When Dad and Mom were busy, Feng Ruoruo's children also started their day in kindergarten.

In the morning, I followed the teacher to do some simple morning exercises and stretched out my limbs.

Next is the time to make the game.

When everyone was playing games together, Feng Ruoruo accidentally discovered that Liu Zihao was not very lively today.

Usually when making games, Liu Zihao is always the most active, and he always likes to take advantage of making games to show his strength.

But today, Liu Zihao seems to be weak to play games with everyone, and he doesn't have the usual sense of activity.

When the game was over, Ms. Fang asked the children to go back to class and sit down to rest. Feng Ruoruo, Yang Xiaoxi and Chen Yaofei came to Liu Zihao together.

Feng Ruoruo asked curiously: "Liu Zihao, are you unhappy today?" Are you sick?"

Liu Zihao raised his head and saw Feng Ruoruo, Yang Xiaoxi and Chen Yaofei standing in front of him, the little boy hesitated for a moment, turned his head and said, "I'm not sick." ”

Yang Xiaoxi saw that Liu Zihao was very fierce, and he was very unhappy and pulled Feng Ruoruo and Chen Yaofei to leave.

"Ruoruo and Feifei, let's go, he said that he is not sick, and he is still so fierce, we don't play with him. ”

Feng Ruoruo continued to ask seriously: "Liu Zihao, are you really not sick? You seem to be unhappy, why are you?"

Liu Zihao raised his head, pretended to be very fierce and said, "Don't worry about it." ”

Yang Xiaoxi saw that Liu Zihao was so fierce, and he was also unconvinced and said: "Who cares about you, if you hadn't gone to Ruoruo's house to have a snack yesterday, we wouldn't have come to play with you." ”

In Yang Xiaoxi's heart, children who went to Feng Ruoruo's house to eat snacks could be regarded as friends.

Of course, those who didn't go were friends, but Yang Xiaoxi felt that if we went to eat snacks together, the relationship between everyone would definitely be better.

But Yang Xiaoxi didn't expect that Liu Zihao not only didn't have a better relationship with everyone after eating dim sum, but was still there to murder himself and Ruoruo. The little girl was very dissatisfied with Liu Zihao, and turned around to pull Feng Ruoruo and Chen Yaofei away.

After listening to Yang Xiaoxi's words, Liu Zihao said with some anger: "I don't want to play with you either." ”

Yang Xiaoxi was very angry and said to Feng Ruoruo: "Ruoruo, let's go, he won't play with us." ”

Chen Yaofei also whispered: "Let's go, Liu Zihao doesn't want to play with us." ”

Feng Ruoruo saw that the two good friends had said it, so he didn't continue to insist, but just said to Liu Zihao: "Liu Zihao, if you are unhappy, you have to say it, Xixi said that if you are unhappy, you will not be unhappy." ”

Yang Xiaoxi listened strangely and asked, "Did I say that?"

Yang Xiaoxi, who was a little confused, had already forgotten what he had said before.

However, Chen Yaofei still remembered, nodded and said to Yang Xiaoxi: "Xixi, you said it, you told me and Ruoruo. ”

Yang Xiaoxi nodded and said, "Okay, but Liu Zihao doesn't want to say it." ”

After the three little girls preached in front of each other like this, Liu Zihao finally couldn't hold back, and the little boy said: "It was yesterday that I went to Ruoruo's house to have a snack, and I went home late with my grandmother, and my grandmother was scolded by my mother." ”

Hearing this, Feng Ruoruo suddenly exclaimed: "Ah, how can your mother scold your grandmother?"

Yang Xiaoxi continued: "Your mother doesn't respect the elderly, Teacher Fang said, we have to respect the elderly, how can we scold grandma." ”

Chen Yaofei thought for a while and said softly: "Your mother is your grandmother's junior, you shouldn't scold your grandma, it's not good." ”

After Liu Zihao listened to the words of the three girls, the little boy was even more unhappy: "I know it's not good, my mother did something wrong, I said her, but she didn't admit her mistake and beat me." ”

Finally, the real reason why Liu Zihao was unhappy in the morning appeared because he was beaten by his mother yesterday.

Yang Xiaoxi thought about it and said: "Then your mother is even more wrong, she did something wrong, she didn't admit her mistake, how could she still beat you?"

Chen Yaofei said, "Then did you do something wrong, or something wrong? That's why your mother beat you?"

In the minds of children, they will feel that parents must have done something wrong or said something wrong that should not be said, such as swearing.

Liu Zihao thought for a while and said: "I didn't do anything wrong, I protected my grandmother at the time, and then told her that if she talked about grandma again, I would ignore him." ”

Speaking of this, Liu Zihao's little face was full of grievances: "Then she beat me." ”

When Feng Ruoruo heard this, he was a little indignant: "Your mother is wrong, she has done something wrong, how can she beat you?"

Chen Yaofei said: "However, Liu Zihao said that he ignored his mother, right?"

