Han Zimai really wanted to ask the reason, because she had to take her grandchildren and grandchildren, a total of five or six children, her heart was all on the child, and she didn't notice the change in Yang Zhunxing at all, until she and he were so far away that they couldn't walk in the same direction anymore.

She wanted to look back, but when she did look back, she was dazed and found that there was a smoky space between her and him! And on different sides of this space, she couldn't see him, and he probably couldn't see her.

In this way, she and him, looking at each other from afar, except for the vague figure of the imagination, she and Yang Zhunxing have long been not the loving couple they once were, and the previous acquaintance still had a promise, and now it seems that it is like a world away, and it seems that an old movie is playing in my mind, it is not a colorful world, and it is even a little yellow, accompanied by the sound of snowflakes at intervals. Perhaps, in the process of the appearance of this ancient movie, there is also an accompaniment that you have heard or not heard, and you follow the soft humming, attentive, or careless.

"How long have you not been in the world of two people with him?" Han Zihe's question interrupted Han Zimai's silence.

After Han Zimai sighed, he thought about it seriously, and then shook his head slightly with Han Zihe, and said: "I can't remember, it seems that before retirement, in my busy schedule, he and I were still interested in creating a little romance, but after retirement, he just started this time, and shared the task of taking care of the children with me, but later, he didn't sign up for a lot of courses, and he paid the money, if he didn't go to class, people wouldn't return, it was not cost-effective, so let's leave it at that, he got rid of housework, and then he became more and more busy!"

"He didn't tell you in class...... Didn't I say anything to you? Biruo, let you follow?"

"Didn't he say before that he was going to take me to the University for the Elderly?" Han Zimai thought about it, "I was very happy at the time, but then the children ran to me, and he and I must have someone to take care of me, right? Who would have thought that this division of labor would turn out to be a watershed moment in the hearts of me and him. ”

Han Zimai's self-deprecation, Han Zihe didn't take it seriously, and now on this, it doesn't matter if he laughs at himself or not.

"I want to ask you, he doesn't show any performance for you to take on so much housework, he doesn't persuade you, you let him be free, he will let himself go?"

Regarding Han Zihe's question, Han Zimai thought about it seriously: "If you want to say, there really is, at the beginning, he was not very in favor of moving his grandchildren and grandchildren into the household registration, but you know very well that if you don't care about it, then it's okay, if you don't care who doesn't care about whom, you will be designated to let the children complain in the future." ”

As Han Zimai spoke, he sighed again and again and said: "You don't dare to provoke me, especially when I get older, I don't dare to offend the children! Besides, who is not for the children? If you don't have the conditions, it will be counted, and if you don't care about the conditions, it will be a little unreasonable!"

After all, my grandchildren's grandparents, in order to take care of the children, none of them accepted the invitation to re-hire, and the other one deliberately left early. If it weren't for the limited conditions and the fact that I couldn't afford to buy a house in the school district, people wouldn't have sent their children to me.

You say, I've been saving for so long, and when I got to this juncture, my in-laws have personally asked for it, so can we, who are grandparents, still say no? However, you have moved your grandchildren and granddaughters in, can you ignore your grandchildren and grandchildren?

If you really don't care, people will ask you in eight sentences -- how can your grandchildren's grandparents give so much? It's not that people's grandparents don't have sons! They are all grandparents, why is there such a big difference?

Look at it, when it comes to this, what else can you do except sigh that you shouldn't have taken care of it in the first place?

Han Zimai complained, and Han Zihe listened a little helplessly: "You and your brother-in-law are quite comfortable, haven't you thought about asking your aunt to help? I think your house seems to have five bedrooms?"

"Six!" Han Zimai heard this, and hurriedly corrected, "You don't remember, your brother-in-law and I each divided a suite, all of which were three-room, and later because of the demolition, we changed to three suites, all of which are in very good locations! Just like that, I changed to a bungalow, and there was a small garden, and there were six bedrooms alone. This is not a study or a studio!"

"That's not good. Han Zihe saw that the more Han Zimai spoke, the more excited he became, and he wanted to laugh.

She knows very well that the other party is so excited now, not because he wants to show off, but because he is really proud of the results of his struggle.

There may be a little bit of a mistake in between, but it doesn't hurt.

"You and your brother-in-law have one room, one for the boys, one for the girls, and the other two for the aunt who does the housework and the aunt who looks after the children. ”

"Aunties have their own rooms, and I have two nanny rooms for nannies. ”

"Yo, you have to have ten rooms?" Han Zihe was a little surprised, "Then you are not a small bungalow, even if this is a villa, it is rare to have so many rooms!"

Probably because he didn't care about it before, Han Zihe really didn't pay attention to the situation at Han Zimai's family, and now he is inevitably a little surprised when he listens to it.

"What you said is not wrong, but that's the general situation, my house here is customized and built by our unit itself, just to benefit employees, so the more than 100 houses in our community are like this. ”

"I see!" Han Zihe suddenly said, "If you say that, it will make sense." ”

After Han Zihe said this, he couldn't help but be curious: "Then it stands to reason that the area of your bungalow is not small, and there is a garden or something, you do the housework by yourself, you are not tired!"

"Nowadays the tools are very convenient, like ...... To change the water in this fish tank, there are tools, even if it is a wall of water, it can be completed in one minute to replace the water, that is, there is a higher cost on the tools, but as long as you are willing to do it, this is no problem, of course, this area is here after all, so even if it is not necessary to clean thoroughly every day, even if there are so many easy tools, if you count it, it will take two hours to clean it once! After all, it takes time to change tools or up and down, not tired, but not tired. ”

"If you have children, it doesn't seem easy if you don't clean every day. ”

"It's not!" Han Zimai said with a wry smile when he heard this, "So, I really have a full schedule every day!"

