and doesn't make money." No money. Zhou Juan's father opened his own company. Big company, make a lot of money. Speaking of this, he looked envious, but his eyes were a little gloomy.
"That was before. Xu Mo smiled: "Now my mother's company." It is a company bigger than Zhou Juan's father's company. It's a lot bigger. ”
"Uncle. A lot of them?" Xiaodong showed joy in his eyes and hurriedly asked.
Xu Mo asked again, "Do you know the Giant Spirit God?"
Xiao Dong said: "I know, it's a very stupid guy." Defeated by Sun Wukong. ”
Xu Modao: "That's right, Zhou Juan's father's company is equivalent to the giant spirit god, and the company where my mother is located is equivalent to Sun Wukong, you say, who is powerful?"
"Mom's company is amazing!" Xiaodong exclaimed, and then couldn't believe it, "Uncle, is it true?"
Xu Mo asked again: "You say, is it the Jade Emperor's Heavenly Court or the Hades of Hades?"
Xiao Dong said: "The Jade Emperor is great, the Jade Emperor is in charge of the heavenly court, and the king of Hades is in charge of the underworld." Hades is a subordinate of the Jade Emperor, and when he sees the Jade Emperor, he wants to kowtow. ”
Xu Mo smiled again: "Mom's company is equivalent to the Jade Emperor's Heavenly Court, and Zhou Juan's father's company is equivalent to the underworld of Hades." Who's bigger, you say?"
Xiaodong didn't think about it, so he said: "Mom's company is big." ”
Xu Mo then said: "Mom is in the antique auction house, which is equivalent to the Jade Emperor in the heavenly court, in charge of the antique auction house, and in charge of many people. Zhou Juan's father opened his own company, which is equivalent to the king of Hades in charge of the underworld, and there are not as many people in charge as his mother. ”
Xiao Dong tilted his head and asked, "That...... Zhou Juan's father, is it under the care of my mother?"
Xu Mo said: "It's not under my mother's control, my mother's auction house is equivalent to the heavenly court of our country." Zhou Juan's father's company is equivalent to the underworld of a foreign country. Can the heavenly court of our country manage the underworld of a foreign country?"
Xiao Dong was slightly disappointed when he heard this, but he still replied, shook his head and said, "No." ”
Xu Mo said: "Even if you can't, my mother is older than him." ”
When Xiaodong heard this, he became happy again. Then he asked, "Uncle, is it true that you said that my mother would buy me lots and lots of toys?"
Xu Modao: "Of course it's true, will my uncle lie to Xiaodong?"
Xiaodong hurriedly shook his head, "No, uncle is good to Xiaodong and won't lie to Xiaodong." ”
Xu Mo said: "That's right, is that uncle telling the truth or a lie." ”
Xiao Dong nodded again and again, "It's true." ”
Xu Mo continued to ask: "Then the uncle said that his mother would buy a lot of toys for Xiaodong, did he lie to Xiaodong?"
Xiao Dongtou shook like a rattle, and said happily: "No." After a pause, he asked expectantly: "Uncle, when will my mother buy toys for Xiaodong?"
Xu Modao: "When my mother goes to that company, I will buy it for Xiaodong." ”
Xiaodong said: "When Xiaodong has toys, I won't give them to play, I won't give Zhou Juan to play, I won't give Zhang Yu to play, and I won't give ...... , only for uncles to play, for mothers to play. ”
"Silly boy. Xu Mo gently stroked his little face, and asked, "Is Xiaodong a good boy or a bad boy?"
Xiao Dong hurriedly said: "Xiao Dong is a good boy, Xiao Dong listens to his uncle, listens to his mother, doesn't fight with others, and doesn't lie." ”
"By the way, Xiaodong is a good boy, a good boy has many friends, and children are vying to play with him, Xiaodong, do you want a lot of good friends?" Xu Mo then asked.
Xiaodong looked depressed and drooped his little head, "Xiaodong has no friends, and they don't play with me." As he spoke, tears welled up in his eyes, and he couldn't help but cry.
Xu Mo said: "No, why didn't Xiaodong play with others before?"
Xiaodong said frustratedly: "They all bullied me." ”
Xu Mo continued to ask, "Why did they bully you?"
Xiaodong said: "Xiaodong has no toys, no father, and no money for his mother." ”
"That's right. Xu Mo asked again: "In the future, Xiaodong has toys and mother is rich, will they still bully you?"
Xiaodong looked hesitant and stayed there, not knowing how to answer for a while. He was only five years old, and for a moment, he did not grasp the complex cause and effect between them.
Xu Mo answered for him. "Not anymore. ”
Xiaodong asked in disbelief: "Uncle, is it true?"
Xu Mo smiled and asked, "Will my uncle lie to Xiaodong?"
Xiao Dong shook his head violently, "No, uncle is good to Xiao Dong and won't lie to Xiao Dong." ”
"Uncle won't lie to Xiaodong, uncle said no, won't it?" Xu Mo continued to ask.
Xiaodong nodded at this time and repeated: "Uncle said no, but he won't." After saying that, Wu Zi had no confidence. Questioned: "Uncle." Is it true?"
"Of course it's true. Xu Mo did not hesitate, and then asked: "When Xiaodong has more toys than others, will he share them with others?"
