When I was talking to someone in college, I didn't care about it at first because I was young, and then I missed it because I was older.

This is my thought at one moment, when I was in college, we always felt that some people were like this, some people were like that, and we always felt that people's parents were not good, maybe it was, because our requirements were too high, so we always felt that other people's looks did not meet our requirements, but in fact?

When I really walked out of the campus and into society, I found that appearance was not the most important thing, the most important thing was character, or other abilities.

But when I was young, there will always be times when my thoughts are not comprehensive, which is inevitable, maybe, I will feel regretful because of some things at the time, because there is no contact at all to deny a person, what is this, because there is no time, because I don't want to, because of the task of studying, this is not the most important, when I was in college, everyone is 20 years old, we are already adults, and we still have our own opinions and feelings about some people, as for ignoring it, it is because we don't like it, or even don't like it very much, if we really like it, then we should have been together a long time ago, and we should have talked about the object a long time ago。

With the passage of time, at the beginning, when I heard others say that when I was young, I didn't have a good relationship with each other, so I couldn't find a suitable partner in my 30s, I always thought that they were looking for reasons and excuses, because why didn't you talk about it, why are you still single, it's not that others look down on you, so it's like a sieve elimination, this is my opinion, I always think that leftover men and leftover women are selected by others to be leftover, but then I learned that when some people don't know how to grasp the opportunity again and again, is it stupid？

Or is it because of what, after so many years, is there really no one you like? I really want to ask this question, do you have a favorite person, and after that?

I realized that many of them are people they like, but they are not so proactive, so they missed it.

Why didn't you take the initiative, saying that other reasons are equivalent to farting, I think, the most important reason is because you are not so accustomed to others, if you really like it enough, I think they will still get along well, or they can't help but be good to each other, or they can't help but take the initiative, this can't be concealed, but I also wonder very much, so many years have passed, they are already in their 30s, have you not met a person you like?

No, it's not, I think everyone will meet people in their lives who make their hearts, but these people don't like them or can't marry them, can't be with them, so there will be these results later, that is, these people can't let go from their hearts, what about after that?

is in the process of getting along with others, ignoring them, and missing one after another, because their hearts have already given to others, and these others can't give them the life they want, so after that, no matter how many times they meet, they will gradually ignore each other, and then miss again and again, which is the reason.

This is also my opinion on this issue, although it is not profound, but it is my own opinion.