Speaking of ideals, I also think of some things, sometimes, we find that in fact, the ideal is not necessarily a very lofty goal, and some small ideals look not very eye-catching, but it is also very meaningful, for example, when we are young, we always feel that if a child's ideal is to be a scientist, or some other family thing, everyone's mood is very happy, will think that the child is a child with great ambitions, but if the child's ideal is very small, will think that you have no big ideals, how can you be productive when you grow up, this is the opinion of many peopleBut when we really grow up, we find that many ideals can not be realized, even those study plans we made in high school, when we reached the third year of high school, I think people who have read the third year of high school have experienced, just read the third year of high school teachers will ask everyone to write a goal, what to be admitted to the university, but at this time the goal is a lot of unrealistic, I am also one of them, looking at the goals I set, but also full of confidence, those classmates around me are also the same as me, have a great goal, but also always strive for their goals, but after the real college entrance examinationYes, when we set the goal, we were enthusiastic and full of enthusiasm, but after the real college entrance examination, looking at our own goal, but also looking at their own college entrance examination results, helpless, we have to make plans again, at this time, if you observe carefully, when you open the goal again, we will find that there are few people who can achieve it, why is this so？

If you take the college entrance examination, the goal is very low, very in line with your own reality, I guess everyone also thinks it is not good, at least I feel that there is no courage to forge ahead, but when I really took a few mock exams, I know that I actually want to achieve my goals, I only need to play extraordinarily, there is no other way, is this the so-called ideal?

I think this is too unrealistic, when I really look back and think about it, I still remember my original lofty and grand goal, but now I think about it, it's just a joke, and I have never achieved it, this has nothing to do with me at all, when I just graduated from college, I think over the years, we have learned a lot, but also learned to face reality, the original self, the persistence and pressure on myself, always tell myself how to be, what is the real ideal, but after the real understanding, I know that all this is still like a dreamWhen we really wake up, we still have to face reality, and what we have learned is not only the ability to live, but also the ability to face reality.

Once because of a little unpleasant things began to be ready to leave at any time, this is the status quo of just graduated, so those recruited personnel department staff, are very dislike these recent graduates, because it is too ambitious, we have all kinds of colorful dreams, just looking for everything close to our ideals, but there is no such thing in life, the ideal when we were young, I remember that my ideal seems to be talking about mathematicians, when my family listened, they were very happy, or said that I am a person with ideals, not how my ideals were, even when I graduated from college, or will it not be such a reality, it is life that teaches us reality, we can't face reality, how to understand those ideals in our hearts?

Of course, my ideal can't be realized, because I'm not a math major, and besides, even if I'm a math major, what?

After graduating from university, my classmates and friends, those who used to work together, everyone worked very hard, but how many mathematicians are there?

There are none, and there are some people whose ideals are the same as mine, that is, the possibility of achieving them in the face of our own conditions is very small, and some times, because of the things we liked when we were young, we found out that we didn't like them so much when we grew up, that's all, really, how did I find out now that I didn't have a deep interest in mathematics?

Our people, many people, when they like something, it comes from their own excellence, and this is a misunderstanding, what you like, it is basically to like it from the heart, this is the real like, can you really like the same thing, to achieve not eating, not sleeping, but also to like?

And this misunderstanding of ours has always existed, when I was abroad, I remember one of my classmates, she just went abroad, and she chose the interest class only because she had an advantage over others in this area and chose this interest, and what about others?

They like it from the bottom of their hearts, whether they are good at this thing or not, they are outstanding at this thing, but like it is like, and it has nothing to do with these, I think it should be like this, not something that can bring you a sense of achievement, so you will feel liked, is it because of your own satisfaction?

If your satisfaction is gone, will you still enjoy it like that? It's really good to think about it, those who like a certain discipline, I think there are actually a lot of people who are like this, they are interested in this discipline, just because they have some advantages in this discipline instantly, and when their advantage does not exist, the more things you experience, the more masters you know, when your sense of achievement does not exist, you don't like it like this, this is really a serious problem, you like a thing and you like a person is the same, like is like, don't like is not like, and other people's identity, status, appearance, these are not related to like, yes, or when she didn't have these halos, would you still like it like this?

Therefore, we still have to clearly understand the difference between liking and disliking, and we must also clearly see whether we like it or like the sense of accomplishment in a certain aspect, rather than the impact of those external factors on us.