Like a thing, you have to really like, like a person is the same, don't like it because of some external factors, let alone choose because of some external factors, and in our real life, there are a lot of such things, many times are not really like, but like those external factors, so when you encounter problems, you will feel irritable, you can't start, and think of retreating, such a constant change, you don't know what you think of, such a constant change, you should be confused by yourself, and those ideals that have been changing have become unrealizable。

And the ideal is the same, is you really like, or you make a choice for your own achievements, there are a lot of errors, when you really understand, you will find that you have gone far away, and it is not easy to choose again, every re-choice means a change and adaptation.

Any ideal has limitations, not to mention that when you first started, it was such an ideal, and you have been fighting for this ideal for a long time, and then suddenly it became another ideal, and there was no detour at all, but it was impossible to change in an instant.

And when talking about ideals, whether it is the ideal when you were young, or when you were in high school, you must follow your own reality and be practical and better, so that it is feasible to achieve it, and the goals you set, if you know that you can't do it, and if you can't work hard, will you work so hard?

I remember when I was in high school, a classmate told me that I set my goal high, in this way, even if I can't achieve it, I am not ashamed, because the higher the goal, it will be very difficult to achieve, and it is normal for me to not achieve such a big difficulty, and there is no shame, if my goal is an ordinary undergraduate, that is, a two-book or three-book college, when I can't achieve it, how should I face my classmates and teachers, how should I face my own heart？

What I want to say is that you can't face your own face, and other than that, there's nothing else, and I think so.

I remember a movie I watched before, the goal of Yang Shuai above is to raise pigs when he grows up, because in this way he can eat a lot of pork, this is his idea, this is "Youth Dream" On a plot, for this plot, I also remember it vividly, his ideals at the beginning, in their class was made fun of by a lot of people, many classmates are laughing, why laugh, this explains some problems, because everyone must think that he has no ambitions, but in fact, he has the possibility and room to achieve his ideals and the goal he set for himself, because there are many possibilities, but the very distant dreams you said, they are just heard by others and sounded better, and there is no other use, when it is realized, it can't be realized, When it can't be realized, it's like a knot in my heart, it's too unhappy, it's better to give yourself a practical ideal like Yang Shuai, so that you can achieve it, what you like to do can be realized like this, and you can do it happily like this, and do it well, what a happy thing.

He didn't do a bad job in the end, not only selling agricultural products himself, but also leading the villagers to get rich, the key is to also engage in breeding and tourism development, and he was still very successful, which was really good.

Today I also read an article in a magazine, which said that when talking about ideals, many children in the city want to be a family, and the ideals of rural children have a lot of limitations, because they have very little knowledge, so most of their ideals are doctors, teachers, or some technicians, or something, but such ideals make people sound very realistic?

It's very real, and there is also a girl's ideal when she said it, which caused the surrounding classmates to laugh, and her ideal is to be able to be with her parents when she grows up.

Although her ideal is very simple, it is also the most scientific and technological content, but it has caused us to think, this ideal is enough to show her filial piety, but many people are fighting for their own careers, for their so-called ideals and want to break their heads and want to develop better, and does anyone really think like this?

Is there really someone who has such an ideal set up for the sake of others? Although this ideal is very simple, it is also a practical heart, and I have been thinking about this ideal for a long time, and many people hope that they can develop better, and this wish is really so beautiful?

Where should we put the filial piety in our hearts? Should we really care about our parents and relatives?

This is really a good question, and it is also a topic worth pondering, I think although her ideal is to be able to be with her parents, but her ideal is set up for her relatives and herself, as long as she works hard, she will definitely be able to achieve it.

When I think of this, I also know such a story, there are two apples, when others are picked, many people will choose the big one for their mother, but there is a little boy who has a bite of each apple, others don't understand it, but he said, I want to taste the sweet, the sweet one to the mother, his idea is very unique, but also a very attentive child, we are the same in real life, when we are in life, should we really spend more thought for our relatives？

Let the most important things in our hearts be more deeply reflected in our lives. It's not like when I was young, the ideal I said was something that I couldn't even reach, let alone others, I think this ideal of mine is just something I can think about and dream about now, it's just my own dream of taking it for granted.

It's still more practical, what can be realized is called an ideal, and what can't be realized should be called a dream.