Chapter 245: Mentor Xiang Kun
Before ending the call with Shiling's mother, Xiang Kun learned from her that they were now preparing to eat the rabbit restaurant they had eaten last time.
The main purpose of the reason why he wanted to give Liu Shiling the pair of chopsticks was to feel the "love" of the little chubby girl for food and collect her emotions when she ate through the emotional perception ability of "emotional injection" of the object.
Among the people Xiang Kun knows, if you want to select a "Best Eating Award", there is no doubt that Liu Shiling will definitely take the first place, and there is one empty gear below, and the third gear can be the turn of others.
So if you want to transform a person's emotions about food, there is no doubt that Liu Shiling is the best target.
Since sending the chopsticks to Liu Shiling, Xiang Kun has collected them several times, and although he has carried out several successful emotional transformations, he is still a little dissatisfied.
These emotions during eating should already be very strong for other people, but in Xiang Kun's view, there is a feeling of "if it is Liu Shiling, it should be more than that".
First, it may be that Liu Shiling hasn't eaten too many very delicious things recently, so the emotional intensity of the feedback is limited; secondly, Xiang Kun has a lot of things to do during this time, and he doesn't feel every meal on time, and is ready to transform at any time, so he may miss a lot of strong emotional feedback during meals.
Since they know that they are going to eat rabbit meat today, judging from the real-time induction of the last time they dined together in Star City, the emotional intensity of the feedback they received is still okay, and Xiang Kun is ready to induce and transform it.
As for the pair of chopsticks, Liu Shiling took them to the kindergarten every day to eat, and now that Shiling's mother went to the kindergarten to pick her up, the chopsticks must also be on her body.
Liu Shiling and the others wanted to eat rabbit meat, and Xiang Kun also prepared a plate of rabbit meat - anyway, there are still many ingredients in the refrigerator.
The emotions perceived by the "emotional injection" of the object need to be transformed into one's own first, so that you can truly empathize with it and be able to enter it without induction, so that you can use "emotional assimilation" to influence others or "emotional injection" into the object.
The way to transform is to find a way to simulate the behavior and state of the target in real time.
Liu Shiling is eating rabbit meat, so he also eats rabbit meat, which is the easiest to find the feeling.
Xiang Kun kept sensing the pair of chopsticks given to Liu Shiling, and continued to get different feedback.
Chubby Chick has always been a child with a lot of mental activity, very fast emotional changes, and very big ups and downs, especially when she is hungry. And being able to get such clear emotional feedback proves that she is now playing with chopsticks in her hand.
Uncomfortable, expectant, patient, expectant, uncomfortable, hungry, patient - Liu Shiling's emotions are constantly changing between several types, and Xiang Kun seems to be able to see the picture of the little chubby girl sitting on a chair in the dining room impatiently playing with chopsticks, and Shiling's mother talking about her.
Combining these emotions, it is a strong appetite before being hungry and wanting to eat delicious food, but this kind of emotion is destined to be difficult to transform and empathize with Xiang Kun.
The little chubby girl's anticipation soared, and Xiang Kun immediately realized that this was the serving.
He also picked up his chopsticks and prepared to attack the rabbit meat in front of him.
Because he was alone at home, he didn't swallow stones to suppress his vomiting, and there was a bucket next to the dining table, ready to spit it out directly after chewing.
Of course, if you are too emotionally involved and swallow it, you can just spit it on the side, even if you accidentally spit on the table, it will be fine, no one will see it anyway.
The little chubby girl's mood changed from a very high sense of anticipation to a hint of satisfaction and enjoyment, and she had obviously begun to eat.
Based on past experience, this satisfaction should continue to increase, followed by a happy mood, and if it is delicious enough, there should be various further emotional feedbacks.
Xiang Kun closed his eyes, chewed the rabbit meat in his mouth, and tasted all kinds of flavors, while sensing the emotions of the little chubby girl, and linking those tastes to emotions.
The emotion of this feedback can be regarded as a relatively strong feedback that Xiang Kun has sensed several times during meal time. Judging from Xiang Kun's cognitive model of Liu Shiling, in addition to the dishes he personally cooked, Liu Shiling should only have stronger feedback when eating chocolate ice cream and chocolate muffins. It's a pity that when eating ice cream and muffins, she can't use chopsticks, and Xiang Kun can't cook for her in the short term.
Xiang Kun chewed while sensing the emotions of the little chubby girl, and he already felt a little tongue-filling, and the transformation was very smooth.
But then, Chubby Girl's satisfaction suddenly changed, turning into disgust, and then loss.
Xiang Kun stopped chewing, a little puzzled, why did his mood change so much?
