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National Paper I.: Read the text below and write an essay as required.

(1) Go your own way and let others do the talking! (Dante)

(2) People who always ask for directions will not lose their way. (Polish proverb)

(3) You should patiently listen to the opinions of others and carefully consider whether the person accusing you is justified. (Leonardo da Vinci)

(4) Believing in all is the same as doubting all people. (Sennac)

In the face of various arguments, some people think: whose words should I believe, and some people think: it is more important to believe in yourself. Please write an essay of no less than 800 words on the topic of "Believing in Yourself and Listening to Others".

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In many cases, this is related to people's character, some people have always believed in themselves, and some people have always listened to other people's opinions, but I think this has a lot to do with people's character, those who are assertive, have been assertive since childhood, but what about those who are not assertive? But since I was a child, I have seen a lot of assertive people, and I have seen a lot of unassertive people, when I was young, I have always listened to the opinions of my parents, because I am a child, a few are assertive, besides, even if there is an opinion, it is not practical, at that time, we were still children, and the consideration of the problem was not very mature, so the decision made was also a lot of gaps, such as the text I wrote before, I have forgotten what the name is, but such an article illustrates the problem that my ideal when I was young and the ideal when I grew up is different, the same as meOf course, there are many people who have only one ideal since childhood, or an idol in his mind, but I think when I was young, I still listen to some other people's opinions, because at this time we are still very immature to consider the problem, which requires parental supervision, which truly reflects the rights of parents as guardians.

But there was a stage, that is, when I was in college, I somehow suddenly realized that it was better not to listen to my parents' opinions, because my parents have been ordinary farmers all their lives, what good opinions do they have? It's not like others, parents are very powerful people, in that case, parents can give us some good advice, in fact, parents are farmers for decades, your parents have no ability, if they have the ability, they are not farmers for a lifetime, so don't live according to their way of thinking, so it is also a constraint for yourself, so that's how I think, I still tell my boyfriend about such an idea at this time, at that time, my boyfriend also deeply agrees with my point of view, I don't know if he deliberately agrees with me like this, or deliberately perfunctory meBut it's true that I have this idea, that is, I have to have my own way of thinking and doing things, so that I can become a capable person.

Later, after a period of time, I found that I had done a lot of things that I thought were right, but my mother and father seemed to have different reactions, but after that, I found that I still had no life experience, no social experience, no lot of experience, and no work experience, and even waited until I was at a loss to know that I still had to listen to the opinions of othersBecause he is afraid that you can't accept his opinion, he still won't tell you directly what to do, what can give you advice is those close to you, but such close people they can give you advice must be from the heart, but sometimes, their opinions do not conform to our minds, because of the limitations of their understanding, this is my opinion, because there are a lot of such people around me, the people around me are some farmers, they don't understand the law, and they don't experience much, so they take it for granted to give you advice, and sometimes such opinions do come from their hearts, but it is not the best way。

Such a point of view is constantly changing, as we are maturing, such a point of view is changing little by little, in such a day, I found that in fact, I slowly have my own ideological system, have my own point of view, have my own ideas, at this time but we will still consult other people's views, there is a good saying, three stinkers race Zhuge Liang, even if you are smart, there will be unexpected places, but you must also be mentally prepared when you consult, when other people's views and practices are not as good as your own practices, you must have your own opinions, but such a statement is only suitable for adults like us, and those little ones are not suitable anymore.

There is no fixed answer to believing in oneself and listening to others, just as in the fourth sentence of the material, Senak says, believing in all and doubting all are the same wrong. There is no absolute right or wrong in anything, it just depends on whether we can succeed, success is right, failure is wrong, this is how realistic this is, but it is also the most helpless choice, and it is also the final way to verify your choice. We sometimes believe that we are right, such as Liu Tong, I read his book, only to know that his parents want him to study medicine, but he chose Chinese according to his own choice, and developed very well, this is his belief in his own practice, success. And I, I'm the same, I didn't follow the instructions of my parents, I learned the major I wanted to learn, and I didn't succeed, but I have always lived in my own regrets, I always hope that if I can really turn back time, I can choose again, I will choose the major that my family let me choose, so that I may not have regrets, but regrets are regrets after all, which made me settle down a lot in my future life, but time will not go back, and I have been suffering the consequences of a loser like me。