106: Let's get a divorce
Is there a problem with this explanation?
He's just telling the truth.
Seeing Fu Dingsi's acquiescence, Fu Wanwan couldn't help it, so she began to complain: "I thought that my brother's EQ was very low, but I didn't expect you to be even lower than my brother." ”
Fu Qizheng, who was suddenly cue, frowned: "......"
Who is said to have low emotional intelligence?
Fu Qizheng glared at Fu Wanwan and reminded her not to talk nonsense with his eyes.
However, Fu Wanwan was not afraid of Fu Qizheng at all.
After receiving Fu Qizheng's warning in his eyes, Fu Wanwan just pursed her mouth, and then asked him: "Am I wrong? Your EQ is already very low, otherwise why would you quarrel with Sister Xiang at every turn." ”
Moreover, I obviously like people, but I still don't admit it.
The children are so old, and no one has caught up with them yet.
Isn't that low emotional intelligence?
Fu Qizheng glanced at Luo Xiang, who was gloating beside him, "That's because some people only make people angry." ”
Luo Xiang: "......"
Fu Wanwan: "......"
Isn't that low emotional intelligence?
Forget it, don't argue with him, today's focus is not on this.
Anyway, Fu Qizheng and Luo Xiang have gotten along like this all these years, although the two often quarrel, Luo Xiang didn't really ignore Fu Qizheng.
Obviously, the situation on Fu Dingsi's side is more urgent.
So, Fu Wanwan asked Fu Dingsi again: "Then she was angry this time, didn't you coax her?"
Fu Dingsi: "...... I don't know how to coax, I have sent a message in the past two days, but she didn't reply. ”
Fu Wanwan asked: "What about before? You have been arguing for a while, haven't you coaxed her before?"
Fu Dingsi: "No, I thought she was angry, let her dissipate her anger first." ”
Fu Wanwan was dumbfounded again: "......"
God is deflated.
If you don't coax when you're angry, do you have to wait until you're angry before coaxing?
Fu Dingsi saw Fu Wanwan's expression and knew that he had done something wrong.
Actually, he regretted it, but now that things have developed to such an extent, he can't help it.
Fu Dingsi coughed lightly and took the initiative to admit his mistake: "I didn't think about this matter, and it's normal for her to ignore me now, but can you help me come up with an idea?"
Fu Dingsi obviously had an attitude of humbly asking for advice.
"Husband, do you have a way?" Fu Wanwan felt that her IQ was not enough, so she poked Han Zhan's arm next to her.
After listening to what Fu Dingsi just said, Han Zhan also felt a little outrageous.
Fu Dingsi is like this, very much like the kind of straight man who has no experience in love at all.
But he obviously had a girlfriend before, so I really don't know how his previous girlfriend endured it......
Fu Dingsi and Fu Qizheng are obviously not the same situation.
Fu Qizheng is not low in emotional intelligence, he is just easily provoked by Luo Xiang.
It can only be said that Luo Xiang's existence affects his emotions too much, which is also a manifestation of care.
Although Luo Xiang has been making trouble all these years, he has generally been in Fu Qizheng's grasp.
The two of them, sooner or later, will be together.
But Fu Dingsi and Ning Jiaoyi are completely different.
Seeing Fu Dingsi like this, he didn't have anything to do with Ning Jiaoyi at all.
Han Zhan thought for a while, and then asked Fu Dingsi: "Does the second brother have his own ideas?"
Fu Dingsi said "um", and said Fu Qizheng's idea for him before: "Yuanfeng is going to have an annual meeting, I want to take her over, so that I can clarify." ”
Han Zhan nodded, "It's a good idea, so that the media can be shut up from guessing." ”
Fu Dingsi: "But she ignores me now, I don't know how to get her to agree, do you have a way?"
Korean War: "......"
If it weren't for the fact that he wasn't familiar with Fu Dingsi, he really wanted to scold.
Fu Dingsi asked, as if he was the one who needed to coax his wife.
Not to mention, the Korean War really hasn't encountered such a situation.
Although Fu Wanwan occasionally had trouble with him, he would never let things develop into such a situation.