He also ate it at that restaurant last time, although it was not as good as what he made to suit Liu Shiling's taste - after all, in addition to the taste of the dishes, the store also had to consider the cost, production efficiency and other issues. But the basic level is still there, and Liu Shiling ate very happily last time.
Or did the mother and daughter order other rabbit meat to try this time, and the taste was far less than the last time?
In Xiang Kun's induction, Liu Shiling's mood is still changing, from disgust and loss, to struggle, and then to helplessness.
Xiang Kun naturally stopped chewing and spit the food residue in his mouth into the bucket.
But the induction of the pair of chopsticks did not stop, and he was a little curious about Liu Shiling's children's journey for dinner.
It seems that she has encountered something unpalatable, so next, will the little chubby girl's emotions turn into anger and dissatisfaction?
However, to Xiang Kun's surprise, after the helpless mood lasted for a long time, it gradually turned into uncomfortable.
Even if it is the same person, the uncomfortable feeling in different states is different, the discomfort of hunger, the discomfort of illness, and the discomfort of pain are all different.
Xiang Kun compared Liu Shiling's emotions based on the past perception, and probably guessed the root of her discomfort - it seems that she is overwhelmed?
So what's going on?
Although I feel that those dishes are not delicious and not very palatable, but I still eat them?
Liu Shiling's emotional ...... It's really hard to understand than adults!
After "dinner" at home, Xiang Kun went out to take a taxi and went to a café next to a university to meet Yang Zhuo.
Last month, we met by chance in a suit custom store, and after eating and drinking together in the evening, Yang Zhuo began to practice according to Xiang Kun's "guidance", and constantly asked for advice on WeChat and communicated with Xiang Kun.
Xiang Kun also constantly based on his description and feedback on the results of the exercises, to improve the observation and reasoning training model established for him, and then guide him in turn.
In the process of this exchange, Xiang Kun also found out that Yang Zhuo is a student majoring in journalism and communication, and he has been cutting and playing on the Internet since middle school.
After going to college, he also made a film and television review program with his girlfriend at station B, he cut films, wrote scripts, and his girlfriend gave his voice, because it has only been a few months now, so there are not many fans, but the number of broadcasts in each issue is steadily increasing, and I have also filmed a few episodes of very conscious VLOG, which also has a lot of praise.
Xiang Kun watched the video they made, and the copywriting was really good, and the copywriting was also good, so he came up with an idea to help You Meng and his wife make the video of "You Long Playing Rabbit" and other related publicity in his spare time. It just so happened that it was winter vacation next, and I was going to invite him to Copperstone Town to play.
Of course, it is not that Xiang Kun wants to save money and use free labor, on the contrary, it is precisely because Tang Baona has helped too much, and he is even too busy to even have time to do her own videos, and Tang Baona will definitely not ask for his remuneration, so he wants to find a trustworthy and capable helper.
If Yang Zhuo gave him a part-time salary, he naturally wouldn't want it. And with his admiration for Xiang Kun, when Xiang Kun wants to express some ideas and ideas, he will also be more willing to take the initiative to understand and implement.
Therefore, in the communication with Yang Zhuo, Xiang Kun paid more attention to improving his image in his mind, and also helped him formulate various training plans in detail, so that his training could be effective quickly and have strong positive feedback.
Meet in the café today, first, Yang Zhuo wants to report his training results to Xiang Kun during this time, and second, Xiang Kun wants to talk to him roughly about the shooting ideas of the next few videos of "Dragon and Phoenix", as well as talk about related operation ideas.
When Xiang Kun arrived at the café, Yang Zhuo and his girlfriend Xiao Min had been waiting for a while—not that he was late, but that the young couple had nothing to do after dinner, and they had already arrived early to wait.
"Brother Xiang!" After seeing Xiang Kun, Yang Zhuo and his girlfriend Xiao Min immediately got up and greeted each other with a smile on their faces.
It can be seen that these two young people do worship and respect Xiang Kun very much, and they really regard him as an idol and mentor.
Xiang Kun made a gesture for them to sit down without standing up.
"Brother Xiang, I ordered you a cup of American, I remember you drank this the night before. Yang Zhuo said.
Xiang Kun nodded and thanked him, and then complimented: "It seems that your observation skills were good before." After picking up the coffee cup and taking a sip, he asked directly, "How many people are sitting behind you, and how many men and women are there?"
Neither of them was surprised by this somewhat abrupt question, and the two of them had been playing this kind of game regularly during this time.
"There were six people, four women and two men. Yang Zhuo said immediately.
Xiao Min thought for a moment and added, "Two men are wearing glasses, and one of the four women is wearing a skirt. ”
Xiang Kun nodded: "You can determine for yourselves." ”
So the two looked back, and after making sure that they were not wrong, they looked at each other happily and high-fived each other in celebration.
