It seems that the expectation is shattered and the blow is too great, and the aunt sits in a daze, as if the whole person has lost her soul.

Su Mo enjoyed a rare leisurely time - it felt good that no one was nagging around.

It's a pity that the leisurely time is always short-lived, and after a train stop, the upper bunk of the sleeper room where Su Mo is located ushered in a father and son.

The father looked like he was in his thirties, and the child was less than twelve years old.

The aunt has a new goal and begins to pester people to chatter about her parenting scriptures. Obviously, people are already very impatient, and they still think that they have more experience and how well they speak.

But this father is obviously a very recuperated man, and even if he is already impatient on the inside, he still maintains a smile on his face.

But a boy of this age is at a naughty age, where can he stand this? Rao has developed a little calmness under his father's ears and eyes, and he can't stand it at all, so he jumped down and ran out.

The aunt frowned: "I said brother, boys can't go like this, it's too naughty and will cause trouble in the future!"

Now the man couldn't hold back any longer, the smile on his face disappeared, and he said in a deep voice: "How to raise a child, I don't need you to teach me! I let you because respecting the old and loving the young is a traditional virtue, and I am not afraid of you." ”

It was still very deterrent for a big man with a height of nearly 1.8 meters to say this, and the aunt was suddenly frightened and didn't dare to say anything.

I have to say that the man's behavior made Su Mo feel very good about him, and he also stretched out his hand to take the initiative to recognize: "Hello, my name is Su Mo, and I am a student who has just been admitted to Beijing University. ”

Kyoto University!

The man was startled.

That's the Kyoto University he'd never dreamed of going in! Hey, it would be nice if my own monkey could be admitted to Beijing University...

Thinking of this, the man's eyes darkened slightly, but he still stretched out his hand, shook it symbolically, and introduced himself.

It turned out that the man was a teacher in a middle school, and the child was a music student, who had just entered junior high school, and this time he also went to the capital to find a better teacher for the child.

This made Su Mo a little surprised, but for the sake of the child, he did not hesitate to travel and take the child thousands of miles to study, which still made Su Mo awe: "You are a good father." ”

It is the duty of parents to raise their children, and it is because of love that they can seek far-reaching goals for their children. Su Mo has always respected such great parents.

The man waved his hand: "Don't dare to be, it's not a good father, isn't it what parents should do to pay for their children?

As he spoke, the man seemed to have discovered something, and then said, "By the way, little girl, what about your parents?

I was a little puzzled, and suddenly I felt that the girl in front of me seemed to be a little familiar, as if she had seen it somewhere.

The aunt, who had stopped for a long time, also threw a curious look at Su Mo.

Su Mo opened his mouth and said: "I can't be empty, so I didn't let my family send it, they are all adults, and it's the same if I go by myself." ”

Li Qin was busy taking care of Li Qiao, and Su Qiang was in prison, wasn't he all available? She was not wrong at all when she said this, there was nothing to hide.

The aunt gloated.

However, the man was a little angry: "How can there be such an incompetent parent? If this were me, the child would be admitted to Beijing University, and I would send it even if I don't want a job!"

This is true, but it is a bit exaggerated, and it is undoubtedly very stupid to not even want to work hard for many years in order to send children to school.

But the aunt echoed with a look of approval: "That is, parents are to pay for their children, and parents who are even absent from their children's first college years are really incompetent!

He looked at Su Mo with a look of a person who came over again: "If you really want to, it will only take three or five days to send you to school in the capital, how can you not ask for leave?

I have to say that you have to get something out of your parents' hands as soon as possible, or they will have to bring them all into the coffin. ”

The misunderstanding was resolved, and she didn't treat Su Mo as a bodhisattva at this time, and there was a third person here, so she was naturally less afraid.

And this is said as if you don't dedicate everything to your children, you don't deserve to be parents.

Su Mo didn't know if this aunt was as she said, but she didn't agree with the aunt's statement or ideology.

Whether it is a parent or a child, they are all independent individuals, and no one is a vassal of the other, and naturally there is no reason why one must dedicate everything to the other.

And the appropriate contribution of parents to their children is love, if it is excessive, it is doting, and it is not good to say a little bit about the growth of children, it is harmful and not beneficial.

"You're being biased. Su Mo said lightly, "When the child is young, it is right for parents to take care of the child, but it is not necessary to exhaust all this statement." When the child is older, he can naturally support himself, and at this time, parents who have the ability to help their children are not their obligation.

Even speaking, when children become adults, they should not only support themselves, but also learn to reduce the burden on the family, which is the correct value. ”

She doesn't care how the two of them will feel when they hear this, if she doesn't like it, it's not pleasing to the eye, but she won't make herself feel aggrieved and unhappy because of others.

When the aunt heard this, her face suddenly drooped and she was full of unhappiness.

However, the man who was a teacher by profession was unexpectedly not so pedantic, and he agreed with Su Mo's words, and even nodded incessantly, as if to say: Yes, that's it!

Su Mo's evaluation of men is even higher, and naturally, the boy's seemingly rude behavior just now is very worthless in her eyes at this moment.

In fact, she doesn't know that a man's education of children is a bit similar to doing nothing, as long as the general direction of the child's growth (being a useful person to society) is correct, he will go with the flow.

Because as a teacher, men have a deep understanding of children's psychology, and men themselves also advocate the concept of "free-range".

In his view, parents and children are friends, and what parents need to do is not to plan everything for their children, but to educate or guide their children when they make mistakes or need them, and to help their children grow up on their own chosen path to the greatest extent.

"She is worthy of being a talented woman who can be admitted to Beijing University, and her views on education can be described as hitting the nail on the head!"

Men make no secret of their appreciation.

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