My dad just let me see you, how can I thunder and rain so much.

He's just that he didn't come out for a long time, you know, it's the content, but in fact, he really beat you silently and beat you into something.

I just said that I have to add for a long time, this is that there is a degree of beating a child, and it requires skill.

And I think there are really other ways to deal with it, like you say how my mom didn't let me run away from home when I was a kid.

Because when I was a child, I had to run away from home every day and night, and then my mother was in this situation, and she usually had to fight to save the world, and she ran away from home again, and my mother said that your clothes are from our family.

You took it off, I said I took it off, you took off your pants from our family, you took it off, I took it off, and said that your leather ring was taken off from our family.

Then I was 20 years old, and then I just rushed out of the house, but I didn't even go out of our family home, and then I just didn't know what to do.

Then I went back to our door and shrunk secretly, and then I didn't dare to mention anything from then on, and ran away from home.

This period of time is the most headache for all parents, but when it comes to puberty, I especially have to tell many parents.

It's when you're in adolescence, when you say what I just said to him when he's close to adulthood, and then you have to talk to him less of the first word.

Ye JingbeiSometimes in some lectures, I say that my parents' nagging and words before the age of 6 are golden.

After the age of 12, the words of my parents are rubbish, reasoning doesn't work, talking about reasoning, don't you understand, he doesn't have to, he thinks I'm older, I understand everything you say.

The one he told you was very outdated, so what is it at this point?

For example, when he had a conflict with his classmates, he asked, "Oh, what's going on?"

But many parents may not be able to achieve what they just said, that is, I can control this ability, so what should I do?

Sometimes you have to respect him first, you have to discuss this matter with him more, you say that you want me to think about it, what will I do if I do this, you can tell him that.

And don't accuse him, just you are stupid, how can you do this?

So many things that are often said, he is already very aggrieved, and you still say that people are stupid and have no way.

So there are many times when Ye Jingbei thinks that our parents are children in adolescence, because I have also met some parents who say, my child is not a thing, I just said that it is good to have a good time, and I have to endure it.

So don't be anxious with him at this stage, as I said just now, when you have a dispute with him, it is a conflict, 3~5 sentences turn around and walk away, he will adjust.

He didn't accept it at the time, but he would take your words seriously in his heart, but if you had to let him admit it at the time, he would never admit it, just like your mother just now said don't go, don't go.

I'm playing with you, you must be very warm in your heart, that's the age of a child, your heart is thundery, and in the end it's a little small, and then a humor comes back.

Then I think parents should also establish this kind of communication mechanism from an early age, that is, I asked my mother that day why because my mother is always nagging, that is, if she agreed, I repeatedly said I asked my mother, and I said why did you say it repeatedly?

He said that because he felt that he didn't understand what he said, I didn't give him a feedback mechanism, for example, when I talked about this topic, the child said okay, I understood or said that I was not happy about your words.

And this sentence is very comfortable to say, if you establish this communication mechanism well, everyone will become very little, you know, it will not be a state of language pollution and language violence.

I think the most important thing now is that parents should have a consciousness, that is, when the child is young, he should say yes, he should make rules, he should be serious, and when you are young, you let go of the chong.

I saw you roll over that day, and you don't have to wait until you're 12 years old to refuse to agree to him.

Now you know a lot of parents he really can't do it, you say this play ipad uh play games, then you you just say, alas, I now find that I often play games, some children, he doesn't do homework, he wants to play like this, what do you do?

In the end, you have to grab it, and if you grab it, you even snap it.

Maybe you have to do this when you are young, you like me, the third generation, once at home playing with that iPad to watch cartoons, I watched it for half an hour, I said that people don't look good at the eyes, I put it away.

He just raised his hand and slapped me, and I got up, and I said I apologize to me, and I walked away, and he was there angry and ignored me.

After a while, he took the initiative to start when I went to the kitchen and he followed me to the kitchen, I went to the kitchen, he went to the kitchen, and I said your apology.

Because you just did it, that is, I didn't do it, but I took it away from him.

So in the end, I told him, I said why should I take it, in fact, I know that you are very happy, but he is not good for your eyes, and I will have bad eyes when the time comes.

Then you're old and you want your life to be like without seeing it.

So I said I was good to you, I did this, I said that in the future, grandma said that when you can't watch it, don't watch it, and then it's very regular, sometimes he he looks at him and knows that he doesn't move.

Then when he looked at me, he said, "Then can you not watch and play with me for a while," and I said that is okay, I will deduct the mortgage immediately, this is the rule.

So you didn't make this rule when you were a child, you have to end it at the point, for example, I let you watch it for half an hour.

But don't let you not set these rules when you are young, you start to set up when you are older, so I say what many of our parents belong to, when he should be in charge, he doesn't care when he shouldn't be in charge, he starts to manage.

