After graduating from college, the birthday slowly became forgotten, for life, every day is a very busy day, including birthdays, in fact, there is nothing, and at this time the students are gradually having their own lives, some are also the ends of the earth gradually become strange, feel the minds of these faces gradually become blurred, for a long time, I really can't remember a few people's birthdays, just in some moments can recall the good past, these unforgettable memories, nothing else, and sometimes, we gradually forget other people's birthdays, we used to care about the mostMaybe there is really a moment, when someone's birthday suddenly rings, it will also send a blessing text message, and sometimes, even if it is thought of, I still don't know the contact information of the other party, some mobile phones have changed the number, when I called my best friend one day, I also found that it was an unfamiliar voice, an unfamiliar tone, or I don't know who I was looking for, those beautiful things in the past, are just for their own memories after dinner, Just like the Tang Wulin on a novel I recently read "The Legend of the Dragon King", when he first started, his parents were gone, and Na'er was also gone, and then he found that his classmates left one by one, although he also had a thousand kinds of reluctance, but others have their own things to do, have their own lives, although we care about others very much, but the moment of parting, there are still a lot, at such a moment, what can we do?

There is no other way to adjust your emotions and face your future life. And at some point after that, maybe it's my birthday, suddenly a friend sent me a message to tell me, I wish you a happy birthday, I will still be very happy to say, how do you remember my birthday, there is no sense of blame, just surprised, maybe friends will also be surprised by my surprise, but this is only the person I care about the most, and we will still be grateful for such a memory, very grateful to each other.

Most people don't remember your birthday, even if they do, they don't bother to send a message like this, they haven't been in touch for a long time, and a blessing message comes out coldly on their birthday, although it can make the other party happy for a long time, but it's also very presumptuous.

So when the real classmate relationship fades, the barrier of distant distance will make us feel an inexplicable sentimentality, but when you meet a colleague, how many people can remember your birthday?

So the longer it takes to graduate from college, the only time you have to celebrate your birthday together as a family, and sometimes if you meet a husband who is not very romantic, it will be even more lonely, but this is not a thing, as long as you get used to it, all the feelings are just in your own heart, although it is cold, it is just a feeling of your own, and this day is the same as usual, just a simple 24 hours, and it will pass soon.

When I woke up the next day, it was a new day and I was facing new challenges. But after that, I bought a lot of insurance, at that time, I also found that on my birthday, every year on this day, I will receive a blessing text message from the insurance company, this text message is very normal, maybe everyone has a birthday, all those who have bought other people's products, it is not strange, but it will still give people a kind of warmth, at least on the birthday, someone is blessed, is it really someone who remembers our birthday?

Maybe it's automatically sent by the system? As long as the day of the birthday is set, it will automatically send a message to us, that is, people care about you, it's just that the robot is giving you blessings, and we will often be deceived by such self-deception, but after being deceived by such self-deception, the heart is still very happy.

It turns out that wanting to make yourself happy is so simple, just a reason to comfort yourself is enough.

But when those insurance products have expired, take out their cash, and there will be no more, and such a blessed journey will be successfully completed, and everything will fall silent again.

Later, there were credit cards one after another, or there was more than one, I also have several, this is good, when the birthday comes, it will be lively, the mobile phone will ring for a while, a look is a blessing text message, what China Merchants Bank, what Construction Bank, what Agricultural Bank, what commercial bank, etc., etc., all send warmth to themselves, so that some mobile phones can boil all day, and their hearts are boiling all day, if it weren't for them remembering my birthday, I really forgot, that day would be my birthday？

But now it's okay, there are so many blessing text messages, do you still feel lonely? No, will you still feel bored?

No, I'm very happy. There are also credit cards that have a lot of preferential activities, on the birthday, really happy, but also in such a situation, I also found that when there are fewer and fewer people around me who care, when the people around me don't remember the things and days, there will still be some people to send us warm and kind reminders, what about my birthday today?

Or I guess I've forgotten about it. Once, when I was on my birthday, it was a few years ago, and when I was on my birthday, I forgot it, so I passed it unconsciously, and when I found out later, it had been a few days, but I was so ignorant, and now I won't, I already know such a birthday, and I must not forget it.

No matter what life looks like, we are still the original us, no matter how much others care about us, we still insist on what we want to do as always, no matter what we will look like in the eyes of others, maybe we are already passerby A or passerby B, or passerby C, we are still trying to live and rush forward!

Therefore, birthday is the happiness you give yourself, and it is the holy place you give yourself, in addition to being grateful to your parents, you will still be grateful for your heart that has been working hard, and you will be grateful for the attitude that you have been working hard!

At this time, I was also deeply enveloped by an inexplicable emotion, and I remembered the happy birthday song in my ears again........... A song for yourself.