Yang Xiaoxi said again: "Liu Zihao said 'his mother will talk about his grandmother', so he ignored his mother." ”

Yang Xiaoxi's words made several children stunned, as if they were saying tongue twisters, and it really made a few children a little dizzy.

Even Yang Xiaoxi, who said this, felt a little dizzy when he reminisced about it.

There was silence for a while, and finally Feng Ruoruo said: "Then, my mother shouldn't beat Liu Zihao casually." ”

Hearing Feng Ruoruo's words, Liu Zihao suddenly seemed to feel that his heart was open, and he felt that Feng Ruoruo was very kind and stood with him.

Of course, children don't have so many ideas, Liu Zihao just thinks that Feng Ruoruo is helping him, and it is his side: "Feng Ruoruo, if you are so good, you will help me speak." ”

Liu Zihao's sudden compliment, several children were a little surprised.

Feng Ruoruo was stunned for a while, and then hurriedly said: "No, I think your mother shouldn't beat you, you just helped grandma talk, and asked your mother not to talk about grandma, you didn't do anything wrong." ”

Liu Zihao nodded in agreement: "Yes, I didn't do anything wrong, my mother beat me, she was wrong, it was my mother who did wrong." ”

A child's view of right and wrong is always very simple, anyway, it is either right or wrong.

Now that Feng Ruoruo and Liu Zihao said it, Yang Xiaoxi and Chen Yaofei also felt that Liu Zihao was right, and then his mother was wrong to beat him.

But when it came to distinguishing between right and wrong, several children had a period of distress.

Yang Xiaoxi pouted and said, "Then Liu Zihao's mother is not right, what are we going to do? Do we have to tell Liu Zihao's mother?"

Chen Yaofei thought about it and said, "Otherwise, let your grandparents tell Liu Zihao's mother." ”

Yang Xiaoxi immediately vetoed: "It's not good, Liu Zihao's mother scolded his grandmother, it's so fierce, Feifei, don't let your grandparents go, grandparents will also be scolded." ”

I have to say that Yang Xiaoxi is relatively sober, although she can't say things like "you shouldn't get involved in other people's housework", but she knows that she can't let Feifei's grandparents talk about Liu Zihao's mother.

Feng Ruoruo thought for a long time and thought of a way: "We can tell Teacher Fang." ”

Tell Teacher Fang?

Liu Zihao was a little scared and said, "I shouldn't tell Teacher Fang, right? If I tell Teacher Fang, my mother will definitely be even more angry, and I may be beaten by her again when I go home." ”

The little boy said this, apparently he had had a similar experience.

Feng Ruoruo boldly said: "We can tell Teacher Fang to tell Teacher Fang not to let your mother beat you." ”

Liu Zihao asked a little puzzled, "Will Teacher Fang tell my mother?"

Feng Ruoruo said very firmly: "Yes, you didn't do anything wrong, your mother shouldn't beat you, so we told Teacher Fang, and Teacher Fang won't let your mother beat you." ”

Under Feng Ruoruo's strange "inference", Liu Zihao was successfully persuaded (fooled), nodded and agreed to tell Teacher Fang.

After lunch, several children took advantage of the rest before napping to run over and pull Teacher Fang to talk about it.

At first, Mr. Fang listened to the four children chattering, but he didn't understand what was going on at all.

One time Liu Zihao was beaten by his mother, another time Liu Zihao's mother was wrong, and another time it was Liu Zihao's mother who asked Liu Zihao's mother not to beat him.

Hearing it in a daze, Teacher Fang could only ask the four children not to say: "Don't talk together, you come one by one, and explain what happened to the teacher first." ”

The second time was Liu Zihao himself who said it first, this time it was relatively simple, and Mr. Fang understood it at once.

Liu Zihao was at home yesterday and saw his mother and grandmother arguing, his mother scolded his grandmother, he stood up to help his grandmother speak, but he was beaten by his mother.

Things are indeed very simple, but after listening to it, Teacher Fang is a little big. As a kindergarten teacher, she shouldn't be in charge of this kind of child's family affairs, and she is not qualified to take care of it.

Especially the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, this is a historical problem, and Mr. Fang really doesn't know how to deal with it?

Therefore, Teacher Fang could only persuade Liu Zihao: "Liu Zihao, many times, there are quarrels between adults, not as you see, you are still children, don't participate in the quarrels of adults." ”

Feng Ruoruo couldn't help but say when she heard Teacher Fang say this: "However, Liu Zihao was beaten by his mother." ”

Teacher Fang thought for a while and said: "Liu Zihao's mother beat him, also because he was involved in the affairs of adults, he may not know the right and wrong of his mother and grandma, so he stood on his grandmother's side and said that his mother, this is his wrong." ”

Without waiting for a few children to speak, Teacher Fang said to Liu Zihao seriously: "So, Liu Zihao, you have to remember, don't participate in adult affairs casually, let adults do adult things, you are still children, you don't understand many things." ”

After Liu Zihao listened to Teacher Fang's words, the little boy was obviously unconvinced: "I didn't understand, my mother scolded my grandmother because my grandmother took me to Ruoruo's house to eat snacks and came home late, but my grandmother has apologized, but my mother keeps saying grandma." ”

As he spoke, Liu Zihao's voice was a little louder, and his little face was full of grievances, and he seemed to be about to cry.