"But then again, you don't have no room, you invite an aunt to clean, laundry and cook, can't you let your hands go completely?

As for picking up and dropping off the children, you can ask your daughter to send two nannies over by herself, who is responsible for picking up and dropping off the children to and from school, and can also accompany the children to the community garden to play and play, and it is not difficult for the two of you to take care of five or six children. ”

"......" Han Zimai was slightly stunned, as if these words were a little familiar, she said to herself, "It seems that what you said, Yang Zhunxing has said it before!"

"Huh?" Han Zihe was keen to come up with ideas, and after hearing Han Zimai say this, he couldn't help but be a little confused.

"That time I was tired and fell down the steps, and when he heard it, he rushed to help me with medicine, and it was also that time that he claimed to want to talk seriously.

He said that the children are not too big, if they are really big one by one, then by the time I see the youngest one, I will be old, and when the time comes, because of the injuries caused by the tiredness of the children, I will definitely be older than the sisters of the same age.

At that time, if you couldn't walk or play, what fun was there! But at that time, the children should still be in the rising period of their careers, and now they are retiring and leaving very late, let alone in the future, so it is not realistic to let our children take care of us at that time.

What's more, even if the children retire at that time, don't they have to look for their own grandchildren? Where can they take care of us? It's not bad if they don't send us to a nursing home?

So what he means is that for the sake of children, if you really have to worry about it, it will not be enough for a lifetime, so you should let go, you have to let go, and the old people should also have their own happy and free time, instead of turning the pot for their children.

He wanted me not to be full of thinking about whether my grandchildren ate well or not, whether my grandchildren were dressed well, and I should open my eyes and look at the outside world.

As for the grandchildren and grandchildren, we don't take care of them, aren't the rooms all abundant? Invite more aunts, some are responsible for cleaning, some are responsible for shopping, cooking, washing, and washing, some pick up and drop off children to and from school, and three or four people are enough to count on their fingers.

That way, the two of us will have time for morning exercises, and as long as the time is right, we can sit down and have breakfast with the children!"

As she said this, she had a look of longing on her face.

It can be seen that she is not really moved by Yang Zhunxing's proposal.

No, Han Zimai's eyes moistened as he spoke.

"After the child goes to school, our time is much richer, especially he wants to pay for the child to eat at school, our primary school and junior high school are all high-quality schools, and the canteen inside is also rated as a conscience canteen by the government, and the nutritious meals in it are very rich.

Yang Zhunxing means that if the children wait until the afternoon to come back after school, the two of us will have plenty of time, which can fully support the return from the university for the elderly, and maybe there will be a time to walk outside and drink afternoon tea.

Wait until the two nannies pick up the children, we can also accompany the children to talk and laugh, of course, the children must be going to tutoring classes, and they must also be naughty to go to the outside garden to play, whether it is to pick up or take the children to play, you can have a nanny to keep up.

After I had dinner with him, it was okay...... You can also dance, or write and draw like a cultural person, or drink kung fu tea, you can do anything anyway!

After all, I took it with him when I went to school, and I always put it to the children's grandparents and grandparents during the holidays to relieve their cravings, so that I could relax with him.

The previous nanny can follow the child, and there is an aunt at home who can clean the house, of course, we can give the aunt a vacation, so that he and I can go out to travel, domestic and foreign transfers, you can also enjoy life, and when you are about to come back, notify the aunt, let the other party clean the house, so that even if you come back tired, you can still have a hot meal, how good. ”

"Yes, how good!" Seeing how good Han Zimai was, he began to be silent, and Han Zihe couldn't help but say, "I see that my brother-in-law has arranged very well, and all the problems have been arranged properly, why didn't you listen to his advice? If you can't speak, you can let your brother-in-law tell the children! Just take advantage of your fall to let you get out of the heavy housework." What a great opportunity! Why didn't you take advantage of it!"

"I want to grasp it!" Han Zimai smiled bitterly, "However, as soon as this matter is told to the children, they are not happy, some say that the aunt will quietly abuse the child, and some say that they are afraid that the aunt will take the child away." ”

"Not only did they say, but they also showed me! Tsk, that's all kinds of routine information, and the total number of them is not clear, but the one who showed me was shocking and jumping! When I saw the end, my head was dizzy! You said, it's good if I didn't know! But after hearing about it, I didn't dare to let go of the real children. You say, if the children are fine at their in-laws' house, but when they come to us, something is wrong, you say, who can we explain to?"

"......" Han Zihe has no good way to deal with this at all.

"So, this matter is just a fool of the past. ”

"Is it true that my brother-in-law hasn't mentioned this to you since then?"

Han Zimai nodded: "Since then, he doesn't like to come back from outside in advance." ”

"Then what about you now?" Han Zihe was very curious, how could Han Zimai pick it up and put it down now.

"What else can it be for? After I got into trouble with Yang Zhunxing, except for my grandchildren and grandchildren, my son and daughter said that they were facing me, but in fact, they were just afraid that I would really get along with Yang Zhunxing, and I would not be able to get over my face. Han Zimai smiled bitterly and shook his head slowly, "I've seen it through since then, this person, you really have to think about yourself, otherwise, besides your parents, who else thinks about you all the time and feels sorry for you?"