The last time I chatted with a classmate, because I haven't seen an old classmate for many years, when I met on the road, I recognized each other at once, and after knowing the other party's name, I found out that it was an old classmate, we chatted for a while, and then added WeChat to each other, every time I wanted to chat with each other a few words, I found that the words I said, are some very bland words, and even can't arouse the interest of the other party, every time I speak, I found out after saying that the other party did not reply in time at all, and sometimes I found out that it was not that the other party did not have time!

But because we all have our own life circles, with our own life goals, we each have our own lives, so when we chat, maybe we don't have a lot of common topics, that is, because of this reason, I can only talk a few words every time I chat, and then there is nothing to talk about, so there is no passion, in fact, when we were studying together, we could still chat together very enthusiastically every time, chatting a lot, very enthusiastic.

But a few years later, when we met again, it became such indifference, which I couldn't accept, but we were really good friends at that time, why did we get indifference a few years later!

Sometimes I find that life is really a kind of filter, which can filter out a lot of unreal things, but after a long time, I find that we still gradually have to face reality, in the face of such a status quo, not only, the same thing happens to one person, and the same is true for several other people, I met my old classmates again a few days ago.

Same as the last time we met, after seeing only a few occasional chats, and then, when I was talking, in WeChat, the other party did not reply to me in time, and then I simply did not reply, I think they also have their own lives, and we gradually become strange in other people's lives, and gradually fade out of the sight of others, in fact, sometimes I find that there are many such phenomena, and we are also in the process of gradually growing up, slowly getting older, and finding that I also see a lot of things very plain, yesterday I saw a sentence is that the older you are, the fewer friends, why is this a sentence like this？

Even I couldn't guess the reason, and then I slowly felt my 30-year-old self, to my old classmates, why I still have the passion to chat with others, but others can't accept and reply to themselves, maybe they are busy with their own lives!

I'm busy taking care of their families, busy taking care of their other half, busy with their own lives! But when others didn't reply to my messages in time, I didn't reply for several days, I think it's not because the other party didn't see it, but because the other party has been indifferent to me, at this time I still feel a little sad in my heart, maybe because I didn't mix well!

Now life is gradually becoming more and more realistic, because you are not good, so, others think that a person like you has no practical use, maybe it is like this, maybe I think too much, but I really have such associations, when I tell others about my school, when I tell others about my work unit, they are also indifferent, maybe it is really because I am not good, but I think that mixing is also a kind of ability, and there is nothing if I am not good, I can live a dull life, not every time, like the wood shows in the forest, the wind will destroy such a status quoSometimes we will fall into a terrible vicious circle, that is, we mix well, or to compete with others for things, or to compete with others for the limelight, or to compete with others to do all kinds of things, feel that we will mix better, sometimes we will feel like we have lost a lot of things, but when we are not good, we will still be so plain and silent to do everything we should do, live our own life, such a good life, but sometimes, I am not good at mixing, and may not be understood by colleagues and close old classmates, they always think that you are not good, just incapablePeople will always see a person's glamorous appearance and not see your real inner world.

But why do you feel that you are not good at mixing and being so comfortable, and you are also so at ease if you are not good, because you will also feel that you should be in the countryside, because of this kind of life, let yourself live very happily, only to find that every time we put pressure on ourselves, every time we have a lot of pressure in the big city, so that we can live so full, in fact, it is just the pressure we give ourselves, and sometimes I find that I am so tired for myself, in fact, it is really unnecessary, but others do not necessarily understand yourself in this way, but because, when you mix well, you have a practical use for others, and such a chat with you, there will be an urge to get close.

Sometimes I find that when the feelings we got along with our classmates gradually became profitable, I couldn't accept such a reality at all, but after a long time, when we are already dozens of years old, it is inevitable to make such mistakes, and it is inevitable to enter such a strange circle, and sometimes I find that we really don't know what kind of existence to maintain our former classmates and maintain our former friend relationships, but later I also found out that since this is the case, then don't disturb other people's lives, and forget it if you don't reply to a few bland words, Sometimes I found that I could only live my life silently, and then I was also chatting with a few classmates, and found that I didn't have to talk, but I added someone else's WeChat, so a few good friends have been lying quietly in their WeChat friends, neither delete nor black, never chat, no contact when I found out what kind of embarrassment!

However, I still hope that my former classmates and friends can forgive me for not seeking progress and my bad status quo, because I really hope that I live a dull life, and that mediocre is true, instead of forcibly plundering with others, competing with others for things, competing with others for fame, competing for external interests, competing for gains, etc., all of which are outside my consciousness.