Do you really do what you ask of others? (2)
Some time ago, because we were always eating in the office, there was an occasional moment when this person was late for dinner and put the bowl in the corner of the office.
Although it is placed in an inconspicuous corner, but it is also very unsightly, this is the office, although the leader never said about it, but when I went to see, it was already a dozen of them, all of them were in the school cafeteria, we never had to bring tableware when we ate, this is very convenient, because everyone uses the school tableware together, but every time some people eat they chat, and there are other things, and when they really think about it, it has been several days later, and everyone has put the dishes and chopsticks here, it has always been like this, and no one has sent it, for a long time, No one knows whose it is, and when I went to deliver it, I also found that I actually took a lot of them at once, and in these dishes and chopsticks, there are many of them before?
It's just that it's been put here, and there is a thin layer of dust in the bowl, although this is a very simple thing, just like pouring rice, I am also every time I educate the little nephew to say, you have to learn to eat, you like to eat more, you don't like to eat less, but the food that has been served in your bowl must be eaten, today at noon I still keep talking about her, I want her to do a good job, but when I reflect on myself, I am already an adult, I understand this truth, needless to say that it is me, many parents also understand this truthAt such a moment, I also deeply feel that in fact, teaching children to eat is a very important thing, and it is still good in other aspects in the little nephew, but when eating, it is always impossible to finish eating, is she eating too much?
I don't think so, because in her own home, she always says that she can't finish eating or something, but when I saw her at school that time, she told me that her meals can't be eaten, so at the end of the day, she is still eating slowly, and I just waited for her next to her, she just took the bowl and went to the waste water bucket, but when she went, it was still the same as usual, there was a teacher here to watch, she didn't dare, then forget it, she ate next to the waste water bucket like others, I looked, these children, my little nephew is just one of them, and these people in my opinion, it is also very unrulyBecause when you can't finish your meal, you can tell the school life teacher in advance, but they don't, are they afraid that the teacher won't dare to say?
I don't think so, and if so, then why don't they finish their meals because they're afraid of their teachers?
Isn't that obvious? But they didn't finish eating, the same bad problems as us, I myself am like this, I am also deeply blamed for my own wrong practices, in fact, I hate simple truths, but it is not so easy to do, I am also like this, every time I tell myself, I must finish my meal, but there will still be times when I can't finish eating, the little nephew is the same, every time it's like this, I've said it many times, in some things, she can do this, but sometimes she really can't finish eating, mother and brother will also tell her, you really can't finish itγ
After that, it was still like this, and it didn't improve at all. It is also very necessary for children to learn to eat, and when some children eat, it is like planting flowers, and the table is full of them, and I don't know how to eat, but they always fall on the table, and they also drop a lot of them, which makes us really sad, because if you clean up, such a table full of food, it is not convenient to clean it at all.
At other times, I have also found that there are some similar problems, but we are not gods, and sometimes it is normal to be imperfect, the key is that when I find that I am not perfect, will I take the initiative to correct it?
This is also a way to progress, and it is also a positive self-critical mentality. I still remember one time, something even more strange happened, that is, when I was in the office, I actually found that there was a bowl that was dirty, but it has been put like this, no one cares, I don't know who the person who ate at the beginning, because we don't want to investigate, there is no need, because we are adults after all, not children, but this kind of thing is really bizarre, what is this?
When I saw this bowl that day, I sent it to the kitchen, but I still felt that I didn't know what kind of feeling was surging, they were all teachers, they were adults, they were all teachers, but even if it was not so strict, even if you ate late, when you finished eating, the canteen was already locked, no one left, no dishes, this is not a problem, I should wash the dishes, but why I haven't washed it all the time, I also think this is really something that should be taken seriously, because although this is just a person's problem, but there is a very special problemIn this case, we still have to do a good job of ourselves, so that we can develop ourselves well, so that we can really focus on improving our own quality, so that we can make great progress in improving our own quality.
We are teachers, we are teachers, but sometimes, we often ignore a detail will ruin our image, in fact, we are not only required of these, our every action and look, is to tell or this thing should be done, or should be done in other ways.
However, if we do not do well, there will be some other influences, and we can only make ourselves better correct our own shortcomings, be a happy person, be a responsible person, and be a real role model in such practice again and again.