"It's your turn. Xiang Kun said.
Yang Zhuo asked in a low voice, "Is it okay to ask anything? If the question is too difficult, Brother Xiang, you won't beat me, right?"
"Don't worry. Xiang Kun said affirmatively.
So Yang Zhuo and Xiao Min discussed a few words in a whisper, and then asked, "There is a restaurant next door to this coffee shop, what is the name?"
"Xiaoxiang beauty. Xiang Kun replied quickly.
"What's the phone number on their sign?" Yang asked again.
Xiang Kun quickly reported a string of numbers again.
Yang Zhuo and Xiao Min tilted their heads in amazement, looking at the billboard of the hotel protruding from the street through the floor-to-ceiling window, and the phone number under the words "Xiaoxiang Beauty" on it was exactly the same as the number reported by Xiang Kun.
"Brother Xiang, before you entered, you actually went to remember the name of the signboard and the number on it of the hotel next door?" Yang Zhuo asked in disbelief.
"I don't remember. Xiang Kun pointed to the floor-to-ceiling window next to him and said, "I saw it through the reflection." "The floor-to-ceiling windows at night have a certain mirror function to some extent, but they didn't notice the location of Yang Zhuo and Xiao Min just now.
Yang Zhuo and his girlfriend glanced at each other speechlessly, and said, "Then this question doesn't count, change the question!" Brother Xiang, when you just entered the door of the coffee shop, did you notice that there was a billboard standing at the entrance? It wrote the activities that the store was doing, and the deadline. ”
Xiang Kun said: "The activity is to charge 500 to get 300, charge 1000 to get 700, and the deadline is January 15. ”
Yang Zhuo's eyes widened, and he said in surprise: "Brother Xiang, Niu, you can remember this! I remember that when you entered the store, you didn't stop at all!"
At this time, the waitress of the coffee shop came over with the snacks they ordered, and after she left, Yang Zhuo asked again: "Brother Xiang, what is the number on the chest of the girl who just delivered something to us?"
"No. 005. Xiang Kun still said immediately.
"I'm convinced!" Yang Zhuo shook his head in amazement, he had just carefully observed left and right, there was no reflection here, so that Xiang Kun could see the active billboard at the entrance. And when the waitress brought something, Xiang Kun didn't seem to look up.
Xiao Min asked curiously, "Brother Xiang, do you observe all the details every time you go to a place?
Xiang Kun said: "Of course not, but I know that I will play this game with you when I come over today." From our chats on WeChat in the past few days, we can know that Yang Zhuo's favorite thing to pay attention to is the symbols that exist in various realities, such as numbers, words, etc., and thinks that memorizing these is the most difficult. So I predicted that if he asked a question, it would be in a similar direction, and I consciously memorized these symbols when I entered the coffee shop. ”
Xiao Min looked at her boyfriend and exclaimed, "It's true, you seem to have a special preference for physical symbols, and you like to ask similar questions every time." ”
Yang Zhuo recalled for a while, as if he really said this to Kun.
Xiang Kun continued: "This is what I told you before, observation is only a means, it serves an end. People's attention span is limited, so different purposes have different observation focuses, and we must learn to be flexible and not set in stone. Sometimes the purpose of our observation is to observe people, sometimes the purpose of observing people is to observe things, and sometimes the purpose of observing objects and people is to observe a certain event, and different purposes have different directions. ”
"I understand, just like you told me before, to see Xiaomin's mood, not necessarily all by her expression, tone, and movements, but also from her next day's clothing, dress, makeup. Yang Zhuo said as if he had realized.
Xiao Min was also thoughtful.
Xiang Kun picked up the coffee cup and continued to symbolically "sip" it, with an expression of "give you some time to think".
In fact, whether it is the signboard next to the café, the telephone, the content of the billboard at the entrance of the café, or the badge number of the waiter, he remembers it directly without discrimination. Even the information he "recorded" has a large number of smells and sounds that Yang Zhuo and Xiao Min cannot perceive, as well as feedback information derived from various cognitive models, etc.
But he knows that if you want to teach Yang Zhuo, you can't use him as a model to teach, and the observation and reasoning training model established for Yang Zhuo is based on the ability of ordinary people, so all kinds of ways must be explained in a way that they can understand and do.
Some of the exercises he is now asking them to do are simple and may not have much practical effect, but they can give them enough positive feedback to continue with more difficult and systematic training.
Yang Zhuo and Xiao Min reported their various observations and analyses during this period of time, and then analyzed and explained to Kun to them, and recommended books for them to study, and the time passed quickly.
These two college students, communicating with Xiang Kun, were much more serious than in class, and they were engrossed, for fear of missing a sentence.