That is to say, when he is close to adulthood, especially in adolescence, we also call him close to adulthood, what is close to adulthood.

It's that he is going to start to get rid of his dependence on you, and at this time he feels that there are many things that I have to make my own decisions, and you didn't care about it in front of you, and you start to take care of it now, which is when he wants to be the master.

If you want to start managing it, the conflict must be very big, for example, ah, I didn't say that under the age of 6, you must not do this after the age of 6 and 12.

After the age of 12, parents want to show weakness, so what should I do?

Parents show weakness and apologize, such as this incident, he is saying that you are not right now, what should you do, right? For example, you are in a critical period, you can't keep dangling.

You've missed the rest of your life in the past few years, what if he doesn't listen, what should you do? Then you can look at him coldly and stop talking.

Then, he will be very uncomfortable at this time, you will feel that the battle of wits and courage is the fighting spirit and be careful, and then you even tell him, you say me.

Okay, just say you, you are you, this sentence, I am the title of this is 100,000 families, today Mr. Mao said that it is definitely a problem to ask Mr. Wei.

Because I explained inside, because he is my wife's best friend, my wife is not strict and wants to tell her that everyone has to introduce her first, this Teacher Wei We haven't seen each other for seven or eight years.

But when I saw you this time, I found that you were fat, it seems that you have succeeded in starting a business, if Ye Jingbei I introduce him today is the rock star Ark, the teacher of Shanghai Jiaotong University, the fast and fast hand anchor introduced.

But people are still investors and entrepreneurial mentors, right, what did you fool or something, didn't you really want to use you today, we want to study what is traffic?

Just now we are talking about a word called selfish desire right right, this is the flow of selfish desire that I have recently come out of the situation to keep up, what is missing you so much to help him open a work account, I want to pay attention to his work number is no problem.

It's impossible for him to prohibit me from managing the product mouth, but he is either a big grasp after the fact, but I want to add his WeChat account, isn't it so easy to agree to him?

So, you will see that your WeChat circle of friends is relatively closed, and some people will even think that this is my personal gift, and you can't pass out the screenshots of what I say in the circle of friends.

You're not authentic, that's to buy super selfish desires, what about the palace number, it feels like a person can pay attention to it, then it belongs to the apartment, relatively speaking, it's a bit like mass media, because your Civic traffic can also be converted into your relatives and friends, eight aunts and three aunts.

And then you make money from it, that is, you use your idea traffic to make money, don't you talk about that online shopping platform now, alas, I look at that thing is really like a legend of the battle for hegemony.

That is to say, this online shopping platform, it turns out that the first place is a woman, what's the matter, and then this is not the next one that came up and said that it was close to the first place, and then said why did he become this and this is close to the first place.

It's because of this, he is on this Douyin and this again, which means that he has dragged a lot of his private private domain traffic to this online shopping platform, this is not the case, it is not like this, what you said is right, then his answer is public.

That is to say, Ye Jingbei does Taobao live broadcast that everyone can understand, but if Li Yajie sells short in the circle of friends, no matter what.

It's that you really want to do a big business as an individual, that's still consideration, I think the commander is more about making extra money, even if I work, I can earn 20,000 yuan a month.

But we don't spend what I sell in the circle of friends, maybe this thing is not good, this is the problem of his injustice, why are there 5,000 people each.

Each has 5,000 people or even 1,000 WeChat accounts, and each person has 5,000 people, so this thing is very strange, that is, if you want a normal person to make your WeChat account into 5,000 people, you have to spend several years with 1,000 numbers.

Which number still has four or five thousand people, that is, using plug-in products to use plug-ins to sleep with his family.

Then when I woke up, there were 5,000 people on this number.

Why did he rely on the computer to add you, I have four or five in WeChat, and four or five did this at the beginning, but after I read other people's guys, he always felt that others agreed.

You say machine, for example, you got that he machine, he is like this, he is now the machine, he adds you Teacher Ma's WeChat.

He will have a sentence, Mr. Ma, I called him and even wrote out your phone number, and when I saw that it was really my own phone, then you would feel that alas, this was probably an occasion to meet.

After you pass, he won't talk to you, and if he doesn't talk to you, he will launch it in the circle of friends.

And then you may see, alas, I really want this thing, you just bought it, in fact, in the end, you don't know who he is, you don't know what this traffic is, what is the difference between traffic and click-through rate?

Let's say you have 100 traffic, maybe 10 people look at it repeatedly, but basically you can have so many questions, because it's like doing our business, and no one talks to me all day but this traffic.

And that's the data, that day, there was a scholar who told me about playing Douyin, what is addictive to playing, and he said do you know why you are addicted?