Mainly, he really won't contact his ex-girlfriend.
Didn't Fu Dingsi know that women really cared about this matter?
"The second brother wants to coax the second sister-in-law, but he still has to show sincerity, at least, he can't contact his ex-girlfriend again in the future. Han Zhan thought for a while, and said to Fu Dingsi: "If you break up, you break up, no matter what happens to the other party, it has nothing to do with you, if you repeatedly take care of your ex-girlfriend's affairs, the second sister-in-law will definitely not be happy." What's more, this ex-girlfriend is also her half-sister. ”
“...... Well, I know. Fu Dingsi nodded, and did not refute the words of the Korean War.
He thought about it, Ning Wanwan looked for him in the future, he really couldn't reply to her anymore.
"With all due respect, the second brother usually doesn't care much about his sister-in-law, right?" Han Zhan knew as soon as he saw Fu Dingsi's posture that he definitely didn't care much about people.
Fu Dingsi was a little embarrassed and didn't answer.
Han Zhan said with a smile: "The second sister-in-law is about the same age as Wanwan, right? She is vigorous and resolute outside, but in the end she is still a little girl in her twenties, no matter how old a woman is, she is still a little girl, and she needs to be cared for, maybe you usually do too little for her, so when you quarrel, she can't remember what is good about you, so naturally she will not be soft on you." ”
With such an analysis of Han Zhan, Fu Dingsi was speechless again: "......"
Like, really.
Caring for ......
In his world, there doesn't seem to be such a concept.
Fu Wanwan couldn't help but ask: "Second brother, I'm curious, how did you get along with your ex-girlfriend when you were in love before, and she could put up with you for two or three years?" It's not easy...... Are you arguing?"
Fu Wanwan was shocked by Fu Dingsi's attitude towards the relationship between men and women.
She felt that whoever fell in love with Fu Dingsi couldn't think about it!
This kind of straight man of steel, half a beat slow, and he has no empathy ability, what a scum, what a scum.
"I didn't argue. Fu Dingsi shook his head.
He and Ning Wanwan get along quite calmly, not quarrelling, and not too close.
Before, he had always thought that a healthy relationship should be like this.
Fu Wanwan: "......"
How does she think that Fu Dingsi and that Ning Wanwan are quite a good match, the two of them are not ordinary people, in fact, they are very good together, so don't harm others.
"If the second brother really wants to coax his wife, let's learn how to care about others first. Han Zhan also felt that Fu Dingsi was too impersonal.
He is not slow to heat, not restrained, but indifferent in his bones.
It looks like there is a personality flaw.
He doesn't seem to know what a healthy relationship should look like......
Is it innate?
Many things, he didn't know what was wrong, he felt that he didn't do anything wrong at all.
Because, he doesn't know what's right.
"Can you give an example?" Fu Dingsi's attitude was simply shameless to ask.
Han Zhan felt that he was not the kind of person with a good face, and it seemed that he really wanted to learn.
Maybe it's just a lack of personality.
Han Zhan thought about it for a while and suggested to Fu Dingsi: "It's actually very simple, such as sending her a dress when it's cold, or sending her a dinner when she's working overtime." Girls are delicate and don't need you to say too many pretty things, and this kind of attention to detail can impress them more than flashy sweet words and promises. ”
Fu Dingsi listened carefully to Han Zhan's words, and then fell into deep thought.
He carefully studied Han Zhan's words, thought for several minutes, and seemed to understand something he meant.
Then, Fu Dingsi nodded, "I understand, thank you." ”
Han Zhan smiled: "Second brother is polite." ”
**
Ning Jiaoyi stayed in Paris for a week.
After returning to the famous city, he began to prepare for the annual meeting of Jinnuo and Funing.
Now she manages two companies by herself, and at the end of the year, both sides are very busy, and Ning Jiaoyi is working overtime almost every day.
Before ten o'clock, I basically don't want to go home.
On this day, Ning Jiao was busy until nine o'clock before she could deal with the matter at hand.
She poured a cup of coffee and walked to the floor-to-ceiling window, looked down, and realized that it was snowing outside.
