In the past, I attached great importance to my birthday, maybe most people are the same as me, everyone cares most about their birthday, in fact, on that day, we always have a special mood to spend such a day, at the beginning, we are not very understanding of the truth, what's more, when the birthday, the feast, very luxurious birthday, like a wedding or a celebration banquet, in fact, although I haven't been like this, because of some other factors, so everything is simple, but it will still be on the birthdayWhen we were young, before the age of twelve, we were so grand, although there was no big feast, but also to buy some pork or something, and some delicious, fun, just like that, the family was happy together, in the hearts of today's children, this is a day of cheering, friends or classmates on their birthdays, they look very grand, they feel that they invite themselves, they must go, this is the idea of many people, but also on the day of the birthday, generally even if there is something unhappyI also saw some children, at a very young age, when their classmates had birthdays, because they didn't have a lot of pocket money, just like that, a little bit of a person took out, a few children's money together, it was enough to go out for a good meal, and some of them drank beer or something like adults, it was really a very rich life, they were also experiencing the hedonistic life of adults, but no one cared about it outside, but they were just a child, sometimes drinking beer or something, it was still very dangerousAfter some adults drink beer, it will still be very dangerous?

Falling or something is a common thing, not to mention these children, no matter what, you still have to pay attention to your own safety.

And the birthday day, is also a common way for people to contact feelings, many people feel that the birthday is important, so give some gifts to their good friends, on the birthday day, but my birthday has always been very cold, so I am also used to such a desertion, when I was a child, it was my family to spend with me, and when I was in high school, I studied outside, and I didn't have time to go, and I saw the carnival of the birthday of those people around me, I was also sincerely envious, but there was no such scene and atmosphere, but it was also because of the pressure of studying, everything was just like that, I didn't say anything, and I waited for the time to go to college,Our carnival has reached the extreme,Several of us in the same dormitory have birthdays in a month,This may be the favor of God,So we celebrate birthdays together,Get together,You can order food or something,Improve your life,But at this time,I also talked about feelings,So the birthday with them is a birthday,And when my boyfriend comes,He will still celebrate my birthday again,That kind of happiness is really wonderful,There is only one birthday every year,And I seem to have two birthdays every year,There is also a different kind of happiness。

Sometimes I think about it, my happiness belongs to myself, and other people's things have always belonged to others, no matter how envious you are, or someone else's, I remember when I was in high school, a friend of mine, her birthday was lively, but this is different from most of us, people have such good interpersonal relationships, but we don't, just such a simple life, envy her?

To be honest, I am really envious, but when I celebrate my birthday, I will still be lonely day by day, so I can only accept reality like this, while immersing myself in envy of others' happiness, while enjoying the boundless coldness.

People, or when they are in love, will get enough enthusiasm and attention, but all this is very short-lived, who can always fall in love like this without getting married, there are indeed such people, but many men and women are in a short period of love, they enter the palace of marriage, and then there is nothing, and the previous coldness is restored.

There are also some people who are very romantic, but they are also a minority of the majority of people, and many of those people are also unusually plain after marriage, no need to deliberately pursue, because the deliberate pursuit is still not available, what kind of life you choose, what kind of life will be, it is related to your own choice, but still accept the arrangement of life.

But everything, in college, a Mandarin class, changed a lot of my views, in the past, we never realized such a problem, on the birthday, always the family will call themselves, tell me, you buy some delicious food, etc., that's all, and I only on my mother's birthday, or Mother's Day, call my family back, express my blessings, but the teacher said, on the birthday day, many people are only concerned about their own carnival, and forget that this day is the day of mother's martyrdom, when we hear this, listen to his fresh viewsIn fact, his point of view is not very advanced, but in our opinion at the time, it was the first time I heard about it, so in this class, we all listened very seriously, and it was also such a lesson, which became the most vivid lesson in our hearts, and it was also the most shocking lesson, since then, on my birthday, no matter how cold my birthday is, I will also call my mother, although I don't say it so directly, but it is also fully expressed my gratitude and respect.

So I spend my birthday like this every year, whether it is cold or lively, it has slowly become a habit.

Anyway, it's the same, it's not as important as before, I always feel that I've grown up, and I can't have the same birthday, but I also slowly began to pay attention to my mother's birthday, because this can make her happier, on her birthday, give her a gift she likes, it's a good choice, and sometimes, it's also a family to have a meal together, get together, and for a better life.