The little nephew is sensible
That night, I went to play mahjong with my younger brothers, my little nephew also used to play, every time it was like this, when we went to play mahjong, for fear that she would lose, after all, it was a child, so every time I took her to play, we were playing mahjong, she was watching TV, the weather was not good this day, it was a rainy day, I just went like this, just took a shower, wore pajamas, very thin look, legs were bare, she took a small mattress, and when I walked, I began to sit down, I think she took this little mattress because she wanted to sit on it soft, comfortable, but she said, this is for you, I was stunnedThere is an indescribable excitement in my heart, is this really just the words of a six-year-old child?
She also said that she was afraid that I was cold, and if I took a small mattress, I could cover my legs, which was not so cold, and I also found that she was a lot more sensible at this time, and she was so sensible in an instant, it was not like this before, she has been following me since I was a child, and I have to eat snacks every time, or choose snacks by myself, what she doesn't like to eat, she won't want it, among her peers, she is very picky, many of her peers don't eat snacks much, and there are snacks to eat, but there is no such thing as her, and it takes a long time to choose what she wants when she goes to the store, and in the past, every time I hit her, She's also disobedient, because I also think she's still young, even if you educate her or something, she doesn't understand it, and she doesn't really implement it, so it's been like this haha, I don't get serious, I remember one time, I was at our house with her, she was drinking milk, or the yogurt I ordered, I said, let me taste your milk, she didn't seem to agree, didn't make a sound, and when I went to say it again, I said, you are not willing to do this, she was also angry, I didn't mess with her, but she just dropped the milk, said, drink it, my God, at that time, our whole family was watching such a scene, said to be used to this little child, we are also very worried, because every time my mother and I criticize her, or when I hit her, although sometimes I don't hurt her, but she is like this, you hit her, she will beat you, she won't say that you are her elder or something, so I really don't know how to educate such a child, how to keep going like this?
But then there were a few times, when her homework was not finished, or when she was in class, when she was not serious about studying, I went home to criticize her, and it was also after these few times that I also felt that she had slowly begun to grow up and had to be serious.
I'm also deeply worried about such a problem, but when it was really implemented like this for a while, she slowly changed, and it was different from before, and she became less playful, which was really a big change, and it was not the same as before, but sometimes she still lied, and there were some shortcomings, the time her father came back, I said that you are the father of the child, and always don't care about the child's learning, and I, the aunt, have done more than you, so he dictated the child that night, who knows, how naughty this child isοΌ
She had already written the new words, and when her father dictated, she just made a gesture on her pencil, and the pencil was shaking like this, like a writing posture, in fact, she was cheating, she had already written, just like that, was this a crooked idea that she came up with as a six-year-old child?
We've been wondering if someone taught her like this. Is her partner like this or what, only to find out later that she is so deceived by her father, her father is very angry, and then educated her, from this incident, I also found that she is better than before, and when I know about this matter, I also said, we work hard to make money, mom and dad work hard to make money, and grandma every time you do it, do laundry, do housework to take care of you, and aunt, has been giving you guidance on homework, why do you lie to us like this, when you say it, she is also crying like this, because we really hope that she can be an honest child like this, so we are also usual,Don't deceive her,It's always been what she says.,That's it.,A few times later,I didn't expect that this day.,She really started to do housework.,Care about others.,I don't use the little mattress she gave me.,Because I don't feel cold.,But her words and heart make my heart warm.,After waiting for a while.,I said if you're cold, cover it yourself.,She took the initiative to cover the little mattress.,Such a person,Or has been watching the cartoons she likes to watch.γ
The next time, there were guests in our house, we were all busy with our own things, my brother was cooking, and my mother was busy with some other things, I didn't know what she was doing in the kitchen, and when I went to see it again, she had already put all the rice in the bowl, what a sensible little girl, what a little girl, what a little girl, all of a sudden, there was such a big change, compared with before, a lot of progress, although she only did a little simple thing, but she was only 6 years old, according to her age, she did a good job, knowing that caring for adults, caring for those of us who have been taking care of her, doing something for us, sometimes, or take the initiative to wash, wipe the table, etc., and do what you can.
She was also a lot more sensible when she came to my house that time, and we watched her make a mess of the sofa, and waited for her husband to say to her, do you look like a bandit entered the house?
She's giggling, like, ah, she keeps answering like this, but when she goes to sleep, she's already tidy up and clean, I said what's going on, I don't believe she did it all at once, but I can't believe it, no one comes, my husband didn't do it, I didn't do it, I'm doing my own thing, and she's the only one in that place on the sofa, I said you tidy it up so neatly?
She said, yes, I did it. Instantly I praised her and said, you are awesome, although you are only a 6-year-old child, but you are really more sensible than before, when you encounter something, when we educate or criticize her, she also knows that she is wrong, and no longer wants to be so unreasonable as before, I don't know who is big and who is small and we are fighting, and we are fighting anymore, this is really a big change.
I realized that growing up as a child can be a big change, at any time when you work hard enough.