This is the first snow of the winter in the famous city.
The snow was falling heavily, and the road surface was already white.
Ning Jiaoyi stood in front of the floor-to-ceiling window, feeling the cold outside.
The snow is so heavy that it is quite inconvenient to drive.
Ning Jiaoyi rubbed her eyebrows, is she going to spend the night in the studio tonight?
It's not like this hasn't happened before, but at this time, the central air conditioning has been cut off, the studio has no heating, it's snowing outside, and the temperature is so low that I'm afraid I'll freeze to death if I sleep in the office overnight.
Ning Jiaoyi returned to the desk with her coffee, and was thinking about what to do when the office door was suddenly pushed open.
The sound startled her, because she was the only one left in the company at this moment, and she couldn't think of anyone coming.
Ning Jiaoyi put down the coffee cup and looked up, and when she saw Fu Dingsi, her body stiffened.
Do the math, since the two WeChat messages, they haven't been in touch for nearly ten days.
After returning from Paris, Ning Jiaoyi has been very busy, and she has been so busy that she has no time to think about these between her and Fu Dingsi.
Fu Dingsi won't coax her, she knows.
I didn't hold out hope, so when I saw him appear, I was surprised.
Although she was surprised, Ning Jiaoyi did not take the initiative to speak.
Fu Dingsi walked up to Ning Jiaoyi with the hot coco in his hand and handed her the bag.
"Drink it hot. ”
The office was quiet, and his voice was low and hoarse, and he was a little considerate when he suddenly said something like this.
Ning Jiaoyi thought that she should be tired, and she was in a trance, thinking that she had seen the person before-
At the time of my study, this kind of thing happened many times.
Fashion design majors, every time you have to submit your work at the end of the semester, it will be very busy.
Ning Jiaoyi basically spent time in the school's studio near the end of the semester, and stayed up late every day.
At that time, Fu Dingsi would often bring supper to see her.
He may not say a word, but he will sit next to her and wait quietly for her.
Thinking of the past, Ning Jiaoyi unconsciously pursed her lips.
She looked down at the hot cocoa handed over by Fu Dingsi-
It turned out to be the one she liked very much.
Ning Jiaoyi's head was hot, and she suddenly grabbed his wrist.
"Is that you? You're back?"
Fu Dingsi was startled by Ning Jiaoyi's sudden movements.
was ready to be rejected, but I didn't expect Ning Jiaoyi to be so enthusiastic all of a sudden.
He was so enthusiastic that he was a little confused.
"Have you had dinner? If you haven't, I'll take you to eat." ”
No matter what, Ning Jiaoyi was willing to talk to him, and Fu Dingsi was still very happy.
The two of them hadn't eaten together for a long time, so Fu Dingsi took the opportunity to make this request.
As soon as he said this, Ning Jiaoyi woke up.
Not him.
Her eyes returned to indifference, and the next second she let go of him, taking a step back by the way.
Fu Dingsi: "......"
"What are you going to do. Ning Jiaoyi directly ordered Fu Dingsi to expel the guest, "Get out." ”
Fu Dingsi choked up, not angry because of her unkindness.
On the contrary, he was patient.
"I'm sorry, I've been thinking about how to handle our relationship. It's that I'm not good enough to care about you enough. ”
"I ...... I don't know what to do when I'm in love, but I'll try to learn, can you give me another chance?"
Fu Dingsi had written these words in advance, so when he said them, it was quite smooth.
He cautiously, after saying this, looked at Ning Jiaoyi expectantly, waiting for her reply.
Ning Jiaoyi raised her eyes to look at Fu Dingsi, and after a long time, let out a chuckle.
"Give you another chance for you and Ning Wanwan to join forces to be angry with me?"
She said it calmly, and with a smile.
However, Fu Dingsi became even more panicked after hearing this.
"I'm not going to contact her anymore. Fu Dingsi said, "I won't care if something happens to her in the future, last time was the last time." ”
"You've said that no less than five times, and I'm tired of hearing it. Ning Jiaoyi didn't believe him at all, "The next time Ning Wanwan says that she was subjected to domestic violence, you will still run up to save her." You like to be her savior the most. ”
Fu Dingsi: "......"