Xiao Dong shook his head, "They all bully Xiao Dong. Xiaodong doesn't play with them. ”
Xu Mo listened to this. I couldn't help but laugh. Went around and around, and it turned out to be back again. For a child, the formation of a certain state of mind. It's a long-term process, and once formed, it leaves a deep impression on the depths of consciousness. It was not an easy task for him to turn it around all at once.
Xu Mo glanced at the children's playground, several children of about the same age were sliding on the plastic slide, stretched out his hand to the slide, and instructed Xiaodong: "Xiaodong, play with the children." ”
Xiaodong was used to being bullied before, and when he saw other children, he was a little afraid from the bottom of his heart, and he was still hesitating when he heard the words, "Uncle, will they bully Xiaodong?"
Xu Mo smiled: "If they bully you, you can tell them that my mother is the general manager of a very big company, and she is in charge of many people." ”
After saying that, I couldn't help but snicker in my heart. For an adult, this behavior is indeed ridiculous, but in the child's world, it is definitely the fastest and most effective way. Children are simple-minded, not bound by morality, and only follow the most basic law of the jungle. This method definitely works for children.
Xiaodong hesitated, looking at the children at the slide, looking like he wanted to go over, but he didn't dare.
Xu Mo urged: "Xiaodong, come over quickly, look, you have ice cream, they don't, whoever plays with you, you will give him ice cream." ”
Xiaodong looked at the ice cream in his hand, his courage was a little stronger, he hesitated for a while, licked it in a small bite, and then walked towards the group of children.
A little girl who was about the same size was holding two plastic balls and playing under the slide, and after Xiaodong walked over, she didn't dare to get too close and stood aside to watch.
The little girl saw that there was an extra person next to her, so she quickly stopped, and was stunned for a moment when she saw the ice cream in Xiaodong's hand. Holding a plastic ball in one hand, he stared at the ice cream in Xiaodong's hand.
Xiaodong hesitated for a moment and handed the ice cream in his hand to the little girl's mouth. The little girl looked at him for a moment before sticking out her tongue and licking it. At the same time, he handed one of the plastic balls in his hand to Xiaodong.
With a smile on his face, Xiaodong took the plastic ball and gave the ice cream to the little girl, who took the ice cream with the same smile on her face.
Two people crouch on the ground and throw balls at each other to play.
After a while, a twenty-five or sixteen-year-old young woman came over and said to Xu Mo, "Big brother, is that your child?"
Xu Mo smiled and said, "That's my nephew, the little girl is your daughter?"
The young woman nodded and said casually, "Your child is quite lively." ”
Xu Mo knew that the other party was saying kind words, so he didn't argue, and said lightly: "This kid is a little introverted, I'll take him out and teach him to see if I can change his personality." ”
"That's right. The young woman said, "The child is too introverted, and it is indeed not good for the future." After a pause, he asked again: "Big brother, are you a teacher?" After asking, he smiled and said, "I heard you teaching children just now, and you taught quite well." ”
Xu Mo said: "That's not it, children, which aspect of psychological problems, should be channeled in which way." ”
The young woman nodded.
At this time, a child on the slide saw Xiaodong and the little girl playing together, Xu thought it was funny, and hurriedly slid down the slide, walked to Xiaodong and the little girl, and watched the two play.
Children's curiosity is much stronger than that of adults. The child's age looked a little older than Xiaodong and the little girl.
In this case, ignoring is the best way to go, if Xiaodong and the little girl ignore him. The child looks at it for a while, finds it boring, and will automatically walk away. And in the case of being neglected, he will not take the initiative to cause trouble.
But Xiaodong was used to being bullied by other children before, and he felt that there was an extra person around him, so he couldn't help but look up at him.
Children's sixth sense is stronger than that of adults, and their ability to observe words and colors is much stronger than that of adults, and they are the best at kicking their noses and faces.
The phrase 'the child is a wolf in the middle of the mountain, and the ambition is rampant', if it is used to describe a child, it is the most appropriate.
As soon as the child saw Xiaodong looking at him, he immediately had some other thoughts, and couldn't help but stretch out his hand and hold down a plastic ball. At this time, the behavior is actually just a temptation.
In this case, if Xiaodong and the little girl walked away at the same time and ignored him, the child would feel very bored, and there would be a deep disappointment of being overlooked.
But Xiaodong and the little girl obviously didn't have such complicated thoughts, Xiaodong couldn't help but look at him again, and pushed another plastic ball towards the little girl.
At this time, his cowardice that others bullied before was revealed, and when he pushed the plastic ball, he deliberately avoided the little boy and pushed the little girl from a distance away from the little boy.
When the little boy saw this scene, he immediately felt that Xiaodong was afraid, and suddenly stretched out his hand and held down the plastic ball again.
Xiaodong couldn't help but say, "Give it to me." ”
The little boy pressed a plastic ball in one hand, turned it in half a circle, turned his back to Xiaodong, and then pushed one of the plastic balls towards the little girl, he wanted to drive Xiaodong away and play with the little girl himself.
The little girl was stunned for a moment, reached out and pressed the plastic ball, glanced at Xiaodong, obviously didn't want to play with the little boy, and pushed the plastic ball in her hand towards Xiaodong.
Xiaodong ran over to catch it, but the little boy couldn't help but push him and intercepted the ball halfway. With a plastic ball in one hand, he stood up and walked towards the slide.
Xiaodong stood in place, looking at Xu Mo, his mouth grinning, and he was about to cry. (To be continued......)