Today I am alone at home, I don't want to cook when I eat, I eat at the dumpling restaurant on my street, it is a dumpling restaurant that I have been to before, the taste is still very good, although this is the second time to go, but there are many reasons, this dumpling restaurant tastes very good, and I also thought of some practical problems when I was sitting here, I really have an idea here, some people are life killed his dreams, and some people are dreams kill his life.

I remember my father's previous experiences, he only did those things he was interested in every time, but life slowly became his burden, he had to take care of the family, he had to bear the burden of the family, because of the heavy family burden, he gave up his dreams, and he pinned all his hopes on the child, only to find out later, no matter how much you love a thing, or in life to have the minimum conditions for loving such a career, for example, at least to solve their own food and clothing problems, otherwise, their own great and enthusiastic dreams will still be murdered by reality, and there are many problems in their own livesEvery time he hovers between life and death, between life and death, these people, what kind of mind do you think he will have to cling to his dreams?

This reminds me of a movie I used to watch called "Wrestle, Daddy" , The player of this national team, although he did not realize his dream for various reasons, as a result, he put all his thoughts on the child, and when his child realized his dream, he was also so happy, so loving his motherland, it was really a good moment, and I also deeply felt that a group of people like us, a group of people who worked hard for the country and their dreams, although they gave up a lot of things, although they were training girls, he didn't care about the ridicule of others, but he just felt that girls and boys can also become athletes, and they can also become geniusesIn fact, at that time, he didn't know whether he could succeed or not, but only the final success gave him the ability to have self-confidence and show off, and if he didn't succeed, maybe such a father's idea was just used as a joke by others, and the fate of the child would also be ruined in the hands of this father, so in our real life, many of us dare not face the challenges of reality, to face the strange eyes of others, which is the most fundamental stumbling block on our growth roadBut since we have chosen a direction, since it is right to decide such a thing, and we have decided to do it wholeheartedly, then don't care about the eyes of others, even if it is a failure in the end, in the end it is just a joke in the eyes of others, in fact, it doesn't matter, maybe we will be respected by others if we succeed, but it is not terrible to fail, at least we have the courage to face life, and have the courage to face our dreams.

When I think of such a story, there is actually another person who has always occupied a very deep position in my impression, this person I don't know, it's just a story, and such a person is so famous, so many people also know him and know his story, that is Van Gogh.

Such a painter, when he was painting, his brother and sister-in-law always felt that a person like him was poor and couldn't even take care of his own life, so what qualifications did he have to pursue his dreams?

Many people have this kind of thinking, first of all, they must have the ability to solve the problem of food and clothing, and then they will have the qualification to pursue their dreams, but after a period of hard work, Van Gogh still did not succeed, and his sister-in-law also did not like a person like him, every time he didn't even have money for dinner, just buried himself in painting, and his paintings could not be sold at a good price, such a person may have been the focus of other people's eyes for a long time, how can they tolerate such a person, even if we meet such a person in real life, every time we always rely on others to live, and have no ability to realize their dreams, maybe life will be very cruel, using his ideas to stifle his dreams, but later, who will know that Van Gogh will really become such a smart painter?

This is something that no one can imagine, if you can really think of it, his brother and sister-in-law will not treat her like this, maybe they will respect him a little, maybe they will treat him with a better attitude, to achieve his dreams, in real life is the same, we have a lot of resources, but we never know contentment, we do not have a good life, but we will still pursue our dreams, maybe life has always been like this, some people are forced to give up their dreams in reality, that is, real life kills your dreams, but there are also some people because of dreams kill your life, These two sentences are very similar, but turn them over, the meaning is different, it is life that kills those who dream, because they are forced to give up their dreams in order to meet their current life status, and those who dream kill life because of persistence, even if their lives are a mess, he will use his dreams to support his spiritual pillars, in real life I also found that there is a person who is really very good, although he does not have a good life, but he is dedicated to pursuing his dreams, regardless of the result, maybe in the end he is like others did not succeed, but he at least did it with his own efforts, in the end, whether the dream died in life or the dream killed the life, or the dream was in the end, and the life was very good, no one could have imagined such a result, no one could see the future world at all, and no one could see what the future life would look like, but in real life, as long as you work hard, maybe life and dreams are an incongruous factor, but we still choose an inner balance between life and dreams.

So whether life kills dreams or dreams kill life, you still have to have the courage to pursue your dreams, even if life is not optimistic.

If you really don't care about your dreams, then it's really life that kills your dreams, although such a person lives, but it's also a kind of sadness, what kind of future can you have if you live without dreams?