Ning Jiaoyi: "So, save it, don't make such cheap promises in front of me, even if a fool is deceived a few times, he will be wary, not to mention that I am not a fool." ”
Fu Dingsi: "Of course you are not, I am." ”
Ning Jiaoyi: "......"
"I'm a fool, and after I got married, I contacted my ex-girlfriend and made my wife unhappy. ”
Fu Dingsi lowered his head and reflected on himself, like a primary school student who gave a review to the head teacher.
Ning Jiaoyi looked at it for a while, and actually laughed.
This time, it's not a sarcastic laugh, it's a happy laugh.
Fu Dingsi heard Ning Jiaoyi laughing, and immediately raised his head, and the expectation in his eyes was a little stronger.
"You're not just a fool, you're blind. Ning Jiaoyi scolded him.
Fu Dingsi nodded obediently, "Yes, you're right." ”
Ning Jiaoyi: "......"
"You drink hot cocoa first, I waited in line for almost half an hour to buy it. ”
Fu Dingsi walked to the desk and unpacked it, inserted the straw into it, and brought the hot cocoa to Ning Jiaoyi's mouth.
This series of actions made Ning Jiaoyi in a trance again.
...... year He does it a lot, too.
At that time, she was a coquette, and she always liked to stick to him and be coquettish.
When I was with him, I seemed to have lost the ability to live independently, and he had to feed him himself for food and drink.
But he never complained.
When Ning Jiaoyi was distracted, Fu Dingsi had already put the straw into her mouth.
Ning Jiaoyi habitually took a sip, and the rich cocoa fragrance diffused between her lips and teeth, and the memories that came with it came with it.
In the past few years, Ning Jiaoyi has hardly touched hot cocoa again.
This is her favorite drink before, hot cocoa with sugar and fried chestnuts, which she often eats in the winter.
But because these two things carry too many memories, she instinctively wants to escape in the past few years.
Now that I taste this taste again, those dusty memories seem to have been suddenly lifted, and they are flooding into my mind.
Ning Jiaoyi thought about these things, and then looked at the person in front of her.
He looked at her cautiously with clear eyes, as if he was afraid that she would be upset.
That person would never show such an expression, nor would he be as wooden and slow as him.
That person is like a fish in water, whether it is in work or in a relationship.
Even if she is angry, he can coax her the fastest, and he can always resolve her tantrum as soon as possible.
Jialing asked her if she had distinguished the two of them.
In fact, during this time, Ning Jiaoyi will also consider this issue.
She thought, she had not been separated before.
She seems to have been reluctant to face the reality that the man who pampered her and pampered her has disappeared.
She said that she didn't care, but subconsciously she still hoped that the man in front of her would treat her like the same person at the beginning.
When he couldn't, she started to get upset.
In fact...... These are all things that she imposed on him.
This man, the person he loved at first was not her at all.
And what she wanted, it wasn't him.
Thinking of this, Ning Jiaoyi suddenly stopped being angry.
What is she angry about?
It's all her one-man show.
They are two separate people, even if they share the same body?
He's gone, that's gone.
Unless a miracle happens, he will never return.
It was cold in the office, and Ning Jiaoyi felt that her hands and feet were cold.
She came back to her senses, snatched the hot cocoa from Fu Dingsi's hand, and drank it herself.
When Fu Dingsi saw her like this, he thought she was not angry, so he said, "Let's go to dinner, do you want to eat hot pot?"
"Fu Dingsi. Ning Jiaoyi put down the hot coco in her hand, looked at him, and said very seriously: "I've thought a lot about this time, in fact, you were quite right before, the reason why I married you was to rob Ning Wanwan's things, and now Ning Wanwan is not having a good time, the two of you were broken up by me, I'm very happy." ”
Her voice was calm and unwarm. Hearing this, Fu Dingsi unconsciously tightened his fists.
"What do you want to say?"
