"If you don't have a good skin, if you don't have a girl taking the initiative, you will live a lifetime alone, or you are suitable for a lifetime, and you have a soft heart, I don't know how many girls and children you will hurt, in the end, you have never been in love, or you have never really loved anyone at all......" Tang Yue didn't know what was going on, holding Qin Fan's face and babbling endlessly.

Looking at Tang Yue's broken thoughts, Qin Fan thought about what she said, she knew what kind of virtue she had, since Wanqing, she would never take the initiative to treat girls, and she couldn't bear to refuse in the face of girls' initiatives, and as a result, she hurt them and hurt herself.

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Today's women, as long as they are educated, willing to work hard, and will not be a problem to support themselves, then, first of all, there is no marriage to find a meal ticket, in fact, the range of choices of contemporary women is much wider than that of ancient women, especially women who have the ability to buy their own houses and cars, which means that the possibility of girls choosing men is more boundary, for example, you can choose a literary young man who can only support himself to play the guitar.

If you must consider the brand of the car, you must consider whether there is your own name on the real estate certificate, love, marriage, it is difficult to start, since most women do not have a plan to grow old for the rest of their lives, then, boldly pursue the man they want, it can be regarded as living up to the good days and long nights.

Why are men becoming more and more passive? Because any culture leaves a way for women to retreat, for example, the boss is too perverted and the body is not very comfortable, and women can easily say that the old lady is gone, but men can't, and if they retreat, they still have to support their families.

This led to an elite man like a founder, when he wanted to take the initiative to "strip naked" for himself on Weibo on Singles' Day, the public applicants were all Liao Liao, because another woman said that he had no savings, he was still in the entrepreneurial period, and if his career failed, he would not be able to support his family.

Finally, an active elite man appeared, many people turned out to be indifferent onlookers, and even women including the pioneer woman did not applaud him, so other men who were not elite and unsuccessful still dared to take the initiative?

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The tide of the times is always changing, only the expectation of love will not change!

There are so many beautiful declarations of love, but too many people are about to marry because they can't wait for that person to appear, and since then regrets have become a curse that haunts their lives.

Reading can be well arranged, work can be orderly, and the road of life can be walked according to a plan. But what can be expected when it comes to love, marriage, and marriage?

Most girls now have nothing but one person. But they don't want anything but death. Love is just an ATM password, marriage is just life insurance, everything has to be protected and no premiums are paid.

This ATM has no money to go to the next one, this one is not guaranteed, that one is still single, more than 10 or twenty years later, there is actually a sentence that men are not good things, and they will marry an honest man when they see that they are dying. She wasn't dead after the honest man died. Personal suggestion: Love, marry first make the terms of rights and obligations clear, men and women are equal, rights and obligations are equal, it is better to give up than to divorce badly.

If you use secular standards to consider, the proportion of successful people among men is only one percent, and everyone else is a loser, a man is defined as a loser by the current society is pitiful enough, and women don't give men a little confidence, they may really only become desperate otaku.

Since society has been so cruel, women, why bother yourself, if you don't want to spend the next Singles' Day, just be an active woman in this year.

When men enter the passive era, women can only run into the active era, in the face of this era when men are becoming more and more passive, women learn to take the initiative, which should be the same valuable ability as studying for a female doctorate!

Love marriage for women, is the opportunity to choose life again, choose the right person, the previous memories of struggle and hard work can be regarded as the accumulation of success, if unfortunately choose the wrong one, it will almost destroy all the beautiful illusions in the woman's heart for the future life, so that women are afraid of love and marriage.

Therefore, love marriage needs to be especially careful and cautious for women, and love marriage is a woman's choice for her second life.

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"I'm going to find a man like my brother-in-law. Dong Xin was forced by her sister to finally say what was in her heart.

Dong Min finished for a while, and was going to discuss her personal problems with her sister, after all, there are some truths as a sister, she understands her sister better, the times are different, and some truths still need to be said well as soon as possible, otherwise it is a fluke if it is right, and if you are wrong or miss, you will regret it for life!

How to choose, how to fall in love, and finally find a suitable home, this is indeed a big problem, especially for my sister in her early twenties.

She wanted to talk about the unreliable men she and her friends had encountered when they were younger. She wanted her to tell her sister all the lessons she had learned, and that was her own business. It's just that I didn't expect my sister Dong Xin to suddenly say something like that.

Dong Xin saw her sister looking at her with puffed eyes, and couldn't help but laugh: "Sister, is there anything wrong with what I said?"

Dong Min shook her head, Fanzi was an excellent mature man in her eyes, although he still looked like a student.

"Sister, how do you say you can find someone like your brother-in-law?" Dong Xin asked again, she didn't understand it before, but now she envies her sister for finding a good man.

Dong Min thought about it and threw his sister a copy of "chicken soup".

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For women, marriage is sometimes like an accelerator, making their lives leap towards warmth and happiness, and sometimes, marriage is like a slowdown, making women's lives quietly regress, from a carefree world, into a life environment full of torment like a fire pit.

