People get along with each other, if you want to completely cross the boundary is impossible, it should not be said that it is impossible, but it is basically impossible, there is also the possibility of crossing, but the probability is very small, the first sentence, I should not say this thing so absolutely, in fact, it should be said mildly, but I found that the truth is the case, there are cases that can cross the boundaries of identity and status, but rarely, maybe I am rare and strange, just self-awareness.

These realizations are what I started with my students and my teachers recently, and this realization makes me feel deeply, especially when I meet teachers, they were my teachers before, and they are still now, although I am already an adult, but the former teacher dare not forget, when we meet again, no matter how enthusiastic we are, but after all, students are students, teachers are teachers, we will still get along with each other very lovingly, and talk with great respect.

And the students I taught at the beginning, we have met several times, they are also respectful in front of me, sometimes I also find their nervousness and embarrassment, they have some can't let go, there are some constraints, although they have grown into adults, but this scene makes me think a lot, there are also a lot of students because of the society, there are a lot of new understandings and views to share with me, their enthusiasm makes me very moved, but I will still deeply understand that the status is different, the difference is really a lot。

In fact, these differences in status, I think the teacher is the teacher, we will still respect our teacher very much, just like my students respect me, after empathy, only to know that the feelings between people are related to the status, although sometimes, I also try to deliberately close the relationship with others, but there will still be because of the difference in status, and there is an indescribable feeling, there will still be some distance, I think, want to have no distance contact with others, maybe it is not easy, there will still be a distance between people, although you have been trying to get close to each other, but for a long time, it will be obvious that the relationship between us will be affected because of our different status.

That's it, sometimes, we always don't accept fate, there are always people we want to be close to, but when you try a lot of ways to get close to each other, but still can't do what you want, I think the distance between you and others may be innate, maybe it can really only be like this, a person can be close enough to you, they don't need you to do it deliberately, and it is not something you can do with deliberate efforts, not only for groups like teachers and students, but also for friends, for those superiors and subordinates？

Of course, there is also a difference in status, although a long time has passed, although you have been much more mature than when you first met, and you have a stronger ability, and you have a higher place, but the kind of relationship you used to know will really have the deepest impact on your relationship, such an impact is unforgettable, such an impact is unforgettable, this is some of my feelings in my recent life, but also some recent experiences, profound, simple.