"You don't know how disgusting I am, so I'm going to snatch her things. I'm just going to trample her underfoot. ”
"So you guessed right, I did whatever it took to marry you just for this, but now I think it's quite boring, Ning Wanwan's life is almost like this, I don't want to waste time, so I let you go." Ning Jiaoyi raised her eyebrows and looked at him, her red lips slightly hooked, "Divorce, congratulations, you're relieved." ”
In fact, Ning Jiaoyi's words have been expressed very directly.
Fu Dingsi understood what she meant, but he didn't want to believe it: "What do you want to say?"
"Are you really stupid?" Ning Jiaoyi smiled, "What do I want to say, aren't you very clear?"
Fu Dingsi: "......"
"You don't think I really like you, do you? Ning Jiaoyi poked his chest, and her posture was very frivolous: "Actually, even if it was another man at that time, I would have snatched it away by means, don't be sentimental, behave." ”
Fu Dingsi pinched Ning Jiaoyi's palm, and he stared at her deadly, his eyes a little red.
If you look closely, you can see his temples throbbing.
He looked angry.
Ning Jiaoyi saw that he was angry, but he still looked indifferent.
She moved her lips and continued, "Look, the two of us are forcibly tied together, and neither of us is happy. I'm not happy, and neither are you. It's good for everyone if it's broken early. ”
"I'm not unhappy. This time, Fu Dingsi finally spoke.
He directly expressed his attitude to Ning Jiaoyi: "I will not divorce." ”
Ning Jiaoyi smiled: "You can't help this." Although we haven't known each other for a long time, you know that what I want to do will definitely be done. ”
"I didn't need your consent when I got married, and now I don't need you to be willing to divorce, I always have a way. ”
There was no loss on Ning Jiaoyi's face.
On the contrary, she kept smiling, and this expression made Fu Dingsi even more uncomfortable.
He squeezed Ning Jiaoyi's wrist and took a deep breath, "If I have any problems, you name them, and I can solve them." ”
"There's nothing wrong with you, it's with me. Ning Jiaoyi looked down at her wrist that was pinched red by him, "I feel bored, so I stop this game." ”
Fu Dingsi: "......"
"I've explained the reason, you can go, I don't really want to see you now. Ning Jiaoyi rubbed her temples, "I won't ask for your property, and your property should not be rare, I will find a lawyer to draft the divorce agreement, and you can sign it when the time comes, and find a time to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the formalities." ”
Ning Jiaoyi arranged everything calmly, very skillfully, as if she had already planned for this matter.
This realization made Fu Dingsi even more uncomfortable in his heart-
Could it be, from the very beginning, that she had planned all this?
She said that forcing him to marry was just to snatch Ning Wanwan's things, just to stimulate Ning Wanwan.
When they first got married, Fu Dingsi really thought the same way.
However, then he vaguely spied on some things from the past, and learned that they originally knew each other, and maybe even lived together......
At that point, he completely changed his mind.
Jialing also said that she really loves him.
Jialing was very sincere when he said that, not like he was lying to him.
After getting along for a long time, he was also sincere to her, and he no longer felt that she forced him to marry in order to stimulate Ning Wanwan.
He didn't pay much attention to the recording that Ruan Xiangyu gave him.
At that time, I was a little angry, but after thinking about it, it must have been Ruan Xiangyu who said something to stimulate Ning Jiaoyi, and Ning Jiaoyi would say cruel words.
Now that she said that, he still didn't want to believe it.
But she said it too calmly, and Fu Dingsi felt for the first time that he couldn't see through a person's mind.
When she used to look at him, there was light in her eyes.
She would always smile at him, and her eyes were crooked, very good-looking.
Even when he was angry, his eyes were full of concern for him.
But now......
Fu Dingsi looked into her eyes again.
At this time, her eyes did not have the slightest warmth, and when she looked at him, it seemed that she was looking at a stranger.
This realization made Fu Dingsi's heart tingle-
Could it be that her feelings can really change so quickly?
He still didn't believe it.
Fu Dingsi now just wants to quickly figure out what happened back then.
There was always a voice in his heart reminding him that as long as he retrieved the memories of the past, the problems between him and Ning Jiaoyi would be solved.
"We used to know each other. Fu Dingsi opened his mouth, "No, we've been together." ”