I heard a classmate say that he went to a party some time ago, many of the people in it were friends in the past, and he hadn't been in contact with these friends for a long time, the reason why he went to participate was to show his respect for the people who invited him, and he was not so arrogant, but the people who went to the party were his previous subordinates, he was their boss, on the other hand, he wanted to know how everyone was mixed, and they hadn't seen each other for several years, One of the colleagues said something unpleasant, the colleague said, you must be too bored at home, so you will come to participate in the event, he is also aware of the reason why this is the case, out of respect for the person who invited him, but because of this sentence, he wants to next time, these unnecessary socialization, or not to go, the reason is also two reasons, on the one hand, since everyone is not together, it is common for people to go to tea and cool, and it is also a colleague who has not seen each other for several years, and everyone does not feel anything when they get together, not to mention that after a few years, who still remembers whom, this is purely useless socializing, everyone should still take care of their current life, and after they go, they can't be mentioned by being humiliated by others.

Secondly, because when he went, he was the same as others, and he donated money without any special interest, and because he was afraid of face, he actually donated twice as much money as others, which is nothing, but when he went, he felt that he just went with a special mood, and when he came back, he also came back with a special mood, which is really strange.

Sometimes, only after you have experienced something, you have a real feeling, you will know whether you like such a thing or not, whether you will participate again, he originally thought that he was a bad person, to give others a good impression, but it is such a result, things are two-sided, especially this matter, although he thinks so, but it cannot be ruled out what others will think of him, what others think, and when he does this, he should not care about what others think, how to say, but later when he really participated, he found that he cared about other people's opinions as much as othersAt this time, he thought that in fact, there is a difference in status, between people, what should be what kind of way to deal with the right way, although there is no unified approach, but everyone is dealt with like this, there is always their reason, at this time, he has a little experience, feel that such a Fa will be said by others, for the idea he just started, he wants to go or not to go, so it is safer, when he participated in this meeting, he has such a feeling, next time, I think he will not go, he is also in his heart countless times, next time, or not go, he also told himself that I could have avoided this, but at this time, it was already very late, and I had already participated, and I would not go again next time.