Some people are so childish

I've heard people around me say that there is a boy, he has talked a lot of love, from high school to college, there are more than 20 virgins who have slept with them, but now people find that when everyone is looking for a partner, they find a wife, and they will care a lot if they are not virgins, they also care about this status quo, but there is no way, many people have already had boyfriends and so on at a very early age, so they can't find a virgin, such a reality is slowly accepted by people, and some people also feel that it is normal to not find a virgin, and such a boy, in our opinion, has slept with so many girls, actually treat all people as clothes, sleep and throw away and sleep, let us sound very sad, but sometimes we have no way, maybe people just have a unique charm, can attract so many people, and we really don't have such a charm, so we can only do ourselves wholeheartedly.

That's just one of the cases, and I don't know how this boy is living now, whether it's good or not?

Will the girls he liked before still go to him, will they disturb her life?

Is it going to go to him for things and troubles, in fact, this is what we don't want to know, but I also think that if there is really such a man, I think her life is not very happy, since there is such an experience, like owing a lot of things to others, in fact, many times people don't need to have too many things, just need to have what they like, and not like a city attack, a moment like this, a moment like that, a moment and this better, a while and that better, and finally I am not happy, as if life has become a game, and lifeWhat we are most pursuing is a stable relationship and a stable life.

There was another thing that was also very funny when I knew, like having fun with nothing. That is, there was a husband and wife in the village before, the two of them felt that the two of them could not be together after the quarrel, and then divorced, although it is only an example in life, not most people are like this, I still believe that most people are very good and responsible, but only such an example will find that they in order to divorce, even their own children are not cared for, but on the day of the divorce, they actually did not want children, and then sold the children, sold for 20,000 yuan, the husband and wife two and a half of the equal share, everyone has no burden, and then each goes their own way, each of them will never look back。

When I heard such a thing, although I just laughed occasionally like a joke, and then I didn't think about it anymore, but then I realized that it was really cruel, no matter what kind of differences and contradictions arise between two people, children are innocent after all, children are not wrong, these are the fault of parents.

When they later found out that they were wrong, they also wanted to recognize their own children, but this child also didn't recognize his parents, because he had a shadow psychologically at that time, he said that you threw me away to someone else, and later, he grew up in someone else's family, and when he grew up, he found out that when she went to see his biological parents again, at the beginning, because no one wanted a child, they sold the child, and one took 10,000 yuan, and each went his own way, because of such a thing, the child refused to forgive his parents, in fact, many things have cause and effectWhen there is a result, you must wonder what is the reason?

If I were this child, I would also have a very deep psychological shadow, because why did I throw others away like this in the first place, and then, when I wanted to get it back again, it really took more thought and cost.

That pair of parents, later I don't know how they deal with such a thing, when they all found out in conscience, only to find that children are very reluctant to admit their parents, every time is always very resistant, in fact, I want to say that they should regret their mistakes, and then be better to the children, maybe they can also find the former family affection, after all, it is their own biological relationship, the blood relationship has not changed, and their hearts can still gradually accept the good of their parents, but it takes a process。

Although it is a very simple example, it also shows that some people have no sense of responsibility, and some people, who have two children, will still think of divorce, do they really not consider the feelings of children?

At that time, I found out that we, no matter who we like, or what kind of feelings, but children are innocent, if you don't have children alone, you want to divorce, divorce if you want to get married, and get married is still very free, but having children is different, you must be responsible for children, because they are so young, it is not the fault of children at all, and the result of the mistakes of adults does not need to be changed to adults, giving them psychological losses for no reason.

I've seen a lot of divorced people before, some of them are still very good, they know that they are humble, they don't live together, or they know how to endure their other half, after all, they have lived together for a long time, but some people don't know how to endure, at the time of divorce, two people don't know whether it's because of anger, or because of mutual hurt and hatred, two people spend all their minds on fighting for property, what car belongs to whom, what house belongs to whom, and they don't think about the problem of their children at all, this is really a very bad parent, but many parents still have a lot of ideas, and they don't have their own conscience, so when they encounter things or marital problems, they will always insist on going on like this, or will consider their children, and will leave all their property to the children when they have no choice, at least in the life of the children, there will still be a lot of problems to solve, when they encounter problems, they will always pity the children, there is a lot of useful property, they will also have their own property, to support their children, this is a good choice, no matter what kind of problems they face, always choose the best way to choose, so please don't be parents who treat life as child's play.