When my dad and my mom met, my mom's family was very poor at that time.

Because my grandfather died early, my mother was the most tired of the brothers and sisters in the family, and the brothers and sisters in the family got married early, and she was the only one who went to work in the production team to support my grandmother and my uncle.

When my mom and my dad met, one of the two of them walked on this side of the road, and the other walked there, and they didn't dare to get close, and they didn't dare to hold their hands, if they got closer, their faces would be red at that time, and the feelings were really pure at that time.

For example, taking two steps is to see if there is anything wrong with each other's legs and feet, whether they are crippled, and the shadow will not affect their future work and life, and then see if there are any pockmarks on both sides.

There is nothing wrong with the two of them, of course, my dad was actually handsome when he was young, he was a cultural person who wore glasses, so he looked polite, and now I see that my dad didn't dare to think about what he looked like back then, it's just like two people!

The former is a scholar, the latter is a dirty old peasant, and the breath of a cultured person has also been worn away, which shows how terrible the destruction of the years is, and my mother was also very good-looking when she was young, and she belonged to the middle people, who seemed particularly gentle, considerate and kind, I almost can't remember what she looks like, because she has been away from me for a long time!

The two of them looked at each other, and my mother asked my dad if he could go back to the city, and my father often said that he could bring them to the city after they got married. My mother thought to herself that it would be good if she went to the city, but she was fed up with the life in the countryside, which was too tiring and bitter, and when she returned home, the parents of the two asked how she would see that person today.

Both of them said that they could have no opinion, and they found a day to prepare the bride price money, and the sheets and covers used in the bed were bought and waited for marriage, at that time when they got married, my mother told me that my father married her and it seemed that it would cost 300 yuan at most, yes, it was 300 yuan, how could I not believe it, let alone 300 now, 300,000 If you can marry a daughter-in-law, "you are burning high incense, and the ancestral tomb is smoking."

In that era, you could marry a daughter-in-law for 300/400, and you had to give birth to children and cook, and never give up for the rest of your life, thinking about the feelings at that time were really pure and sincere, I wanted to find someone who was good to me to live a good life.

Thinking about it now, the daughter-in-law who spent tens of thousands of hundreds of thousands of dollars to marry divorced in less than three days, I sometimes wonder whether people's feelings have changed or people have changed, the development of the times has improved people's living standards, and the divorce rate and derailment rate have increased, but it has made people's feelings and family feelings fragile, and people don't seem to know what kind of people they need and what kind of life.

In this "materialistic era", the emotional marriage of parents is really worth learning from.

The sheets and quilts they got married didn't bother to throw away until my mom left, and that's a priceless treasure!

Who knew that after marrying my father, my father never mentioned the matter of returning to the city, they never returned to the city, everything is like the arrangement of fate, as the so-called "life sometimes must have", "life is always forced"!

They took it like this, "regret and unwillingness" to live in the countryside for a lifetime, and I was born at that time!

In my mother's words, the dead old man and my dad lied to her and let her suffer alive in the fire pit!

If you want to say that I still have a little face, the dead old man refers to my grandfather who really gave face, and the car sent by the Public Security Bureau to pick me up, and I was very happy to see that my mother gave birth to a white and fat boy.

Everyone said that this child is so good-looking, what is his name?

My dad asked my father, and my father walked back and forth thinking about his name. What is the name? This child was born, and it rained so much, so it was called Golden Rain!

He didn't care at all, his uncle was too sloppy, right?

And it sounds a little feminine!

For a person of his cultural level, why doesn't he say something earth-shattering and crying ghosts and gods, it must be almost meaningful, right?

Unfortunately, I was just born, and I can't speak, and even if I can, I think I have to obey orders!

Since then, it has rained on my birthday every year, and it is just one day away from the July 16 of my birthday and the legendary Zhongyuan Ghost Festival, when the legendary ghost door of the Zhongyuan Ghost Festival is wide open, and all the wandering spirits and wild ghosts come out of hell to the world.

Enjoy the sacrifice and offering of incense and paper money of the people of later generations, and there are many ghosts who are reincarnated on that day, and many evil ghosts will come to the world to catch some people who are not vigorous.

Therefore, on this day, "every household" closes its doors early to sleep and does not let children go out and run around.

I have been weak and sick since I was born, maybe it is because the yin qi is too heavy, there are four yin in the eight characters, according to the theory of fate, it is difficult for people like me to survive, and they are basically premature.

And I did almost die, my life can really be described as a life of nine deaths, ups and downs, ups and downs!

My mother said that I had just been born, and I had diarrhea for a few days and almost didn't kill me, and that I was almost killed by allergies, and when the people in the village sent me to the clinic by tractor, I had a breath left!

It's all a trivial matter, when my grandmother and my mother said that I was still in confinement, I suddenly got black hair, foamed at the mouth, and convulsed all over, and I was about to finish my little life.

My grandmother came over and said that this child was a pig hair, and if you want to say that this pig hair wind has to be explained, I checked it on Du Niang.

According to the method taught by the old man, rubbing it with egg whites will cause a hard black thorn like a pig's bristles, like a wild boar. Of course, there has always been a lot of controversy about "pig hair wind", and the term "pig hair wind" has not been confirmed medically. So what is the truth about Pig Hair Wind?

In fact, within 2-8 weeks of the baby's birth, some babies often show sudden onset, violent, and uncomforting crying, accompanied by paroxysmal leg flexion, fist clenching and a large amount of gas, generally in the afternoon or evening, and some episodes are more fixed, lasting more than 2-3 hours.

This is actually infantile colic, because it often occurs in the evening, also known as "dusk crying syndrome".

In southern China, especially in Jiangxi, this symptom is interpreted as "pig hair wind". How did colic become pig hair wind, intestinal colic is often interpreted as "pig hair wind" in the folk, which is considered to be a kind of wind disease, also known as fetal poison, which is affected by wind or fetal poison, resulting in the appearance of pig hair wind.

Some folks usually use human milk or add egg whites to the dough, and then knead them on the baby's back, and then, the "miracle" appeared: there will be a lot of black hair in the flour dough, and there will be a lot of needle-like protruding black hair on the baby's back.

In fact, when the newborn is born, there will be a lot of fine hair all over the body, especially on the back, which is called the vellus hair of the newborn, which will gradually fall off naturally after a few months.

In that era of backward medicine, it is natural to understand from the perspective of medicine, after all, my grandmother has lived for half a lifetime, and she has naturally seen and experienced too much, and there are many unique secret recipes and stunts among the people have been passed down, but unfortunately those things have been lost to this day.

According to my grandmother, I had to get a needle in such a situation, and my grandmother also rubbed egg whites on my young body, only to see that the black hair on my body was "more and more", and the whole person was crying, and a big mouthful of white foam came out of my mouth.

If you want to talk about my milk, it is really the second woman I will never forget in my life, she gave me a second life.

When she saw that this was not good, she quickly asked my mother to find a quilt to wrap me and said to my mother, Xiuzhi, you must not go out at home, you are still in confinement, and you can't see the wind!

My mom said "Mom", so what do you do?

My grandmother called my dad to go with him to the ditch in our village, and my dad smoked on the side, and he didn't speak and sighed!

Said how did I raise a child like you, I was so angry that I knew that I couldn't make a mistake, so I said to my mother Okay, you can accompany Xiuzhi at home!

I went to the back room and called "the second uncle to come with me", "this second brother refers to my second uncle", my second uncle was not married at that time, and he especially liked me like this A mother and son took me all the way to the village ravine in the dark night.