Or why do you search for something, that is, the things you like are stable, and they jump out one after another, he said that you know that there are thousands of engineers behind this algorithm, and the purpose of this algorithm is to make you addicted.

How can you get addicted to this?

Alas, I said I really don't believe in this evil, I don't believe in us freedom fighters, you know what I like, so I think it's very low.

However, it seems that there are only two kinds of business in the world when I do swipe my phone, and it is that the user of it will call his customer use

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One is the user, the other is the vendor, and the other is the Internet, that is, you know, because for him, in fact, you think you are his customer, but in fact you are his tool.

You're one of his countless algorithms, this other algorithm, so in fact, who's the tool, this can't be said, you're his tool, there's a school of thought called uh digital labor,

This theory is you, that company worker, do you think you are the customer?

You see you haven't gotten a penny yet, have you? He doesn't pay you either, you just say seven hours a day, eight hours a day, eight hours for him, seven hours and eight hours for him.

The back is the advertising that adds up to the money he earns, and then you are his employee, this is the data worker, this is a statement, a statement, a cocoa, don't be too pessimistic, you look at it upside down.

Because of the concept of traffic and this gameplay, he thinks you like what you want to buy, whether you buy it or not, alas, you can also use it to make money, with the method they just said I don't buy when you see that thing,

But I think I will buy it last week, Jiahui will buy it, Mr. Wei will buy it, and then you will transfer this to your private domain traffic, I learned it quickly, right? It's his husband, but you're also his collaborator.

So it's too complicated from that concept, and that's a point at the end of the day, and you're matt in that whole giant net

In the ESS network, you are a point, how do you use that point?

It's up to you, but what's the most annoying?

Or go back to the question of attraction, the problem of eating, and then say he's going to push away all of a sudden, what I'm going to look at, I think he's going to show up a lot, so let's guess what you're going to like, and then I'm always curious.

You still know me with my wife, I just clicked it and went to an inexplicable website.

And then, what will he do when he turns around, which kind of platform I hate the most will click on it, and say uh, it's broadcasting, he's pushing that product to another 10,000 people outside.

Ma Lihui, Xu Wentao, Jiang Fang He is the most annoying, then you can tell him, you use my name, this name is right, and I really clicked on him to say love with a machine.

Of course I clicked on him and hated it, when I joined this platform, it didn't have a 20,000-word clause, yes to who will read it is agree, even I just have it, I sometimes have it.

Look at that teacher Li Yinhe often answers some questions about this and this developmental education.

I clicked on the question of gender and saw how he answered.

But then they told me that there was one in it that could be seen and that it couldn't be seen, and then I found that a lot of people said, "Oh, what do you think of that thing, you know?"

That's it, and if you don't say it, I'm thinking about it.

In fact, what you just said is that you have become a traffic entrance, and when I first came into contact with the term traffic entrance that day, I think it is very, very interesting.

That's what I said, Ye Jingbei felt that he had the energy on his body, and left a blog message saying that he had read your book, and then he came to check your blog now.

Ye Jingbei said: Then I liked you very much, but now it has completely changed.

That is to say, it has become a show that you and I like very much, I like your Weibo very much, I buy a book to support you, I said why is this, and then a friend of mine told me that this is a traffic entrance transfer.

It's just that the way everyone recognizes you has changed, so what Dou Wentao has seen has become an entrance for others to drain traffic, if you can click in to see this and this more.

It's that you're not a person, you're an entrance, and your behavior is also an entrance, leading to something bigger, and what you're telling me will even produce a kind of science fiction.

Fantasize about whether I've watched some sci-fi movies or not.

Can you sell it in the future? Can you trade with each other? How much traffic do you have, how much traffic do I have, how much traffic I have, and how much traffic can be compared.

Leng Shuiyue said: So in the past two days, there has just been a particularly funny thing, and someone found out that Jay Chou has no fans, and then this is right.

Then I think he jumps, how can he sell it?

Ye Jingbei said: Then a group of middle-aged people like me were not convinced, and then they went to play Jay Chou, a little netizen, I will be scolded miserably, and give this fan of Zhou Jie all his opportunities.

Leng Shuiyue said: It was he who made a post, you look at this post, he just said that he was very skeptical, that is, alas, I have always seen people say that Jay Chou's tickets are difficult to buy.

Ye Jingbei said: But I checked his Weibo super talk ranking and couldn't get on, for me I don't know what super talk is.

Ye Jingbei said: Then he said that the official endorsement did not exceed 10,000 retweet comments, and the concert is usually watched by fans, is there really so many fans?

Leng Shuiyue said: Don't scold me, I mean that his fans will never do nothing.

Uh, the side of the super talk is the proof of traffic, what he said is that this matter turned out to be tens of millions.