Chapter 60: The City is Deep

"I used to live in the shadow of him every day, and even the thought of going to work made me nauseous and nauseous, that feeling ......"

"Two and a half years!"

"It wasn't until I met a senior sister later that she clearly told me that this is called workplace PUA!"

"I was encouraged over and over again that I was very good and that leadership was not the only criterion for judging ability and potential. ”

"If this project is so good and I'm doing a bad job, why don't I share it with someone else?"

"What's so good about a job that no one comes to rob?"

"What kind of leader is a guy who can only curse?"

"Senior sister's encouragement gave me infinite affirmation, and finally I proposed a naked resignation!"

"I watched him look overwhelmed that day, when I walked out the door of the garbage company......"

"The whole person is relaxed!"

"I quickly found a new job, both in terms of salary and treatment, especially when I met a good leader who was willing to work side by side with my colleagues. ”

"Looking back on this experience, I learned a lot, so I would like to share a word with all the sisters who are struggling in the workplace......"

"If you encounter any form of PUA, you will resign and leave!"

"Because no matter how low you are, you will not get anything in return, only more unbridled oppression. ”

"What's more, because such a company will definitely not have any future, you don't deserve to be buried with him!"

"I hope all the sisters can become the person they want to be!"

After Song Yu finished reading, Ning Yuan picked up the microphone and shared, "I specifically checked what PUA is?"

It refers to the fact that through long-term mental suppression, one party gradually loses the ability to judge itself, loses itself, is unable to judge right and wrong, good and evil, and hands over the initiative to the other party. ”

"In fact, it is a set of evil brainwashing mind control methods. ”

"I think cowardice and tolerance seem very similar, but these two are not the same thing at all!"

"If someone says that the workplace is very realistic, why should the elderly take care of the novices? Who hasn't encountered some problems that can't be solved?"

After Ning Yuan asked a series of questions, he said in a firm tone: "Then I can only congratulate you on being lucky if you haven't experienced it, but don't hug your shoulders and taunt others, maybe as soon as the mirror is moved, it may be revealed that you are the perpetrator!"

"But what I want to say is that if you don't slap a slap in everything, the poor person must have something to hate, and you may also have problems in this injury, even the main party at fault. ”

"Because PUA's signature style of play is this routine, it rarely affirms you, and even if there is affirmation, it is with a beating in the words, obviously praising you but not glorious. ”

"All kinds of picks are found in the parts you don't do well, and it's different every time, this time I blame you for only seeking speed, but sacrificing the quality of the project...... The next time you do a good job of quality, you will immediately think that the work is too slow and indecisive......"

"There is no excuse for the sin that you want to add!"

"If a person is not a sage, who can be without fault?"

"I firmly believe that there is no hope for an organization that cannot tolerate mistakes. What's more, in the long run, who is right and who is wrong, may be right?"

"So I think the judgment of whether it is a workplace PUA mainly depends on the frequency of strikes. It's normal for your boss or colleagues to occasionally question you and say no, but you should have a warning before you do something. ”

Or providing positive coaching and support after failure, which is the problem-solving thinking. If it's the other way around, then you have to calm down and think about it!"

"If we go deeper, it's like the girl who left a message and the leader seems to be bitter all day long, as if refuting me is questioning the company and questioning your career?"

"Desperately hinting that you are not capable enough, the company will keep you because of the old love, and other places will not keep you, and everyone will do the same when you go to other places, you can't break the game when you are a deserter, you better be down-to-earth and obedient, and thank me for my heartfelt words to you?"

"It's all bullshit!"

"Any form of brainwashing is easy to see through if it can't rise to the philosophical level, so the true meaning of the ultimate workplace PUA is to deny yourself from the heart!"

"Kidnapping with seemingly strict logic and values, packaging and glorifying his ugly motives, and making you lose judgment. ”

"Involuntary self-denial, this kind of blind worship, is tantamount to removing the soul of the victim. ”

"The means are despicable, and the intentions are sinister!"

"These people themselves are very dark in their hearts, the farther away the better, and it is torturous to stay with them for a second!"

Ning Yuan has detached himself from the script, and only when he really feels can he mobilize his emotions and make the listener feel a sense of substitution and resonance.

"The workplace is just a scene of Xiudu, and it is by no means the whole meaning of life. ”

"Our choice has never been to endure this one, compared to the salary obtained in the workplace and the so-called accumulation of experience, internal growth, physical and mental health are the most important things for us. ”

"There's an old saying that's true: if we can't afford to fight, we can afford to hide, right?"

"Although you may cherish your current job, although it is not easy to find a satisfying job, but living a healthy life is more important, isn't it?"

"If you are depressed every day, with all kinds of heavy work, and your body and mind are devastated, is it a better choice to leave and change to another environment?"

"The city is full of routines, I want to go back to the countryside!"

One sentence made the three people next to him almost burst into laughter, good guy, the male god still knows humor?

Finally, Ning Yuan took a deep breath and said in an extremely warm and firm tone: "Remember that work is not all a person has. ”

"The person you look up to now isn't your only goal in the next life. ”

"Maybe the so-called boss and leader who is high in front of you......"

"In front of others, he is also a pug who wags his tail and begs for mercy!"

"Beautiful!" Peng Fei slapped his thigh and said excitedly: "It's really refreshing!"

"It's just that there are more rich people in the world, why hang themselves from a tree?"

Song Yu just finished reading the message, and said with a stronger sense of substitution: "Who doesn't carry a head on one shoulder?"

Everyone was stunned and laughed, saying well.

Ning Yuan looked at the lively atmosphere of the team, what he wanted was this effect, everyone was originally classmates, and cooperation was also for a better future and life, which was called like-minded comrades-in-arms.

Looking at the comments and comments that fans responded enthusiastically to the audio just uploaded, I have to say that it is still cool to rub the hot spots!

Since the end of the last homepage closure, fans have once again ushered in a wave of skyrocketing, which has approached the 600,000 mark, and if this momentum continues, it will take less than two months to become a proper million-dollar anchor!

Ning Yuan is very satisfied, millions of fans on any platform is the biggest watershed, especially Station B and Himalaya, which are definitely the head resources, and have the right to speak that even the platform must pay attention to.

You must know that Himalaya has developed to the present, known as a million anchors, and there are less than a hundred real million heads.

Scarcity is expensive!