When others encounter problems, you try your best to help, this is my opinion, because if you don't help, people can still get by, but they think of other ways.

There is nothing in the world that cannot be overcome, even if it is difficult, people will get through it, and it will be spent safely, and it will not be good, you don't help others, in fact, it is just a narrow-mindedness for yourself, not a wise move.

Because this matter may become a knot between you, it will hinder the relationship between you, when you encounter something, people will not help you, people live in this world, who has not encountered difficulties?

But some people can't think of this, don't understand, or blindly selfish and reject others, such as borrowing money between classmates.

I met a classmate before, she didn't know what to think, because she didn't lend money to her classmates, the relationship between them was estranged, and the kind of good they had before, which many people couldn't match, they were the best classmates, but they became strangers because of money, and they didn't even contact each other for many years, they didn't know each other's contact information, they knew each other's current location deeply, and it was just the other party's current situation, they all knew it well, but because of this incident, they were estranged from then on, and there was no moment to meet again, sometimes I think about it, they should be as good as before, but is it possible？

Later, I also found out that they can't be as good as before, but they don't want to be as good as before, the classmate who didn't borrow money, people encountered difficulties at that time, but the classmate didn't lend money to others, and now they are also in the mix, and they have a lot of savings, but in this matter, why can't they get by?

Why did this become a hurdle between them, and the classmate who didn't lend money to others, maybe she thought they weren't together, maybe it was some other ideas, so she didn't borrow, and then gradually after being snubbed by the other party, she didn't want to take the initiative to reconcile, so that's it between them, I think, if no one takes the initiative to contact each other, it is estimated that they will never get along with each other in this life.

In this way, I lost a friend, and the feelings between classmates should really be cherished, because no one knows when they will encounter difficulties and need each other's help, and no one knows when they will encounter some difficulties that make them embarrassed, but some people think that they are not together, they don't want to care so much, and they don't want to be as close as before, everyone has their own friends, their own lives, but when there is not much, you can borrow less, within the range of what you can bear, even if they don't pay it back, it won't affect the number of your life, I think, this is still a good idea, it's much better than rejecting someone.

Although you will feel bad, those who can open their mouths to borrow money from you will definitely think that they can come to you, they can borrow money, and when there is no result in the end, they will also feel disappointed, even hopeless.

This kind of thing will be in their memory, in their hearts, people are like this, you are good to others 9 times, but only once you are not good to others, people will only remember this time is not good, but will not remember the previous 9 times good, this is human beings, although it is very cruel, but it is very realistic.