Chapter 302: Loss Aversion
Reluctantly walked into the Ruyi Women's Health Club.
Actually, I don't know, what kind of wind did I smoke this morning?
Why do you suddenly want to kiss big waves.
However, I made this move on my own morning. Not only did he not regret it at all. There are even some who feel that they are too late to act.
Since this time, all the employees of our Huangquan Dumpling Restaurant have gone to the Chao clan team building together.
I spent half a month with Big Wave 100 years ago. At that inn 100 years ago, I shared the same bed with Big Wave from the day I shared the same bed.
My heart seems to be more and more determined, there are some feelings that I can't get, and it's time for me to give up.
And there are people who treat me wholeheartedly. I should also give him a good explanation.
Now, although I think of Shen Xueer, I still feel sour in my heart.
But there is no way, theology has become Zhang Linli's woman.
Although I don't approve of that scumbag very much. However, after all, it was Shen Xueer's own choice.
And I, too, am very grateful to the big wave. Such an excellent, beautiful, coquettish, intelligent woman.
He is willing to choose me and stay by my side regardless of everything.
As a man, I should take my share of responsibility.
As I drove the car, I smiled and unconsciously recalled the kiss I had with Big Wave just now.
Between men and women, the time period when they get along at first glance is really the sweetest and happiest.
At that time, I didn't want to be separated from each other for a minute.
I parked the car directly downstairs in the Minzhong community. Then I climbed the stairs with a happy heart.
Walk to the door of the apartment on the sixth floor.
Before I could knock on the door. Niu Baiye couldn't wait to open the door and stood at the door and looked around.
When I saw Niu Baiye, I hurriedly apologized to him.
"I'm sorry, Brother Niu, because of a little thing, I lost some time.
You're in a hurry. ”
Niu Baiye pulled me into the room.
"I'm in a hurry, I'm not in a hurry, I'm still eating and drinking here, and lying on the bed. Staring at the night shift here is much better than lying on the stainless steel board in our dumpling restaurant.
Brother Xiao Wang, I want to ask you, did you see Xiaomei last night?
What did you all say to Xiaomei? Did he get angry? Did he give up on me completely?"
I had to confess. The heavier words I said to Sister Xiaomei last night. All retold to Niu Baiye.
I said to Niu Baiye.
"Brother Niu, don't blame me for taking you out as an old man.
What I said to my little sister last night was indeed very serious.
However, I'm also doing this for the good of both of you.
Now that you have made up your mind, you will completely cut off the relationship with Sister Xiaomei. I don't want Sister Xiaomei to continue to be stupid and have delusions about you.
In that case, the damage done to him would be even greater.
So, Brother Niu, you won't blame me, will you?"
Niu Baiye was a little overwhelmed when he heard this, but he still shook his head resolutely.
"Of course, of course I don't blame you, I also want to thank you, I will never say these words to Xiaomei personally.
In this way, it completely put an end to Xiaomei's thoughts about me.
Instead, I was able to relax.
Even from now on, Xiaomei hates me and resents me.
I also admit it, after all, this is all my mistake back then, which caused the current gang of evil consequences.
Whatever the outcome, I'm going to take it all in. ”
I unconsciously licked my lips with my tongue and asked Niu Baiye.
"Brother Niu, if you treat Sister Xiaomei like this now, will you regret it in the future?
Have you ever thought that if you are so determined with Sister Xiaomei now, if you regret it one day in the future, you may want to redeem it again, and you won't even have the slightest chance. ”
Niu Baiye sat on the bed and panted.
"I am a man, and men must not regret their own choices.
What's more, I will definitely not divorce Fang Xiren. In this life, Fang Raider is my wife, and she is my child's mother. ”
In fact, there is a question that has been haunting my mind. I have never been embarrassed to ask Niu Baiye.
Now, I finally couldn't help myself and asked that question.
I asked Niu Baiye.