Teacher Fang was stunned by what he said, and in a trance, he felt that the children in front of him didn't look like a five-year-old child at all.

But if you think about Liu Zihao's words carefully, you don't actually feel that there is anything wrong.

From the perspective of a child, Liu Zihao doesn't know what "friction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law" is, and he doesn't know that there may be conflicts between grandma and mother.

He is very intuitive, yesterday I went to Feng Ruoruo's house with my grandmother to eat snacks, but I came home late, and then my mother was unhappy, so I kept talking about grandma.

Liu Zihao felt that his mother shouldn't keep talking about grandma, so he stood up to help grandma speak.

So in a child's view of right and wrong, he will feel that he is not wrong, why should his mother beat himself?

Mr. Fang is really big now, I don't know how to explain this problem to Liu Zihao?

After thinking for a long time, Teacher Fang could only say: "Otherwise, when the kindergarten ends in the afternoon, if Liu Zihao and your mother come to pick you up, the teacher will tell your mother and ask her not to beat you casually." ”

When Liu Zihao heard the teacher say this, he was immediately satisfied and nodded: "Well, thank you, Teacher Fang." ”

Feng Ruoruo then added: "Teacher Fang, Teacher Fang, you still have to tell Liu Zihao's mother that she can't scold Liu Zihao's grandmother." ”

When Teacher Fang heard this, he saw that the four children were all looking at him seriously, and his head was big again.

In the end, in order to let the four children go to sleep obediently, Teacher Fang had to agree: "Okay, Teacher Fang told Liu Zihao's mother not to quarrel with his grandmother in front of Liu Zihao in the future." ”

After receiving this answer, the four children were quite satisfied, and nodded together with a smile.

In order to stop the children, Teacher Fang continued, and took the lead in saying, "Shouldn't you go to bed?" Otherwise, on Friday, the teacher won't let Feng Ruoruo's father bring snacks. ”

As soon as Teacher Fang said this, the children quickly took off their shoes, quickly ran into the mated nap room, and climbed into their own small beds.

Teacher Fang sat at the door, looking at a group of napping children inside. Thinking back to Liu Zihao's question just now, he couldn't help but smile bitterly and shake his head.

Thinking about it, as an adult, Teacher Fang couldn't help but be a little envious of this group of children.

You can be so carefree, you can think about many complex issues so simply, and you will be happy when you eat delicious snacks.

Teacher Fang thought about it and couldn't help but hum softly.

"I don't want to, I don't want to grow up......"

Half a day is very slow, but if it really passes, it is very fast.

The kindergarten children woke up from a nap, learned a little from Teacher Fang, then did a handicraft together, drew a picture, and finally sat down to listen to Teacher Fang's story for a while, and the kindergarten bell rang after school.

As parents come in to pick up their children, the kindergarten is a little crowded and very lively.

Because Teacher Fang has already announced that Feng Ruoruo's father will deliver snacks on Friday, except for Yang Xiaoxi and Chen Yaofei today, no children are clamoring to go to Feng Ruoruo's house to eat snacks together.

Chen Yaofei's grandparents hoped that their little granddaughter would communicate with people more, and they felt that it was just right to go home after dinner in Suji, so they decided to take their little granddaughter to Suji for dinner every day after kindergarten.

Yang Xiaoxi's father naturally has similar thoughts, anyway, his daughter likes to eat Ruoruo's father's dishes. Of course, today is also because Yang Xiaoxi's mother will go to photograph the Laojie Night Market at night.

After Feng Ruoruo, Yang Xiaoxi and Chen Yaofei were all picked up, and most of the children were also picked up, Liu Zihao's mother finally arrived.

Out of commitment to the children, Mr. Fang naturally said a few words to Liu Zihao's mother alone.

In fact, the main thing to say is to ask Liu Zihao's mother and family members not to quarrel in front of the children in the future, and not to beat the children casually.

Teacher Fang did not touch other people's housework, that is, starting from educating children, hoping that Liu Zihao's mother would consider the children's mental health.

Although Liu Zihao's mother is more spicy, she still attaches great importance to her son's problem. After listening to Teacher Fang's lecture alone, Liu Zihao's mother also readily agreed that she would not be in front of the child when she quarreled in the future, nor would she beat and scold the child casually.

The matter seems to have been resolved, but whether it has really been resolved? Perhaps only Liu Zihao's family knows.

The three girls, Feng Ruoruo, Yang Xiaoxi and Chen Yaofei, who were on the way home, also told the parents about it, and the three little girls were a little proud, feeling that they had done a great thing to help the children.

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