Guo Moruo has a good saying: "If there are no flowers in spring and no love in life, what kind of world will it be." "Love is not the whole story of marriage, however, the absence of love in marriage must be unbearable.

Marriage is like a second "reincarnation" for a woman, how can she marry a good man?

First, stay calm and have strong communication skills.

The charm of a mature man is that he can give women a sense of security, and when they encounter conflicts, they can calm each other down first, and then find an effective way to communicate.

Because after the conflict arises, the relationship between the husband and wife will be lost, so it is very important to learn to stop the loss. Most serious men will have strong communication skills, and he will have the ability to "turn big things into small things and small things into small things".

A man who can restrain his temper and emotions has a higher emotional intelligence and knows how to love someone. If a man is short-tempered and not good at communication when he has a conflict with his lover, then the woman's heart will gradually wither and wither like a flower in the man's wood.

Second, if there is a conflict, we will introspect ourselves and not shirk our responsibilities.

Women are generally more emotional in dealing with others, and when they are angry, they tend to pay more attention to the attitude of men rather than the contradiction itself.

However, all her bad temper and willfulness may be wrong for people, and perhaps, she is just telling her husband that she needs care and love. So, in marriage, men have to learn to introspect.

Women are often prone to lack of self-confidence and will be in a passive position in love. Therefore, if a man knows how to introspect, he will understand her heart better.

Some people say that the charm of love is in men, and the wisdom of marriage is in women, but many times, men are the dominant ones in love and marriage. He can easily resolve women's entanglements and contradictions, and he can also make this family quickly change from a storm to calm.

A man who knows how to introspect knows how to empathize, is more likely to find contradictions, and does not shirk responsibility. Men with a sense of responsibility tend to care about women's feelings, and will not be selfish and only care about their own feelings.

Third, self-motivated in career and strong learning ability.

A motivated man, regardless of whether he has achieved anything at this time or not, is a "potential stock". Some women like to sit back and enjoy their success, thinking that they can only feel at ease by marrying the fifth diamond king, but they forget that if they don't work hard with a man, his achievements may not be shared with you.

A man is self-motivated and has a strong ability to learn, even if he has nothing at the moment, as long as he is willing to work hard, good days will slowly approach him. This kind of man can make women see the future and see a happy gesture.

On the contrary, even if a woman marries a rich man, if he is not motivated, then he will soon squander his wealth and silver, and the woman will fall into the abyss of poverty again.

The potential of love is unlimited, as long as a woman has a good vision and is willing to give men the opportunity to work hard, I believe that they will reap unexpected surprises in the future.

Fourth, have responsibility and strong problem-solving ability.

Men and women have lived together for a long time, and many things have become a habit. This habit slowly turns into dependence as the marriage lengths and seems unbreakable. But there are more crises hidden, such as boredom, quarrels, and so on.

If a woman marries a man who has no responsibility, then when encountering these problems, the two may soon face a cold war. A man's problem-solving skills in marriage are especially important.

Women are often very insecure in marriage, so when choosing a partner, observe whether he knows how to manage love and whether he knows how to solve problems.

After marriage, even if his wife does not do it right, he will be patient and guide. A responsible man will allow a woman to pass the bottleneck period of marriage safely, and will make a woman feel more secure.

Fifth, husband and wife can grow together

No matter what age you are, you need to grow yourself. Women will become sensitive and suspicious in marriage, so the growth rate of men in marriage is actually a kind of management of marriage.

A woman is a rose in a greenhouse, and if someone takes care of it, it will naturally exude a refreshing fragrance. If she is allowed to blow in the wind and rain, the result is often only a sharp thorn.

All women crave to be pampered and pampered. The speed at which a man grows in marriage will affect a woman's happiness index, and when the distance between two people is widened, a woman's heart will be very uneasy.

Therefore, in marriage, the husband and wife must learn to grow together. Men even have to take the initiative to learn to stop and help their wives behind them. A marriage will only last if two people walk side by side.

Sixth, know the cold and know the heat, and give the other party a sense of security.

As the saying goes, it is easy to ask for priceless treasures, and it is rare to have a lover. In marriage, it is important to meet a man who understands you, knows you, and loves you. A good marriage can nourish a woman and make her radiant. When a woman decides to marry someone, it must be with the utmost sincerity.

Women pay more attention to happiness in marriage and crave true love. A good man can give a woman warmth and happiness in this bumpy life, which will make a woman feel secure. After all, the most bitter thing is not life itself, but not meeting a person who knows cold and hot.

Therefore, when a woman chooses a man, she must see whether he knows the cold and the hot in life, and whether he can feel safe about the other party.

When choosing a partner, if you want to get the love and respect of the other person, you must learn how to love others, and more importantly, learn to love yourself. In life, give each other more understanding and support, and less complaints and hurt. It is better to choose a good man, as long as you meet the right person, the marriage will definitely be filled with honey, and you can be happy for a long time.

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