"Brother Niu, the reason why you didn't divorce Fang Xianren is to give your children a complete family.
Or is it because you can't swallow that breath in your heart. ”
Niu Baiye kept saying that the reason why he chose not to divorce was for the sake of his children.
However, as far as I know, Fang raiders only go home almost once a month or two.
A child and his mother can only see each other once a month or two. What is the difference between such a mother-daughter relationship and not?
Last time, Fang attacked people and called Niu Baiye. said that he had been separated from Niu Baiye for a year. When the two years of separation are up, she will go to court to sue for divorce.
Niu Baiye has long known in his heart that his marriage with Fang Xiren will not end at all.
As long as Fang Xiren is firm in the idea of divorce. Sooner or later, their family will fall apart.
So, I really don't understand, what is Niu Baiye's pretense of insisting on now?
For the sake of children? I don't think so!
Niu Baiye listened to my question, and the whole person was obviously stunned.
I saw him respond to me hesitantly.
"Of course, of course, it's all for the children, otherwise what else?"
I think, in fact, even Niu Baiye himself can't figure out what he really thinks in his heart.
He is just using his daughter as an excuse, ostensibly saying that he wants to give his daughter a complete family.
In fact, he just couldn't swallow this breath.
This kind of emotion has a name in psychology. It's called loss aversion.
It's a thing of its own. But he was about to lose him.
Even if you don't like this thing. These will also be firmly grasped by all means.
Because of loss, it will make people's emotions go to an extreme. It will even make his mood increase by 2.5 times compared to when he got it.
Therefore, Niu Baiye's pretense now insists. It's just controlled by a common emotion.
I know that it will continue in this direction.
Niu Baiye and Fang Xianren divorced sooner or later.
And in the near future, Niu Baiye will regret losing Sister Xiaomei.
When the time comes, his kind of painful emotion. It's only going to be worse than what he is now.
I sighed helplessly.
Who made this old cow love to drill the horns so much?
No matter how we persuade him, he treats Sister Xiaomei well and treats her like a mustard.
Moreover, now Sister Xiaomei's method of paying is not right.
Sister Xiaomei is completely using bottomless dedication and flattery to win Niu Baiye's favor.
But the two of them are really together. Only by virtue of empathetic values and personal values can it be stable for a long time.
Be a licking dog in love. Sooner or later, they will let each other abandon each other.
Niu Baiye sat on the bed. The trash can next to the bed was full of leftovers from the cooked food he had eaten last night.
I couldn't help but ask Niu Baiye.
"Brother Niu, you didn't sleep last night, did you?"
Niu Baiye hurriedly shook his head.
"Of course not, I know the importance of this contract, how dare I be passive?"
I continued to ask Niu Baiye.
"Then, is there any movement in that room?"
Anyway, from the time I walked in the door this morning until now. Mo Xiaoya's room was quiet, and there was not even a trace of noise.
This feeling of tranquility is really safe and a little scary.
After all, Mo Xiaoya is now riddled with calamity. What are the signs of a general catastrophe?
Mo Xiaoya stays in the room every day, safe and stable.
How can there be no sign at all?
Niu Baiye suddenly took out a small notebook from the bedside table.
It is densely written about his experience on duty this night.
Niu Baiye handed me the notebook and introduced it to me one by one.
"Yesterday at 7:12 p.m. Mo Xiaoya flushed the toilet from the house.
Yesterday at 9:16 p.m. The sound of a computer sounded in Mo Xiaoya's room. She was supposed to be watching a movie.
At 11:24 last night, Mo Xiaoya went to the kitchen to boil a pot of hot water.
Only to find out that there was a change of person in this room. Tilting his head, he asked who I am?
I said, I'm your brother. Then he ignored me.
At 12:06 last night, Mo Xiaoya went to the bathroom again to go to the toilet.
Until 1:42 p.m. last night, the sound of singing sounded in Mo Xiaoya's room.