"Cherish you?

Yu Jing said: "Didn't you say that maybe we won't have a common language in the future?"

"Yes!" Wang Taika said: "The more people grow up, the more they understand that they like to talk and chat with people who are compatible with them, and they will be with whoever is comfortable with them." Because I understand that not all people can become friends, and not all people can meet the right person, what can be done is to cherish the friends who are still around, and be with the people who still cherish each other. Isn't that great?"

"You're too pessimistic!" Yu Jing said: "So you are the thinking of an uncle, not the thinking of a young man like me!"

Wang Taika smiled: " When you find that if the person you know, no matter what you say or do, can't speak to that person's heart, or can't touch that person, what you do, even if it's for the sake of that person, but for others, it seems to be a burden, then stop doing these seemingly touching behaviors, because people who understand you will not understand who everything you do is for, and people who don't understand what you give, always feel that these are superfluous, there is no need to explain anything, and some people are not worthy of your cherishing and treatment. Don't even think about it as a big deal, remember it all the time. Not necessarily. ”

When Yu Jing heard this, she realized that Wang Taika was still enlightening herself, because what she said was obviously referring to the incident she had many years ago.

In fact, Yu Jing didn't expect that she had said so much nonsense, but Wang Taika was still persistent in enlightening herself. It's amazing to know that it's for your own good.

It's like what Wang Taika said, people who understand you don't understand who you're doing for whom.

Thinking of this, Yu Jing thought about it, and didn't interrupt Wang Taika, but pretended to continue to be distressed, in fact, she didn't think about those things anymore, she just thought about what Wang Taika would say next.

Seriously, it's a great feeling to be valued. It's still ...... It's a bit addictive, hee-hee!

Wang Taika drove the car, not realizing the change in Yu Jing, but still persuaded bitterly: "In fact, you will slowly find that some people will have ideas that you don't like to do things, or don't agree with them, which are very small things. Even at the beginning, you don't think it's a problem, but you don't know that these small details that seem to be okay are the biggest problem between you. You don't understand the way others think, others don't understand what your attachment is, and just a small contradiction will explode at some point, and you can't undo it, and you can't say anything. ”

"We often ignore this seemingly simple contradiction in life, but people get along with each other, only by knowing and understanding each other, can we be together for a long time, will worry about something, who will worry about whom, and will think about others everywhere, but all of this, between people is based on you understand my intentions, I cherish your dedication. ”

Hearing this, Yu Jing smiled: "I don't know about others, but at least now I understand your intentions." ”

Wang Taika couldn't help but glance at Yu Jing and asked, "What? What do you understand?"

Yu Jing smiled: "I should be very important to you." ”

"Uh...... Hahaha!" Wang Taika couldn't help but laugh, and then nodded: "Okay, I admit it." ”

"That's fine!" Yu Jing shrugged like Wang Taika: "Anyway, I didn't care much about the previous incident. What I care about is you...... Well, I mean, all I care about is that you release my pigeons. Well, ahem, that's it anyway. Not in the future. ”

"It's really domineering!" Wang Taika laughed.

Yi Jing smiled: "Be realistic! Just like you preached, I also have to learn to accept human nature, and even more so to accept the evil in human nature." ”

Wang Taika frowned: "Are you insinuating, pointing at Sang and scolding Huai, and fighting cattle across the mountain?"

"Wrong! It's a punch card!" Yu Jing is still very naïve to learn onomatopoeia: "Drop! perverted card!"

"Ah Yigu, the strength of the angry man has become stronger!" Wang Taika said helplessly: "Okay, like you said, accept the reality." ”

Yu Jing deliberately said angrily: "That means you want to give up on yourself?"

"No!" Wang Taika laughed, "Doubting yourself is the stupidest thing to do." Accepting reality is not about giving up on life and starting to live a corrupt and depraved life. It's about working harder and more sober. Accept the reality, understand the reality, know the wisdom of others, know the self, face yourself, and get a correct understanding of yourself in order to better get the life you want. ”

Yu Jing said: "It's like you can do it!"

Wang Taika grinned awkwardly: "Okay, I'm just telling you a rough idea." Besides, not only me, but most people in reality can't do this, and some force themselves to do things beyond their power because they can't face themselves, which eventually leads to pain and trouble. Some people do not face up to the mistakes they have made in the past, but instead blame others for their mistakes, and they are slow to get rid of the process of resenting others. ”

Yu Jing critted again: "Is this what you are?"

"This ......," Wang Taika grinned, "What! I'm not!"

"Then what are you pretentious about day by day?" Yu Jing said: "If you have the guts, keep your distance from V Ernie, don't see it, you will stick it up, I'm afraid that you can lick V Oni by sticking out your tongue!"

"Hey, hey, you're a dead lady, aren't you looking for a fight!" Wang Taika said, "When did I do that?"

"Oh, hehe! Didn't you say you have to accept the reality?" Yu Jing said: "Then accept the current reality! So don't always talk about my previous things, hum!"

Wang Taika saw that this was the rhythm of hurting each other!

So Wang Taika said: "You have misunderstood! The meaning of accepting reality does not mean succumbing to reality and sinking passively. Accepting reality means looking at the present situation and conditions calmly, no longer fighting against the present time, no longer angry and resentful, calmly focusing on the present, focusing on one's own responsibilities, and not engaging in useless confrontations. ”

"From acknowledging the facts, to accepting the reality, to facing the reality and making changes, every stage is a kind of growth. Just like me, I didn't change my goal, but I was a lot calmer. What does it have to do with giving up? Happiness comes from struggle. But keep your sincere heart and embrace a good life. ”

Yu Jing: "Let's get to the point!"

"Lao Tzu just wants to eat coriander, how do you love it!"

"Eat or lick?"

"You have no melon in the rain!"

"Melon or coriander?"

"Parsley, of course!"

"Eat or lick?"

"I ......"

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