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There was a rich man in the Song Kingdom, and one day the wall of his house was drenched by heavy rain. His son said, "If you don't fix it, someone will come and steal." An old man in the neighborhood said the same. At night, the rich man's house really lost a lot of things. The rich man thinks his son is clever and suspects that the old man in the neighborhood stole it.

The above is a fable in "Han Feizi". To this day, we can still hear similar stories in real life, however, it is also common to see many different and even opposite situations. When we understand things and deal with problems, is there a relationship between the distance between our feelings and the depth of our cognition of things? What kind of relationship is it? Please write an essay on the topic of "Emotional Intimacy and Cognition of Things".

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Emotional intimacy and perception of things are obviously different, for example, let's take the simplest example, if your family makes a mistake and wants to go to jail, this example was told to me by an aunt of mine, because such an example is indeed somewhat convincing, your family made a mistake, would you hand him over to the police? Some people say yes, some people say no, such answers are colorful, but there is one purpose, that is, things that are beneficial to our relatives, we will do it, those who say yes, must want their families to turn themselves in as soon as possible, and then reduce the sentence, I can guess, and those who say no, they really don't want their families to suffer. Everyone knows that going to prison is very hard, and it is also a thing that does not have freedom, and such a thing just does not want to see.

In real life, we are just a small community of interests, if we encounter something, we are thinking about how to minimize the damage, to put it simply, is the maximization of interests, this is what everyone is not pursuing at all times, interests are true, but what about feelings? It is also true, no matter what kind of things you encounter, your feelings are a key word that can determine your attitude. And then there are some people, what kind of role do they play in the whole process? Obviously, it's not really a character who can control them, sometimes they're bad guys, sometimes they're good guys, but it depends on their relationship.

There used to be an old lady, when we were studying, that old lady was the aunt of my classmate, because of my classmate? She was abandoned by her parents when she was young, and she didn't even know who her parents were, so she kept living with her aunt, but seriously, I don't understand, she doesn't know who her parents are, but how does she know that this person is her aunt? It's really strange, isn't my aunt my father's sister or sister? Since I don't even know who my father is? Why do you know who your aunt is? There are also some people who say they don't know who their parents are, but they don't know who their parents are? But where did you come from? I think this logic is very easy to understand, but there are really a lot of such things in our lives, let's put it simply, these people know who their parents are, but they don't want to admit it, why don't they want to admit it? There must be a reason, this classmate of mine told me about their family, in fact, she didn't tell me a person, if she really told me a person, let me help her keep it secret, I would definitely not write it, I would definitely help her keep it secret, but what happened to such a family? When she was young, she had two older sisters, and when her mother and father found out that she was a girl, they gave her away, and then she had a younger brother, and the reason why she didn't want to admit her parents was because why they just gave her away, not her sister or brother, and such a question has no answer, you say, how should her parents answer it? In fact, she doesn't want to know the answer, she just thinks that such a thing is the estrangement between her and her parents, and it is a gap that can never be resolved, in fact, according to reason, the words of ordinary parents will leave a good impression on their children, but some of them have left some bad impressions on their children, such as abandonment, which is a very serious thing that affects the soul, and many children cannot forgive such parents. So no matter how good or excellent their parents are, in their eyes, they are the worst parents, which may be a difference between emotional intimacy and perception of things!

The aunt of this classmate of mine, my story is not finished, this old lady once went to school, she went to the principal, because she found that her niece's face was scarred, or bandaged, like a very serious look, just like this, and the only time she went to school to make trouble, we didn't know her before, because she never went to school, and after this incident she never went to school again, because there was nothing else, but this time the incident was really an exception, this day this classmate of mine had a wound on the face, she found the school, as if someone else had injured her, but it was not, no one beat her, and the teachers in the school didn't know anything about it? Later, I found out that it was an activity at school, the girl didn't want to participate, so I went to the pharmacy and asked the doctor to bandage a small gauze, we were all deceived, including her aunt, her aunt didn't say how she asked, so she went to the school to find a teacher, to find the principal, to look for a circle, she didn't think that it was her little nephew who bandaged it herself, which was also too strange, but in the end after figuring out the truth of the matter, we were all stunned, such an idea can also be thought of, it was originally an activity at school, you don't want to participate and you can say it, but there is no need to do this, in the end her aunt can't end up, I have been apologizing, such a thing, she doesn't want to admit that her little nephew is getting in the way because of the intimacy of the relationship, but she is pushing the reasons and things onto others, and the rich man's thoughts in the material are the same, in fact, in real life, for our emotional intimacy, we generally make some wrong judgments because of feelings. We still hope that everyone can look at the problem objectively.