Some time ago, when my cousin was working in Suzhou, she lost her life in a car accident, and I don't know the specific reason, but I know that the cause of death was because of a car accident, and when her family called her, her phone could be connected for the first time, but when she didn't say a few words, she heard a voice from the other party: "Oops!" Later, there was no reply, and when the family went out to look for it, they knew that they had been sent to the emergency room of the hospital for rescue, but died because of the ineffective rescue. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

The people of the family rushed over with a heavy heart, but it was to no avail, because that time was the day when the aunt and uncle went to Suzhou to play, Suzhou is of course a good place, but in the eyes of a worker, the city is even if it is beautiful, he is just a worker, just a city passerby, aunt and uncle to see her, all the way to see her, is to be able to take a good look at her life, but just one day there, unfortunate things happened, and then only regrets, it is such a reunion, it was originally a happy thing that everyone likes, but because of an accident and everyone broke up, and made an unpleasant appearance, the key is that the pain of relatives cannot be healed, not to mention that there are two boys around 20 years old, they don't have a family, they don't have their own careers, they lost their mothers like this, such two children are very pitiful, when they were young, because of their cousin's divorce, the reason for the divorce? Of course, I heard others say this, it was a long time ago, maybe more than 20 years, at that time, people's ideas were still relatively backward, my cousin's husband had an affair at that time, and my cousin's point of view was still not very clear, but when my cousin's husband came to ask my cousin to go back, my cousin was still willing to go back, but my aunt and uncle felt that my cousin had been wronged, and I didn't want my cousin to live with such a man. At that time, there were already two children of the cousin, because she was reluctant to part with her own children, so she forcibly took away the two children under the dispute between the two parties, in fact, it is okay to leave the children to her husband, it is more fair for everyone to raise one by one, but she is unwilling to live or die, so she has been running around with two boys, and finally remarried in a man, these two children finally have a place to stay, and live there, I also admire my cousin's strength and tenacity, she didn't know how to live there with her two children, but I heard that life was a little harder, when it came to this, I think I really admire my cousin, she's a person, she should not be greedy for fame and fortune, but she attaches great importance to family affection, she has repeatedly wanted to live well with her two children, in fact, she has been living with the hardest working attitude, sometimes people's suspense should be a momentary thing, maybe the happiness missed is like a cliff, a lifetime of hardship, but I really agree with this cousin's character.

Maybe in the eyes of many people nowadays, don't you want to take children at all? It seems to be a very stupid behavior, young people nowadays, I think if they really want to get divorced, many of them don't want to have children, so in this world, the poorest and most bitter are still the children of divorced families, because the times are different, the life that everyone pursues is also different, the divorce rate is rising year by year, I am afraid of death, I really don't know how to survive those children after divorce, because I am also a single-parent child, but I am not caused by divorce, I have said in the previous paragraph, my father died of illness, I deeply know that there are many problems in the character of a single-parent child, but I really don't know how to sayEven if the current national policy is very good, can give material subsidies and subsidies to single-parent children, we have always been like this here, every year the children of single-parent families will enjoy the government's living allowance, and there is corresponding care for reading, this is also a mandatory policy, I deeply know that the policy is very good, but it still can't make up for the damage in the child's heart, in my personal experience, the formation of some characters really has a lot to do with the environment in which they live, although the people around them have worked hard, but still can't decide the future of these children。

In recent years, I have also observed the situation of some children around me, whether these children follow their mothers or fathers, the ending is almost the same, most of the stepmothers and stepfathers will not take care of these children, I mean most, not all, so I also hope that everyone will not be in a hurry to refute me, there are also stepmothers who are very good for the children left by these predecessors, but I gradually found that many single-parent children still grow up with their grandparents, and when they reach a certain age, they will be a bit of an orphan, and their grandparents are also thinking about such a problem, if one day we are gone, who will take care of this childThat's really a problem.

This cousin of mine worked hard to bring these two children to their 20s, in fact, I still missed a fact, that is, the man that my cousin later married died within a few years, so many years my cousin is still alone with these two children, but now an accident, and these two children have become orphans, in fact, they don't know how to go in the future, the key is that the driver who caused the accident now refuses to compensate, and I don't know why, maybe this driver really feels that he is not so much wrong, and now he is fighting a lawsuit for such a thing, in fact, I really don't know what the outcome of the matter will beBut I know that the current society is sometimes really not what we imagined, and we still have to cherish life and cherish the people closest to us! This is my perception in this matter, and we still have to be cautious about life!

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